I will try to give them the knowledge and tools necessary to succeed.  Doing so is time consuming and expensive.  The actual tools necessary for success (IMHO), like the arts, are not given any priority in our schools.  It could be that they follow the same path I did.  It could be that they become musicians or engineers or whatever.  It doesn&#x27;t matter as long as I supply what is necessary for them to take whatever path they might want to.<p>Success is happiness.  I want their adventure to be easier than mine, with more tools, mentally and otherwise, than I had.  I have that opportunity and it&#x27;s awesome.<p>I don&#x27;t think that I necessarily want to defend my parenting experience as something for everyone, but it&#x27;s definitely the primary source of joy in my life, for all the difficulties it brings.<p>Oddly enough, it was the movie Click that really showed me the way.  How weird is it that it would be an Adam Sandler movie that would be a primary driver in my life philosophy?