&gt; If you can&#x27;t contain your emotions for getting &quot;ragged on&quot; for ending up with the crap gift, then you really need to grow up.<p>Oddly, that&#x27;s the kind of language bullies often use. &quot;Why can&#x27;t my victims grow a spine and join in the laughter that goes along with slipping a banana down the back of a fellow&#x27;s trousers and then hanging him by his underwear from a coat hook?&quot;