I don&#x27;t buy into this kind of cynicism. And it&#x27;s silly. I enjoy our time spent together, and consider paying for a second meal for the privilege of doing so a bargain. She is certainly the most expensive girl I&#x27;ve ever dated, but she&#x27;s actually a really cheap date. When we go out, I spend more money on myself than on her.<p>She used to ask for me to pay for her nails and massages and stuff, I would do it once, then not do it anymore. If I were making more money, I could budget it in, but as it is I just don&#x27;t have it. I encourage her to get her other guy friends to pay for that stuff for her.<p>And on the &#x27;using&#x27; issue: If I had the kind of money these guys have, and the willingness to use it on dating, I&#x27;d regularize it. I&#x27;d have accounts at all her beauty spots and have them just send me the bill every month. I would of course talk to her to keep it from getting excessive, (more likely I&#x27;d negotiate with the business for better rates) but I would not begrudge a lady for taking advantage of my generosity. <i>That&#x27;s what it&#x27;s there for.</i>