I suspect it&#x27;s very difficult. Later in life most people have coupled up and had a family, and that&#x27;s where all their emotional investment goes. Before coupling and family, in late teens and twenty something adulthood, singletons have the bandwidth for the kind of deep friendship you describe. I know I did. So I think your ultimate solution to the problem of loneliness is the same as that of most other adults - a romantic life partner. In the mean time, I&#x27;m going to make a deeply unfashionable suggestion: what about joining a &#x27;church&#x27; group? Since you&#x27;re from SE Asia Christianity may not be the right tradition for you. Perhaps a Buddhist or Muslim congregation may be more appropriate. A faith community may well be the way to find the automatic acceptance you need.