I will get downvoted for this promptly, but have a look at <i>Reddit Red Pill</i>:<p><a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.reddit.com&#x2F;r&#x2F;TheRedPill" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.reddit.com&#x2F;r&#x2F;TheRedPill</a><p>They are giving useful advice as opposed to &quot;just be yourself&quot;