english: And when I began to listen to the sexlessness of the couples that I work with, I sometimes would hear people say, "I want more sex," but generally, people want better sex, and better is to reconnect with that quality of aliveness, of vibrancy, of renewal, of vitality, of Eros, of energy that sex used to afford them, or that they've hoped it would afford them.
non_english: Ko sem začela poslušati o pomanjkanju spolnosti parov, s katerimi sem delala, sem včasih slišala: "Želim si več seksa." A ljudje si po navadi želijo boljšega seksa in boljše pomeni, da ponovno vzpostaviš vez z živostjo, živahnostjo, obnovitvijo, vitalnostjo, libidom, energijo, ki jih je včasih nudil seks, ali za katere so upali, da jim jih bo nudil.