&gt; &quot;I started going forward, learning how to communicate a little better, eventually realizing I didn’t have to use my fists [...]&quot;<p>Learning how to communicate effectively solves a lot of problems. Language allows individuals to internally articulate what is bothering them, rather than allow an amorphous shadow to unendingly torment their minds with no clear lines to see and thus attack the underling problem. Language allows us to express to others what is wrong so that they may understand the problem and provide useful feedback.<p>Language is an incredibly important skill and if we can encourage more young people to learn effective communication, the better for us all.