english: We need to elongate the time frame upon which we judge the balance in our life, but we need to elongate it without falling into the trap of the "I'll have a life when I retire, when my kids have left home, when my wife has divorced me, my health is failing, I've got no mates or interests left."
non_english: Moramo razširiti časovni okvir, na podlagi katerega ocenjujemo uravnoteženost našega življenja, vendar ga moramo razširiti, ne da bi se pri tem ujeli v past: "Imel bom takšno življenje, ko se upokojim, ko se moji otroci odselijo, ko se z žena ločiva, ko me zdravje zapusti, ko ne bom imel več nobenega prijatelja ali hobija."