&gt; So I&#x27;ve started &quot;putting her to bed&quot; and then coming out to do work<p>That is EXACTLY how I handle this<p>&gt; But the problem is sometimes we have sex and then I fall asleep cuddling her, so it&#x27;s kind of a trap.<p>Me having to sleep with a CPAP (or else horrible snoring and horrible sleep for us both) ensures that this will never occur with me (the falling-asleep-cuddling... not the sex... lol)