Citations, please. I&#x27;ve grown up and lived in many cultures. Manners change. Abuse does not. Invoking cultural relativism is not going to work here.<p>Let me explain: abuse is about identifying a boundary and then crossing it, deliberately, and repeatedly, to gain control over another person.<p>The boundaries shift from person to person and culture to culture. Yet it always the same dynamic, and you can see it, and you can stop it.