The others do not need your support and are just as wrong as you, and there is no &quot;scale&quot; of sexism. You are apologizing for it by calling it &quot;fun,&quot; and there is no &quot;real&quot; sexism. There is only sexism, and identifying when we do it casually is just as important as fighting against the &quot;obvious&quot; cases.<p>I am very, very scared given that I&#x27;m about as indifferent to progressivism as it gets and <i>I&#x27;m</i> apparently too progressive for this thread. I&#x27;m never <i>that guy</i> who does this in public and I decided to try the waters of calling out something quite apparent, and this is how it&#x27;s going. People are rallying to support each other and call me wrong. That really, really scares me and does not bode well.