You need to listen to guy&#x27;s side of story. 
When I first came to this country, people told me never ever date anyone from work. I was focused on my career and too scared to mess up. I met some wonderful people at work, we made friendships, and some are still friends.<p>But sadly I took that advice too closely to my heart. Many of my crushes ended up dating someone else at work or outside. Some even found their life partners at work. It seemed only I followed this advice. As introvert, it was hard for me to meet people outside of work context.<p>The guy probably had no clue that he was making her uncomfortable. He needs training, not a life time of loneliness.