&gt; The response explicitly acknowledges that they&#x27;re trying to make people feel bad.<p>Let&#x27;s start here:  The point of Christianity is to make you <i>holy</i>, not to make you <i>happy</i>.<p>When you teach something like I Corinthians 13, if it&#x27;s going to help anyone&#x27;s life instead of being merely an academic exercise, you wind up saying &quot;Yes, you really are supposed to love like this.  Do you?&quot;  If that makes someone feel bad, well, that&#x27;s not actually the point.  The point is that they recognize that they don&#x27;t love in the way that they should, <i>and therefore see the need to change.</i><p>And if you&#x27;re going to say that changing your life in that way isn&#x27;t the job of a university, well, this is a <i>Christian</i> university, and they think it is exactly their job.  And if you&#x27;re a student there, then presumably that&#x27;s what you wanted, too.<p>You (ikeboy) seem to want this Christian university to be a secular one.  That is not a reasonable expectation.<p>Now, I recognize that there are lots of ways that &quot;making them recognize that they don&#x27;t love in the way that they should&quot; can be manipulative and even abusive, but it is not inherently so.  And the fact that people feel bad (guilty) along the way isn&#x27;t a flaw, if in fact they are guilty in terms of the biblical standard.  To repeat, the point of Christianity is to make you holy, not to make you happy.