&gt;I&#x27;m still trying to live in an urban area -- it&#x27;s been a goal of mine for my entire life. But it feels like all of society is working against me for trying to do this.<p>Do this. Even if temporarily. I&#x27;ve lived in the suburbs all of my life (and currently still do). The year I spent in a real city gave me great perspective. I quite enjoyed some parts and hated other parts. If anything it made me really understand myself more (and appreciate the suburbs!)