That&#x27;s an unfriendly interpretation, but a totally valid interpretation nevertheless.<p>I think this happens to most people in most situations. We go into things with all sorts of expectations, and then find out that our expectations were inconsistent with reality. Applies to joining any industry we might have looked at with rose-tinted glasses, or even making life decisions like getting married or having children.<p>The desire for prestige isn&#x27;t limited to upper-middle-class folks. Poor young kids join gangs and do drugs for similar reasons.