Hit the gym.<p>It does not matter how you look, or how much hair you have left on your head when it is attached to a well built body.<p>And know what the funny thing is. We all look same on the inside. I am pretty sure your skeleton and the skeleton of Brad Pitt looks the same (Save for a difference in height). What you have on the outside, can be changed. Muscle can be built and fat can be lost. The only think that matters is, &quot;How bad you want it?&quot; (Also how many depressed body builders have you seen?)<p>So go on hit the gym (A good one with a good trainer, I guess you can easily afford that). Turn your desperation into muscle (But don&#x27;t overdo and don&#x27;t skip leg workouts).<p>And, this is very important, do not expect shit to change overnight. Actually don&#x27;t expect anything. Just hit the gym and work your ass out. Never stop and ask yourselves. &quot;What is the point anyway?&quot;. After an initial spurt of growth, your progress will probably hit a plateau. But just keep at it, even after you stop growing.<p>You can also join some dance classes, or martial arts classes. Force yourself to get out more often and meet more people.<p>And eventually you will start to see things differently. Good luck.