I have been partly and admin of a urban terror server for years with my team.<p>This game has always been a troll magnet of milfan boys with too much testosterone. I was one of them, except I had a girl&#x27;s name.<p>By kick&#x2F;banning appropriately with clear reasons we (as a team), we made even women and teens feel welcome (shit happens). I kicked&#x2F;banned consistently people for personal reasons (I don&#x27;t like discriminating people). I also kicked&#x2F;banned other people because they were not enjoyable. So were the others doing. We never asked permission to have a server we would enjoy ourselves playing, we were paying for it. And it was bringing people. And it was fun for everybody, even women and kids.<p>CoC is just an excuse for failure and lacking balls and that thinking just being &quot;the owner of a digital place&quot; makes you a leader.<p>Money, title, even skills don&#x27;t make you a leader. Just succeeding in leading.