Used okcupid last year, went on 3 dates in the first two weeks, ended up seeing one of them for 3 months, lovely woman but just not a long term fit so no regrets.<p>Not used it since while it was fun I&#x27;m just not at a point where I want another long term relationship.<p>I seemed to get quite a few messages from women which is very strange since I&#x27;m on the &quot;a face only a mother could love&quot; side of the attractiveness curve - (hell the profile picture was me on a bike when I was 40lbs overweight, I actually look better now than then - also got told that, 2 of them said I should use a better more recent pic). I was brutally honest on my profile which all 3 dates said they liked, I&#x27;m also finding it a <i>lot</i> easier to meet women in real life as well, I dumped a load of weight last year and got back into the same shape I was in in my early twenties and I think that combined with the confidence that comes with age (I&#x27;m mid thirties) has had a dramatic effect.<p>Also the less I look the more women I seem to end up going on dates with, not sure how that works either.