Why can&#x27;t she be treated as both simultaneously? Why does treatment as an &quot;engineer&quot; require the abolition of her &quot;lady&quot; role? Are the two roles not compatible?<p>I personally thing it is more sexist to try and deny gender differences than simply recognise them and deal with people respectfully. I find the implication that the only way to not be sexist is to treat everyone as gender neutral disturbing.