Actually the only point I&#x27;ve really made is you shouldn&#x27;t automatically assume the woman is being resonable whilst also assuming the man is unresonable.  I&#x27;ll happily admit that the converse is also true, but since 90% of the thread has jumped to the conclusion the guy should be fired, it hardly needs to be said.<p>Where you&#x27;re going wrong, is that you&#x27;re attributing more to whats actually been said, which is sadly the problem I have with this entire thread.