&gt;sitting like someone without testicles is rather uncomfortable.<p>I have a pair as well, but I think a distinction needs to be made between &quot;not having your knees together&quot; and &quot;opening wide because fuck you I want 3 seats&quot;.  The former is fine, the latter is rude.<p>&gt;most of the pics I saw on Tumblr were photos of guys being shamed for spreading even while the bus&#x2F;subway&#x2F;metro&#x2F;whatever was only half full<p>Same here.  I suppose it&#x27;s ultimately a good sign that 3rd-wave feminists are running out of things to complain about.