Eh, I am not for the CoCs and I agree with some of the points made here. But it also comes across as rather insensitive and blind to the very real problems of the people who are dreaming up CoCs etc.<p>I have spent a lot of years working to try to find a better path forward. I appear to be the highest karma openly female member of HN. So far, that doesn&#x27;t seem to have done that much for me. I sometimes question my stance. It gets little attention or support and the bitching from both sides gets a lot more attention and upvotes and...I am not sure there is any point to anything I do.<p>I don&#x27;t expect to have a regular job ever again, so some of the concerns that other marginalized people express kind of do not apply to me. But I do feel that I face very real barriers as a woman that posts like this one completely dismiss as not real. I generally do not agree with the approach of the people dreaming up CoCs, but I am sympathetic to the frustrations that fuel those choices and this post does not offer real solutions to very real problems. Unfortunately, it comes across as very dismissive of people who have very real problems.<p>I don&#x27;t think this is the way to start a constructive discussion about how to find a real path forward.