Keep in mind that the situation she recalls, the one with the guy that apologizes to her for cussing, is perhaps not the sort of sexism you would want to try and get rid of.<p>The way I see it, this coming from a early 20s male (read, shall we say, constantly aware of the opposing sex), is that that attempt to be polite to a woman has nothing to do with her being a woman in tech, but simply being a woman in a social situation.<p>I guess what I&#x27;m trying to say is that it&#x27;s pretty normal for a guy&#x2F;girl to alter his&#x2F;her behaviour when in a social situation with a member of sex he&#x2F;she&#x27;s interested in. Eveb uf the situation in question is supposed to be 100% platonic and&#x2F;or work related. There is a limit, of course, to how far we can&#x2F;should excuse this behaviour in people. But I don&#x27;t think it&#x27;s fair to stomp on people when they behave different within limits.<p>Because you _are_ a woman, and it _does_ make a difference, but obviously not in the sense that you&#x27;d be any more&#x2F;less competent because of your gender.