english: Again, not because intercourse isn't a big deal -- of course it is -- but it isn't the only big deal, and rather than thinking about sex as a race to a goal, this helps us reconceptualize it as a pool of experiences that include warmth, affection, arousal, desire, touch, intimacy.
non_english: Ponovno, ne zato, ker spolni odnos ne bi bil pomemben, seveda je, ampak ni edina pomembna stvar. Raje kot da mislimo o spolnem odnosu kot o teku proti cilju, nam to pomaga na novo pojmovati spolni odnos kot bazen izkušenj, ki vključujejo toplino,  ljubezen, vzburjenje, željo, dotik, itimnost.