Or the kids will say, &quot;I&#x27;m sorry, but I&#x27;m moving where the jobs are, and I&#x27;m going to have a life of my own. I&#x27;ll come visit you once a year, but I&#x27;m not giving up my life for yours.&quot;<p>The good parents will say, &quot;Good! Don&#x27;t sacrifice your chance for happiness for me. I&#x27;ll make it through.&quot;