You&#x27;ve got a point. I&#x27;m sure being physically attracted to someone enhances or diminishes the effect of their actual approach. Additionally, attractive people are more confident, and confident people tend to not behave in as many creepy behaviors.<p>That being said, the underlying theme of cubano&#x27;s comment was blaming women for (shockingly) responding positively to flirty men who they find attractive, and responding negatively to flirty men who don&#x27;t stop even after it&#x27;s clear that the women just aren&#x27;t into them. The subtext of cubano&#x27;s comment was that it wasn&#x27;t the guy&#x27;s fault for being creepy, after all that was only because the woman wasn&#x27;t attracted to him! He <i>acted</i> just the same! These guys think that you can evaluate the behavior independent of the context, which is of course ludicrous.