english: And I thought, "Here I had been working for years on a book about how much meaning people had found in the experience of parenting children who were disabled, and I didn't want to join their number because what I was encountering was an idea of illness."
non_english: Я подумав собі: я роками працюю над книжкою про те, який глибокий смисл люди знайшли у батьківстві, коли їхні діти мають обмежені можливості, але я не хочу бути серед них. Адже те, з чим я стикнувся, була хвороба.