Background: I&#x27;m currently a 30-year-old male, who used OKCupid as a 21-23 year old male, before finding my wife on there.<p>I think a lot of it has to do with what you&#x27;re expecting out of online dating.  I was a person who liked to date, and found fun experiences even in disastrous dates.  That approach often leads to lots of dates with people with the same mindset.