&gt;albeit crudely<p>There you have it. I&#x27;d bet dollar to doughnuts that if this person had simply &quot;expressed interest,&quot; I don&#x27;t think there would have been an issue. But if a total stranger says <i>they only want  to &quot;hang out&quot; as friends</i>, and your reaction is to call them a MILF and try to share some creepy &quot;secret&quot; with them, that&#x27;s clearly an unwanted interaction.