Just a quick add (thanks for the great convo) - Psychologically, to me it is a matter of thinking that even if you don&#x27;t bring money into the relationship you still have full and equal rights to it (family money is family money, source is forgotten). To me, it&#x27;s weird (but understandable) that you don&#x27;t think money he earns is your money too and vise versa. But I think both interpretations are equally valid.