I think that in a healthy relationship where one spouse stays home, there&#x27;s no concept of asking for money. All resources are assumed to be shared, and <i>discussions</i> will of course happens about spending money, but not <i>permission</i>.<p>I agree that the scenario you&#x27;re imagining sounds undesirable, but I don&#x27;t think that&#x27;s necessarily how one-spouse-stays-home must be.