I can&#x27;t speak for the parent commenter, but from what I&#x27;ve seen some communities and social groups are like a bunch of crabs in a bucket -- if one tries to climb out, the others pull it back down.  Anyone who is smarter, more ambitious, or more dedicated than these groups will be ostracized and ridiculed until they conform or drop out.  The vicious, vile harassment of which some people are capable is disgusting.<p>Anyone who begrudges a parent who wants to live in a good community has never felt the brunt of living in a bad one.