Not understanding. Have not done what? If you mean finding and keeping her, well, we&#x27;re still dating after having known each other for several years and some nasty experiences. Our relationship gets a little better every day. I&#x27;m satisfied with where we&#x27;re at right now. I&#x27;m not ready to get married and she&#x27;s not ready to settle down yet.<p>More to the point, you don&#x27;t keep a woman by locking her in a cage. You do it by being the first person she calls or texts to tell about her day.