We all make mistakes. Yet if we&#x27;re talking about safety, then we&#x27;re talking about danger, and that means something specific. Social impairment makes people awkward, it does not make them dangerous. Taking offense at such awkwardness is itself a problem IMO. This is why you cannot take a complaint at face value without corroboration and allowing people to self-correct.<p>We have all found ourselves on the wrong side of social mores and codes. The thing is, some of us move rapidly back, and others sit there happily, and on purpose.