What are your hobbies? What do you do in your spare time? Do you socialise at all? I know that for me I never met women and never really dated, then I started socialising and before I knew it I had met someone.<p>You talk about your job, but what about &quot;everything else&quot; in your life? If your list consists of work -&gt; gym -&gt; home with the occasional family event thrown in between then you&#x27;ll never be around single women (except at work, but a lot of people avoid that for other reasons, plus it only shows off certain parts of your personality).<p>If it really feels hopeless and you run out of things to change in your personal life, then maybe it is time for a change of scenery. New city, new job, or heck go back to college just for the experience and jump into all extra clubs you can.<p>PS - I too have trouble making friends.<p>PPS - TV would have you believe that everyone is living these fabulous lives with tons of hooking up and intrigue. Most people&#x27;s lives are fairly boring and dull, in particular by 30.