The moment my dad said his only worry for me was making sure I was able to learn and handle being responsible for myself and responsibilities I&#x27;d have for my life including others.. to realize I had already been doing it for a bit.<p>Beyond that, I think as an adult it&#x27;s a critical moment to realize it&#x27;s not about what you get from the world, but what you are able to give, and your ability to think about others as much as you think for your self is critical when you have to work and function with any combination of working in the world, relationships, family and kids.