It&#x27;s a balancing act. As a kid the group has a natural reaction to support you, they like it because you&#x27;re a kid and you like it because that&#x27;s how it&#x27;s been since you started to breath.<p>Depending on the person, it can be hard to sense how much it is part of your life, but at one point the adult around won&#x27;t feel as good to support you, they also realize you are &#x27;like them&#x27; and should be able to deal with it and they don&#x27;t have to bear your cross. You also start to empathize a lot more with people and don&#x27;t feel good whining or asking for help too much as you see that they faced and face the same issue. So the situation level out, or it should.<p>ps: btw, I really wish society would spend a little more time conveying this information. It has very large implications in you and your loved ones life. I also believe that previous eras and&#x2F;or societies had a clearer path (rites of passage) whereas right now it feels like an existential free-market where you&#x27;re too easily able to wander around for too long instead of swallowing the pill.