&gt; you&#x27;ll message a girl, and ask a question. She&#x27;ll respond with the answer, and that&#x27;s it.<p>this. Most of the interactions I’ve had go something like… “I see you like [some author that we both like], have you read [an older book or something related]?”<p>“No.”<p>“…”<p>I’m left with the impression that we’re in the middle of a massive societal shift whose rules are still being written, and by the time it all gets sorted out we’ll be too old for it to matter.