I&#x27;d love to say that things are any more pleasant for gay people, but I dare say it&#x27;s the worst of both worlds: Most of the messages you receive are poorly written, by guys looking for a one-night hook-up rather than to start any sort of meaningful relationship (like the women endure in this story). At the same time, because most of the guys in the world are attracted to women, the potential dating pool is tiny (like the men endure in this story).<p>Or maybe I&#x27;m just doing it wrong. I&#x27;m 26 and never even been on a date, so that could be it too.