&gt; There are others for whom that game doesn&#x27;t even exist and they can be just as desirable and amazing as the first group.<p>The fitness function might be completely different from one woman to the next, but I think extremely few are the type to just buy the first car off the lot without some kind of comparison shopping &#x2F; fitness function maximizing. And at that point, your standing relative to her other suitors indeed becomes more important than your absolute level of achievement.