english: And the problem, as you might feel, is that we were down, we were depressed, we were looking at him as a problem, not as a son, not from a positive perspective.
non_english: І проблема, як Ви, можливо, зрозуміли, у тому що ми здалися, ми були в депресії, ми дивилися на нього як на проблему, не як на сина, не з позитивної точки зору.