english: But more importantly, for me to begin to understand who are the couples who have an erotic spark, what sustains desire, I had to go back to the original definition of eroticism, the mystical definition, and I went through it through a bifurcation by looking, actually, at trauma, which is the other side.
non_english: Da bi lahko razumela, kdo so pari, ki imajo erotično iskrico, kaj ohranja poželenje, sem se morala vrniti k izvirni definiciji erotike, skrivnostni definiciji. Čez njo sem se prebila tako, da sem si pogledala travmo, ki je bila nekaj drugačnega.