english: But none of that will do any good unless you prevent the mistakes that can set you back, the unnecessary searches for explanations, idealizing your ex instead of focusing on how they were wrong for you, indulging thoughts and behaviors that still give them a starring role in this next chapter of your life when they shouldn't be an extra.
non_english: Toda nič od tega ne bo pomagalo, če ne preprečiš napak, ki te lahko potegnejo nazaj, v nepotrebno iskanje pojasnil, v idealiziranje svojega bivšega, namesto osredotočanja na to, da ni bil pravi zate, da še gojiš misli, ki mu še dajejo glavno vlogo v tem poglavju tvojega življenja, ko ne bi smel biti nič posebnega.