It&#x27;s not that they don&#x27;t want to, it&#x27;s that they can&#x27;t. They may be 3000 miles away, or they may have just got a cancer diagnosis, or their knowhow of math may not be up to snuff for your problems, or they don&#x27;t approve of your habits and are doing it for your own good. But yeah, you hit a wall where the only person that can help you is in the mirror. That choice, to live your life, that&#x27;s a big turning point.