And you missed the point of the GP poster. The GP would have apologized for this to anyone he didn&#x27;t know well. Why would it be GP&#x27;s fault for &quot;making&quot; someone feel &quot;out of place&quot; by treating them with a certain respect that has nothing to do with any personal characteristics? Her role wasn&#x27;t &quot;lady&quot; or &quot;engineer&quot;, it was &quot;person I don&#x27;t an F-bomb-level rapport with.&quot;<p>At least that&#x27;s the main point of GP&#x27;s post. What the guy in the story was thinking is debatable I guess, but I don&#x27;t see much point since we can&#x27;t know.