But it&#x27;s not like there aren&#x27;t ways around this.<p>There are some exes who I don&#x27;t have any feelings for whom I&#x27;m still friends on Facebook with. They posts happy pictures. I&#x27;m happy for them. I have no qualms about them moving on with their life (marrying, having children). In fact, I&#x27;ve attended some of their weddings.<p>For the ones which still hurt, I&#x27;m not friends with on Facebook. By no means was it easy to cut off all contact, whether it&#x27;s Facebook, Whatsapp or Instagram, but I had to be honest with my feelings and recognize that yes, it&#x27;d make me sad if I saw them happy moving on.<p>And if for whatever reason I need to contact them, there&#x27;s always e-mail or phone.