I don&#x27;t think that&#x27;s what cubano was implying. Nobody would blame women for <i>responding</i> positively or negatively to attractive or unattractive men - that&#x27;s just taste, and it&#x27;s completely natural.<p>However, it&#x27;s become acceptable and fashionable to <i>shame</i> unattractive men as &quot;creepy&quot; - that is unacceptable to me (unless the person is <i>actually</i> creepy, e.g. a stalker etc.), and women (and whoever else is doing it) <i>are</i> to blame.<p><i>Edit:</i> We can compare being &quot;creepy&quot; with being &quot;a slut&quot;. It&#x27;s OK to not be attracted to women (or people) who are &quot;sluts&quot; - you&#x27;re entitled to whatever taste or compatibility criteria you want in a partner. But it&#x27;s definitely not OK to <i>shame</i> women for being sluts.