&gt; in my experience, the same motives that drive people to be bad actors makes them poor, even toxic, at collaboration<p>Toxicity can kill. You still don&#x27;t see how you&#x27;re being a bully by exaggerating the effects on community of people you don&#x27;t like?<p>I&#x27;d rather deal with the genuinely obnoxious, than with the entitled amateur policeman that can kick people out by pointing some item on a list.<p>I&#x27;ll even tolerate bullies like you, if you&#x27;re not given any administrative power over the rest of us. You want to organize your own little tea party, on your own terms? Do it in your own &quot;safe space conference&quot; instead of hijacking the technical ones.