&gt; This is the &quot;abstinence-only sex education<p>For the record, I don&#x27;t think your stupid if you have a child accidentally.<p>However, once you do accidentally have a child, the results are often not pretty, and I will feel bad watching as you deal with the consequences of your poorly thought out decision.<p>Regarding programming, I can&#x27;t see the relationship you make at all.<p>If you write a good program, well good job. If you write a bad program, you are probably going to write a better one next time. (Ever look back at your old code?)<p>It takes practice to get good, and the more we work at it, the better we&#x27;ll get. Just keep trying.