&gt; because you&#x27;re more available.<p>The availability aspect is interesting. I used to try to play availability games with her. They mostly just got in the way. I much prefer to be generous with my time, and set boundaries rather than be arbitrary.<p>Her time is very limited too. She has a full-time job that keeps her occupied sometimes during the weekend as well. She doesn&#x27;t have a lot of available time for dating herself. Despite this, she regularly makes time to come see me.<p>She shows me the text messages of the &quot;more interesting guys&quot; she also dates. Nasty, ugly, controlling, the lot of them.<p>The impression I get from her is that she doesn&#x27;t really understand guy psychology and so doesn&#x27;t really grasp why it&#x27;s all a waste of time. But I can be patient. I date other girls too. My dating life isn&#x27;t as full as hers, but I like to think my &#x27;others&#x27; are way better quality than her &#x27;others&#x27;.