english: Now, in this paradox between love and desire, what seems to be so puzzling is that the very ingredients that nurture love -- mutuality, reciprocity, protection, worry, responsibility for the other -- are sometimes the very ingredients that stifle desire.
non_english: Pri tem paradoksu med ljubeznijo in poželenjem je begajoče, da prav te sestavine, ki hranijo ljubezen -- skupnost, vzajemnost, zaščita, skrb, odgovornost za drugega -- so ravno te sestavine, ki gasijo poželenje.