Clearly, your exgf was a gold digger and she assessed (probably correctly) that you bank account was now worthless, and that your startup employer won&#x27;t be the next unicorn.<p>The anxiety you got from your job is probably also a sign of the same thing, unconscious in your case.<p>Probably not entirely your fault, I guess there are more people involved in your startup employer.<p>I would say, share the pain: resign from your job, and find a better one.