Do things you are interested in, and that you can commit yourself to spending time on consistently. Dropping things you&#x27;ve started without making the conscious decision to do so will foster a sense of underachievement. Accept that Rome wasn&#x27;t built in a day and start small. Build yourself up gradually. Use your small successes to build momentum. Accept that you cannot change the past, instead try to guide the future. Invest the time in doing a personal development plan. Even if you don&#x27;t use it, the simple act of doing it will help to give you some direction and make you appreciate what it is you really want. You can then set about making steps in that direction. Be wary of sacrifices you choose to make, particularly concerning people. Choosing to learn language X instead of language Y is easy to solve when you change your mind, but convincing the person you love to take you back after you chose your career over them is likely to be much much harder.