&gt; <i>As a result she spends way more time with me than she does with the others. Where other guys spend money to cover up their perceived inadequacies, I put time and effort into making every moment I spend with her special.</i><p>But she still seems to need to meet rich guys who live in another state despite all the quality time with you? Perhaps you&#x27;re deluding yourself and she&#x27;s just spending time between the more interesting guys with you because you&#x27;re more available.