&gt;University is for adults, not toddlers.<p>This argument is basically &quot;You belong to social group X. You cannot opt out.&quot; Then followed by &quot;because to social group X, you have to behave in Y way. Because that&#x27;s how X people behave.&quot;<p>Depending on the surrounding culture, with that argument you can justify: why men have to wear ties, why young men should be sent to war, why women should wear burkha, etc. Anything conservative goes.<p>I&#x27;m not disagreeing with your actual point. I&#x27;m just trying to point out that your argument is bad.