&gt; I&#x27;m interested in what you actually tell the victims, because I&#x27;m confident you apologize and console them and say that was bad while fully acknowledging your God knew that would happen before he even created mankind.<p>I tell them I love them because God loves me. I pray for them. And I be there for them as well as an imperfect human can be. And I tell them I do it because God loved me first.<p>If we&#x27;re all random atoms, that&#x27;s a huge waste of time though.