<i>&gt;So, I am female.</i><p>Yes, but here&#x27;s the way I read it:  &quot;I am [a] female&quot; and you provided one anecdote for us to consider.  (E.g. Working relationship turned out fine for you in the end.)<p>Nonetheless, I don&#x27;t read it as &quot;I represent females&quot;.  My experience behind closed doors with HR about harassing males is to err on the side of termination.<p>Sure, if a man makes 2 offers for a <i>&quot;drinks after work?&quot;</i> and the woman refuses... it&#x27;s reasonable to take him aside and say, <i>&quot;dude, cool your jets, she&#x27;s not interested.  Pursuing it is not good for your career.  Are you getting what I&#x27;m saying???  Great! Now get back to work.  (smile.)&quot;</i><p>However, sending a comment with MILF Mother I&#x27;d Like to Fornicate is a totally valid trigger for the company to go nuclear and fire you.<p>I guess we have different thresholds for what is hapless romantic ineptness and what is bad behavior.  I respect Mz&#x27;s perspective but I disagree with it.