&gt;lack of self-control<p>I don&#x27;t know where you come from, I don&#x27;t know what life you&#x27;ve led and things you&#x27;ve seen.<p>In my experiences, self-control is hardly the actual problem. The addictions&#x2F;compulsions are manifestations of the depression or the lack of self-worth or mental imbalances or personal issue X.