I like it, similar to what they do in some pre-marital or marriage counseling sessions. One side lists a grievance, then before the other side responds they have to repeat what they heard and get confirmation before responding. &quot;So if I&#x27;m hearing you right, you don&#x27;t like it when I... Did I understand correctly?&quot;<p>It feels ridiculous when you do it at first but it becomes an incredibly helpful tool.