&quot;I should just leave it to my wife who is 10x a better person than me.&quot;<p>The first thing to know in a family is to recognize &amp; respect when someone is better than you. You already did that with your wife. I am sure, you will see that in your child - as an individual with his own merits. Children don&#x27;t need to be taught to be a hacker; they need a companion to explore. See things from his perspective; learn along with him; you will have a wonderful time!