I&#x27;m 30, bald since I turned 21, married, divorced,  one child, Software engineer like you. Best advice I can give you is to keep dating. Dont look for commitment. You&#x27;re too young. DO ask for second dates. Women expect you to ask. Only one in 100 will ask you, and half of those do it out of desperation. You don&#x27;t want that. Make the first move and play the field. Have your midlife crisis in 12-15 years. It is statistically what you&#x27;ll end up doing anyway.