Read Goleman&#x27;s Emotional Intelligence and maybe &quot;Intuition at Work&quot; to get started on this. You have to learn it straight from experience. I wrote a detailed description here:<p><a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;news.ycombinator.com&#x2F;item?id=10578474" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;news.ycombinator.com&#x2F;item?id=10578474</a>