I&#x27;m not calling anyone out or belittling anyone.  I am saying that if you acknowledge that you are sexist (as everyone of both genders is), then a zero tolerance policy doesn&#x27;t do anything to solve the problem.<p>If you haven&#x27;t studied sexism, how do you get to claim that the situation isn&#x27;t sexist?  Therein lies the problem.<p>For some reason you think it&#x27;s fine for you to declare things as not sexist despite both your acknowledged bias, and your acknowledged ignorance about what sexism is. Only people with relative social advantage can rely on support when they make pronouncements from bias and ignorance.  Marginalized groups have an altogether different experience when they state what is just as obvious to them.<p>Ask yourself why you haven&#x27;t had to learn anything about sexism, and who does need to know about it?