Hi mate, thanks for posting. First of all : get her back in what ? There&#x27;s no point in getting her back if it&#x27;s to put her in the same mess, get your life sorted first.<p>It sounds like you successfully identified the cause of this issue. I&#x27;ll be  honest with you, if you can&#x27;t change the way you feel when going to work, find another job.<p>If I was you, I would quit my job, and after I found another one call my gf, tell her that I realize I screwed it, that I am very sorry and that I learned from my mistakes. By doing so, you have proofs that you are serious about it and she will likely come back.<p>Edit : But ultimately you need to understand the benefits of changing your work environment so that even if she doesn&#x27;t come back you will have no regret. Keep your life  above your work, consider your best interest first.