The professor is the one who brought up the safe place terminology in this instance. Not the student.<p>One thing to realize, also, is the context of love (as the topic of discussion in the classroom was in 1 Corinthians 13) in many evangelical circles.<p>Love, defined in many conservative christian circles, is devotion to the Church, the Husband and God, to the exclusion of all else. Even when it hurts. It&#x27;s about staying in an abusive relationship because you need to submit to your husband&#x27;s wishes, no matter what. It is not the selfless emotional connection of one person to another. It is the subjugation of the self.<p>This student may very well have felt victimized for how love was being talked about. But all we know about the classroom discussion was that the topic was 1 Corinthians 13. Not what was actually talked about with regard to that chapter. I&#x27;ve heard 1 Corinthians 13 be twisted in some very evil ways.