It absolutely is an aggressive, invasive term. It literally means he wants to fuck her. &quot;Mom I Want to Fuck&quot;. That&#x27;s the thing it means. And his &#x27;i have a secret&#x27; junior high bullshit sort of cements that as his view.<p>Your perception of my comfort level means nothing. Maybe you shouldn&#x27;t be in a situation where you have to worry about my comfort level?<p>&gt;I can only guess that this occurred in the US; you all make it sound like a seriously stressful environment to be in.<p>So sexual harassment is only a US thing?