You are welcome to your opinion. Some parents choose to make their kids pay for the entire education even when they can afford to pay for college. They see it as a ownership and responsibility lesson. I&#x27;ve seen that work very well for several.<p>I don&#x27;t see parenting as providing your kids with everything. I see it as provide your kids with the tools they need to be successful in life. Sometimes the hard way is the better way.<p>When a child is ~26 then hopefully they can be on their own.<p>I&#x27;m not sure how you can judge me self centered when I provided for the education of one child already and am ready for the 2nd one.  I was pointing out that there are many dimensions of being a parent and providing for college.