I know what you are going through! I was let go in the spring and was married in the summer (I am working again).<p>You need to focus on the excited, adventurous emotions and the confidence it brings, which in turn, will help find you a new job.<p>If you are not confident (eg. believing jack-of-all-trades is a negative, seeing not having a degree as a barrier, thinking a new grad is a better hire than you) then you might not apply to the jobs you have a chance of getting. The nervousness and lack of confidence will come through in the interviews you do get. Others here have provided tips to help: list at the skills you have, put them in a positive light, practice delivering the message in interview and conversational settings. (We all know how much confidence matters when meeting women, same thing.)<p>A lot of things you mentioned don&#x27;t matter: no degree, being 30 (you mentioned that 3 times), recently married, same company 10 years, being a jack-of-all-trades.  They don&#x27;t matter because you can&#x27;t change these things in the short-term.  They nervousness and pressure they provide just are distractions. None of those impact the actions you have to take going forward.