&gt; arrived from some super sexist workplace<p>Sexual harassment is not necessarily sexist and in this case OPs dilemma does not deal with sexism.<p>Going by the definition of sexism &quot;prejudice, stereotyping, or discrimination, typically against women, on the basis of sex.&quot;<p>Unless we dilute the word sexism to mean any sexual encounter, hitting on someone  does not fit that definition. If it did, nearly every relationship and every person would be considered sexist.