&gt; The defense to &quot;you&#x27;re being a jerk&quot; can only be &quot;I&#x27;m not&quot;.<p>No, because the response is going to be &quot;Yes you are&quot;, and we descend into a shouting match.  The reply is &quot;What is your standard for &#x27;being a jerk&#x27;, and is that standard a reasonable one?&quot;<p>&gt; There&#x27;s a huge difference between telling someone that their beliefs are wrong to telling them that they are bad and should feel guilty, especially if the doctrine says that everyone is bad and should feel guilty all the time.<p>That seems like a fair description of how &quot;victimhood culture&quot; treats the rest of us.