I&#x27;m not confused. I just don&#x27;t agree that it makes me an asshole. I know it&#x27;s differential behavior based on gender. That&#x27;s why I thought it was interesting and on-topic to share.<p>For me, it&#x27;s a safety issue. I&#x27;m pretty certain that I&#x27;m going to be able to handle 99.99% of encounters with roadside females (or elderly). I&#x27;ve gotten into an altercation with a roadside male I stopped to help in high school (who was likely high when he ran his car off the road).<p>I don&#x27;t view it as particularly different from someone choosing to donate money or time to support the NAACP or NOW. Maybe donating to those organizations is racist and sexist, respectively? (Pedantically, it is, but I don&#x27;t view those actions as negative or &quot;asshole&quot; either.)