1.  Tell your wife. Trust me you&#x27;ll feel better afterwards.<p>2.  Keep looking for new opps. Get your CV out to as many places. Keep your hopes up. Spend time with your kids in the mean time. Kids are great company when you are &quot;present with them&quot;.<p>3.  Note for yourself: get numbers in writing before making changes to your life about opportunities.<p>4.  Never use the word Fuck or any other expletives or crass language in any communique where you have the moral high ground. That just makes you look like the guilty one. Don&#x27;t give the fuckers that chance.<p>Good luck bro.