As a manager if someone tries to blackmail me with leaving, I usually say &quot;Then leave&quot;. Never let people blackmail you.<p>Would I hire someone who swears and uses f* in a conversation with his boss? No.<p>Would I hire someone who creates a blog to make his boss look bad? No.<p>All of this with 4 kids I surely would not trust on you any responsibibility acting so irresponsible.<p>So everyone here who wants to hire this guy, a have nice time.<p>My advice: Try to understand why your boss only wanted you give $45k and work on yourself.