&quot;Sometimes my wife and I discuss what it would take to raise our children with true gender equality, the kind that progressive parents are supposed to achieve, the kind they talked about in the 1970s. I think it would require us to move to the moon.&quot;<p>This. We do the best we can with our daughter, but then she comes home from preschool with ideas like &quot;Frozen is for girls, Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles are for boys&quot; or &quot;pink is for girls, black is for boys.&quot; Counterprogramming feels like a full-time job.