Virtual reality is perhaps an unfortunate moniker, because it encourages a dichotomisation of reality into &quot;virtual&quot; and &quot;real&quot;, and conceiving of these as opposing, or at least orthogonal forces. Thought of in this way, virtual reality seems to promise a compelling-but-ultimately-empty facsimile of reality, the ultimate fulfilment of the escapist dream.<p>There&#x27;s a repeating motif in reactions to disruptive technology, where the technology is first viewed from an oppositional mindset, which makes sense, because any disruptive technology will steal time away from other Old Activities that existed before the technology, and people who aren&#x27;t early adopters only look at the decrease in the time spent on Old Activities.<p>We saw this motif of oppositional reaction in how people viewed the internet: people are spending so much time in cyberspace that they won&#x27;t know how to effectively navigate the real world; people are having fantasy cyber-lives instead of spending time in the real world; he&#x27;s meeting someone he met <i>online</i>, he must not know how to interact with people, etc. But social networks descended on society in an incredibly short period of time, and worked their way into the furthest corners of our lives. The oppositional mindset gave way to an integrative one, where the notion of a &quot;cyberlife&quot;, as distinct from a &quot;life&quot;, is simply misplaced- the internet is simply a part of Reality, sans prefix and with a capital R, instead of being boxed up in the conceptual category of &quot;the Cyber&quot;.<p>There was another motifical recurrence when smartphones entered the fray. The oppositional critiques were voluminous and eloquent: we&#x27;re spending so much time texting we&#x27;re forgetting how to speak to each other; every crack in every interaction is plastered over with the ritualized and mutually fraudulent &quot;notification check&quot;, signposting the way to the unravelling of the social fabric..., etc.; you can find the Real World up there, when you hold your head high, with dignity, and not down there, with your head bowed, staring transfixed at a shining rectangle, face ghost-like, bathed in the soft pearlescent glow of vapidity. But at some point, the integrative mindset arrived. It&#x27;s hard to maintain the oppositional mindset when you&#x27;re sitting in a restaurant that you just found on Yelp, and are chatting to your friend on WhatsApp, only to have them sit down in front of you. The handoff between &quot;smartphone life&quot; and &quot;real life&quot; is seamless. Smartphones have inextricably woven themselves so far into our lives, that if you ask someone how their smartphone life compares to their real life, they&#x27;ll just give you a strange look. Smartphones are just a part of life.<p>I think VR&#x2F;AR could go in this direction, as just another arrow in our technological quiver. If we start looking at things like social VR, which has the potential to reshape the way we interact remotely, or how architects are today routinely using VR to demo to clients, it&#x27;s not impossible to believe that the integrative mindset could eventually overcome the oppositional mindset in terms of how we think about VR.