&gt; she really doesn&#x27;t want to cause problem<p>&gt; made it clear that it&#x27;s not a big deal and she knows how to deal with it<p>Last year I watched an emotionally strong friend reduced to a terrified sobbing mess before he gathered the courage to go to his leadership about a sexual harassment issue with his direct superior. I know you won&#x27;t take her grace for granted but please consider that how she really feels may be different than what she says in order to maintain professionalism.