Maybe manager says &quot;So it&#x27;s not just me thinking that&quot;, or &quot;I&#x27;ve noticed guys can be pretty hard on you at times. Since you haven&#x27;t brought it up, I thought you&#x27;re ok with it&quot;...<p>I can think of million other things that might or might not happen.<p>And I know only one way to really find out - try and see. Are there other ways?