Great post. What I find most striking is how does one&#x27;s (future) wife just &quot;came along&quot; when spending most time at home building open source projects. I mean, I rarely code any more for fun after work (and to be honest, often during work), I am actively looking for someone to get together and let me tell you, it&#x27;s a bitch. Granted, I&#x27;m only searching online but then again I&#x27;m not looking for marriage material necessarily; even a semi-casual affair that would last more than a few weeks or months would be an improvement but it remains an elusive goal.