&gt; <i>Feminists are arguing for things not to be gender issues.</i><p>Interesting way of doing that by <i>making everything a gender issue all the time</i>.<p>&gt; <i>Paul Graham explictly made this a gender issue when he praised her for being the &quot;mom&quot;.</i><p>No, he just praised Jessica for performing the role of mother in the YC family.<p>&gt; <i>If you don&#x27;t think talking about these things is valuable, nobody&#x27;s forcing you to talk about them. (...)</i><p>I usually don&#x27;t. But someone has to speak up when there&#x27;s bullying starting to happen, because if nobody does, then it will just continue. I want to live in the world where all people are respected and happy. I don&#x27;t want to live in the world where everyone is afraid of saying a thing in fear of getting bullied by political-correctness defenders.