Decades of pat advice to &quot;seek counseling&quot; rather than deal with it as the answer to every problem, from the schoolyard fight to any other kind of interpersonal problem, from &quot;Dear Abby&quot; and any number of more recent pop psychologists, helecopter parents, to school and workplace policies, etc. Funny to see that complaint in <i>Psychology Today</i>, as they are probably as guilty as anyone in bringing about this state of affairs.