This is such an unhealthy way to view the world, so full of cynicism and an easy path to self-loathing.<p>&gt; Not achieving &quot;success&quot; (failing) is rarely free: it leaves emotional and physical scars.. Repeat it a couple of times and you&#x27;re either dead or on your way there.<p>This is where the mindset change matters so importantly. If you view every point of lack of success as failure, of course it will defeat you- but if you instead view it as a learning experience, and you try your best to understand why the failure came, you can build something out of it.<p>This is a common strategy to gaining skill in- well, anything- but especially in games. Often the difference between someone with innate talent and someone with experience, is that the person with innate talent can keep up in terms of general mechanics- they can think ahead, guess their enemy out, and go faster, just stressing their enemy out.<p>But they&#x27;ll still be beaten incredibly quickly by someone with experience, because they don&#x27;t recognize the patterns that lead to loss. In fact, one can climb the ladder of skill to the highest echelons of Chess, Formula 1, or Starcraft off of simply exploiting other people&#x27;s lack of knowledge in a specific pattern.<p>&gt; In fact, the rule is this: No matter how hard you try, you might still lose. Sorry about that.<p>For sure. But then again, to always lose no matter what, is about as likely as being Bill Gates. And none of us- truly, none of us- know what the future holds for us. Some of this decade&#x27;s most successful people didn&#x27;t see it until their late 40s.<p>Life is a lot more interesting than &quot;settle for average&quot;. We haven&#x27;t even begun to figure it out, that&#x27;s why you can even still have such crazy outliers as Gates.