It&#x27;s more than that.<p>Even if you choose to fight, fight the right way. Being overly emotional and ego driven (&quot;I&#x27;m right, how dare they?!&quot;) can be very damaging to a relationship, even if you end up &quot;winning&quot;.<p>The key, as I&#x27;m trying to teach myself every day, seems to be to get yourself and your ego out of the picture.  The advice I really loved was to picture yourself as some absurd, godlike dictator, demanding the world bend to your whim... With that in mind in mind you realize how silly you&#x27;re being.<p>It&#x27;s something I struggle with every day, but learning this kind of self control is very important to long term success.