This is how we do it. My wife would also baulk at the idea of &#x27;asking&#x27; me for money, even though it&#x27;s my job that brings money in for the fam. To me, it seems strange that a couple would consider some money &#x27;his&#x27; and some &#x27;hers&#x27; regardless of where it came from. I&#x27;ve seen hints of that type of spousal relationship here (including in GPs comment) and other places and it&#x27;s very foreign to me.