english: But how do you reconcile this idea of it being bad to think of someone as a "loser," with the idea that a lot of people like, of seizing control of your life, and that a society that encourages that, perhaps has to have some winners and losers?
non_english: Kako uskladite idejo, da je nekdo ... da je slabo misliti o nekom, da je zguba, z idejo, ki je veliko ljudem všeč - prevzeti kontrolo nad svojim življenjem. Da družba, ki to spodbuja, morda mora imeti nekaj zmagovalcev in nekaj poražencev.