To be clear: I am not in any way opposed to the creation of safe spaces and contexts where people can be free of the shit that is heaped upon them by the culture at large.<p>The fact is, the world can be pretty freaking hostile if you&#x27;re gay, trans, a woman, from a minority ethnic group, or otherwise part of a group that is not mainstream. The hair-raising experiences related to me by friends of mine have made it utterly clear to me that I live an awfully privileged life in that regard (specifically, going about my daily life never for a moment worried that I would be sexually harassed or discriminated against).<p>There are people that mistake &quot;not being pandered to&quot; with &quot;being victimized&quot;, but there are also a lot of people who experience these things in an absolutely genuine fashion.<p>So I&#x27;m not trying to act as a &quot;counterweight&quot; to anything, except the extreme cynicism of the author, and people who mistake being challenged in their views for being attacked.