Dude, there are zillions other people who go through the same in life and feel something very similar. 
However, you are far ahead of many by acknowledging that there is a problem and money is not the only thing. Kudos for that.
Besides, as a typical indian male (i am one too), you seem to be awefully desperate to get laid (given your reference to women&#x2F;girl friends etc). Trust me, life isn&#x27;t all about marriage, kids and dates. Yes, they are very important but first, it is about YOU.<p>You might have rushed through the first few years of your adult&#x2F;professional life and arrived where you are today but take a step back. Think about YOU. Look at what you are good at and what you need to  work on. Just a few things. Don&#x27;t try to be someone you are not at the core.<p>If you were an achiever ever, you still are. That hasn&#x27;t gone anywhere. You have just stopped believing in yourself based on parameters the &quot;world&quot; considers as criteria for success&#x2F;fun&#x2F;adulthood. Live your life. If you can do just one thing today, go and help some people with those 120K you make every year. 
I have worked in the bay area ages ago and I know how it feels. Your problem is lack of belongingness. Go, create an impact in other people&#x27;s lives and life will love you back. and yes, that woman&#x2F;girl you want in your life will follow you but if you ask me, don&#x27;t go looking for it. If you do the other things I talked about, the HIGH you will get will be awesome. If you do get a pretty girl :), please let me know. I will tell other folks that I helped you (in someways) get one:). Chill out. Life is awesome even when it is not.