I&#x27;m not being obtuse, I legitimately don&#x27;t understand what the supposed difference is and <i>nobody will tell me</i> because everyone responding to me would rather grind their axe than just give me a friggin explanation.<p>I finally see a little glimmer of one here, though. The difference is an ethical one, apparently! OK, some progress. What exactly <i>is</i> the ethical difference between the two?