<i>When an archer is shooting for nothing, he has all his skill.<p>If he shoots for a brass buckle, he is already nervous.<p>If he shoots for a prize of gold, he goes blind or sees two targets —<p>He is out of his mind!<p>His skill has not changed. But the prize divides him.<p>He cares. He thinks more of winning than of shooting–<p>And the need to win drains him of power.</i><p>From the poet zhuang zhou. I also have friends who have extreme insecurities brought on by bullying and family issues and have a strong drive to succeed, and I can agree that I don&#x27;t envy having these issues, because as focused as they are, they also mentally suffer with every setback and constantly battle anxieties as they chase their goals.