Damn. I am on okc and I am ball-busting women all the time.  Ok admittedly I got lucky a few times but they didn&#x27;t stick for long and most of them were meh anyway. I think the crucial difference in the GP&#x27;s case was that she initiated it; she had already preselected him for whatever reason. This almost never happens to me and when it does it&#x27;s not from women I&#x27;d be thrilled to get together with. Sigh