&quot;You didn&#x27;t actually cubano&#x27;s point. You&#x27;re straight so you weren&#x27;t attracted to any of the guys who approached you. cubano was saying it would be different if you were approached by a woman you were interested in. Perhaps the indirectness would seem coy instead of creepy.&quot;<p>Maybe the women that cubano observed were not attracted to any of the guys that cubano saw approach them either? Maybe they weren&#x27;t attracted to them because they were actually creepy?<p>I have never seen a woman treat a friendly guy who approached her as creepy just because the guy wasn&#x27;t &quot;attractive&quot; to her, unless that guy was only being &quot;friendly&quot; in his own mind and actually acting very sleazy.