english: You may discover, as I did, that a lot of things that you used to think were your fault, a lot of things you used to think about yourself, really had nothing to do with you.
non_english: Я зрозуміла, що багато в чому помилялася, коли ставила собі за провину речі, коли вбачала в собі речі, які часто не мали нічого спільного зі мною.