I am talking about this situation:<p>&gt;some times people are having a really bad day for reasons you can&#x27;t see<p>It&#x27;s not clear how you know someone is having a &quot;really bad day&quot; when you explicitly rule out knowing the reasons why the person is having a really bad day.<p>Maybe they told you they are having a really bad day? That is fine and fairly easy to empathize with.<p>Maybe you are just assuming someone is having a really bad day because of how you perceive their actions?