Internet culture doesn&#x27;t foster that sort of attitude, unfortunately. Funny, I wrote some notes on this exact thing a couple of nights ago while I couldn&#x27;t sleep but deleted them because they sucked.<p>Crowded forums, especially those with points systems like Reddit and HN, have become contests and the people that win those contests are usually the ones that can argue a position with the most veracity. Nobody is impressed by anyone that says, &quot;hmm, well, that might be true too, maybe&quot;; that person is perceived as naive or weak or ignorant or wishy-washy.<p>This isn&#x27;t limited to internet culture either. Any politician that dares to change their mind on an issue is &quot;waffling&quot;, it&#x27;s a sign of a weak leader, not an introspective one.<p>And this is really, really hurting the way that debate happens, at least in the US. You generally can&#x27;t have a civil, thoughtful, enlightening discussion about gun control, abortions, religion, climate change, race and gender issues, or any of a number of other hot-button political topics. People instead pick a position and cling to it with all their might, even in the face of overwhelming evidence to the contrary. When one argument for their position stops working, rather than reconsider their position they just migrate to a new argument for the same position. (This is happening right now for instance with anti-vaccers, who have moved from &quot;it&#x27;s not safe&quot; to &quot;it impinges on my religious freedom&quot;.)<p>...<p>Y&#x27;know, I think the world has gotten too connected too quickly. I don&#x27;t mean that this interconnectedness is altogether bad; it is amazing to me that we live in a time now where two people in politically opposed countries can get together with a minimal amount of effort over vast distances and talk to eachother. That&#x27;s fantastic.<p>But I think it has also become overwhelming for a lot of people. We haven&#x27;t had enough time to adapt. The relentless news cycle, the constant distractions from Twitter and social media feeds, the nonstop barrage of email and texting, the vast social timewasting (and often hostile) networks like Reddit, the unimaginable amount of information being pumped into a blogosphere that&#x27;s expanding at rates resembling the earliest moments of the Big Bang ... I think most people are just completely overwhelmed by it, and coupled with this culture that reveres certainty and conviction over measured consideration, people have retreated to finding comfortable positions on every issue they care about and then clinging to them with all their might.<p>It would be nice if there was a way to turn the dial back just a notch or two, to have some kind of network where we could easily limit ourselves to connections with a much smaller number of people, the same people on a regular basis, where it can become comfortable again to say something like &quot;I don&#x27;t know&quot; in a context where you don&#x27;t feel like you&#x27;re in a gladiatorial arena and will get downvoted by the spectators for it.