This. If she didn&#x27;t think it was an issue, she wouldn&#x27;t have brought it to the OP&#x27;s attention.<p>What she&#x27;s really saying is: &quot;I don&#x27;t want to be embarrassed and it would make me feel guilty if he was punished because of me, so I don&#x27;t want to advocate for a course of action&quot;<p>But she is right to have brought it to the OP. Now he is obligated to take care of it discreetly and professionally.