I&#x27;d not, but my self-interest is rational, I&#x27;d never risk loosing the companionship of my wife who&#x27;s intelligence I admire, who I find a great mother and a great enrichment of my life. I guess we do agree. As I said, perhaps I tend to harp to much on the ethics of rational self-interest. I tended to ignore my own needs in relationships, the works of Ayn Rand were a big eye opener.