I guess you could say that you can opt out of warrior identification fairly easily---just grow old.<p>No one can really opt out of identification in terms of their beauty. Both men and women face the reality of being judged by their looks, but women bear the brunt of it due to cultural considerations.<p>In some cultures, as women age they no longer have to deal with being judged as harshly on looks but in the West beauty  is a point of interest deeply into a woman&#x27;s middle-aged life at the least, and even people who are technically the age of grandparents like Hillary Clinton are judged on their looks.