Your intent is not magic. If your communications are &quot;misinterpreted&quot; then it&#x27;s your fault for not being specific enough.<p>Taking me to task for my interpretation (which attributed no SPECIFIC statement but rather an interpretation of your words) is a classic example of trying to use an asymmetric appeal to &quot;civility&quot; as a blind for your mistakes.<p>So no. If I see you spout stuff I consider to be ableist, and I feel like it, I&#x27;m going to hit reply and call your statements ableist and explain why.<p>That is the nature of this forum, and I&#x27;m one of the very few people who actually tries to do these things; so you&#x27;re not exactly being overwhelmed with recriminations of that sort.