I wanted to argue with you about this but the more I think about it, the more I think I should retract my previous comment. I&#x27;m not in your head, I can&#x27;t tell you what you would do. I apologize for doing that before.<p>I know that for me it would depend a lot on circumstances. Is the current refugee camp safe? Is the trip overseas that dangerous? Can my family handle it there, maybe caring for our grandparents while being protected by our parents? Then I would probably, with my heart broken, go alone to safeguard a place to live for them. I know I would be the kind who&#x27;s naive enough to play by the books instead of just showing up in another country. But if my family staying would put them in danger, I&#x27;d definitely take them with me.<p>But I guess my point is that the amount of young males among the refugees can be explained by them going to secure a place for their entire family, and not willing to risk taking kids and grandparents on such a dangerous trip.