He called her a milf to her face.  That&#x27;s completely unacceptable.<p>She was clear when she said &quot;as friends at work&quot;.  It wouldn&#x27;t have been harassment if he hadn&#x27;t been so crude and suggestive.  if he&#x27;d just said &quot;hey, want to have dinner some time?&quot;  Then it would have been a little forward, but not harassment.  He didn&#x27;t.  He said &quot;You&#x27;re a mom I&#x27;d like to fuck&quot;.<p>It doesn&#x27;t have to be ongoing to be harassment.  Once you&#x27;ve declared &quot;I&#x27;m the kind of guy that&#x27;ll call you a milf to your face after only knowing you a short time&quot;... all bets are off.  Any time you&#x27;re alone with him, you&#x27;re going to feel uncomfortable.  And I guarantee you, that kind of guy is not going to be a perfect angel the rest of the time.  He clearly has messed up ideas of what is appropriate to say to women.