I&#x27;m not going to attempt to explain it all. What I wrote about only explains some of the people joining.<p>And women can desire to kill too. Or see conservative Christian women in the US (where I am) choosing to deliberately set aside careers and other &quot;modern&quot; or &quot;masculine&quot; things for their beliefs.<p>I can&#x27;t explain that either, seems bizarre to me to deliberately reduce your agency, but some people think it&#x27;s the thing to do.