Because you have no idea who existencebox is, what his relationship with his fiancee is, and how well or not well they communicate. In fact, you&#x27;ve got evidence that they communicate well:<p>&gt; <i>I&#x27;ve had many and extensive (and quite good) conversations with my fiancee as to how she was brought up in a family that valued emotional reasoning over logical reasoning. Knowing the inputs and broad transactions to someone&#x27;s mental processes (especially if they&#x27;re very close to you) can help facilitate communication&#x2F;understanding</i><p>And yet, your advice:<p>&gt; <i>I recommend breaking off the engagement while you still can, or else you&#x27;re in for years of misery.</i><p>Your advice was certainly not to &quot;have some really serious discussions.&quot; It was break off an engagement based on skimming a single comment.<p>Most people are capable of communicating just fine. Just because that wasn&#x27;t the case with you and your ex doesn&#x27;t mean your situation is the least bit relevant to existencebox&#x27;s. That&#x27;s why it was uncalled for.