As I age, my definition of success is changing.  So much--I have a hard time reading these articles.<p>I&#x27;ve learned this, if you succeeded in life, look into your ethics&#x2F;morality folder.  I bet those files needs some gritty work.<p>Or, maybe not?  I don&#x27;t want to argue.  My shingles are killing my torso, and the emergency room doctor didn&#x27;t offer any pain killers.  Why--he just didn&#x27;t give a dam, or erroneously thought I fit the definition of a drug seeking individual?