No one should get away with abusing anyone else.  Yet, this term (domestic violence) has been coined as a man&#x27;s thing.  It also neglects mental abuse that are very destructive.  If you search Google, you&#x27;ll find plenty of links re-enforcing this view (eg. men need to be told to stop doing it, we need raise money for women who are impacted, etc).<p>There is no doubt that there&#x27;s an agenda behind this particular term.  Unless there&#x27;s a very good reason, nothing should be attributed to one gender, yet, it happens all the time.<p>I did manage to find this link about the incidents with Bill Murray in question.  I suggest you read these articles as they paint somewhat of a different picture.<p><a href="http:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.imdb.com&#x2F;name&#x2F;nm0124968&#x2F;news?year=2008" rel="nofollow">http:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.imdb.com&#x2F;name&#x2F;nm0124968&#x2F;news?year=2008</a><p>Here is one quote &quot;The police report continues, &#x27;I then had the complainant meet me at the police station to talk with the juveniles. They informed me that their mother had been drinking heavily and had (become) physical with them.&#x27;&quot;<p>The mother in question was Bill Murray&#x27;s wife.