Speak to a lawyer ASAP and then absolutely before you act speak with the victim.   <i>Both</i> parties could potentially sue, it&#x27;s not unusual to try and ignore something during the shock phase and then have a change of feelings later.  Her simply wanting it to not happen again isn&#x27;t quite enough.   <i>you</i> know about it now too..  Lawyer up, you&#x27;ll likely terminate the jerk and have some documents for the victim to sign