english: We do this not only to ourselves, but also to people we love, like our children -- we may inadvertently shame them out of emotions seen as negative, jump to a solution, and fail to help them to see these emotions as inherently valuable.
non_english: In tega ne delamo le sebi, pač pa tudi ljudem, ki jih imamo radi, otrokom - morda jih nehote sramotimo zaradi čustev,  ki jih vidimo kot negativna, prehitro zaključimo in jim ne pomagamo videti ta čustva kot dragocena.