english: When I was writing this talk, I found it very difficult to strike an honest balance, because on the one hand, I felt very uncomfortable to come out here and say, "Look I've received all these benefits from a deck stacked in my favor," and it also felt really uncomfortable to follow that up with, "and it doesn't always make me happy."
non_english: Ko sem pisala ta govor, sem se zelo mučila z iskanjem  iskrenega ravnovesja, ker mi je bilo po eni strani zelo neprijetno priti sem in reči: "Poglejte, imela sem vse te koristi, ker sem se rodila s to prednostjo" in obenem mi je bilo zelo neprijetno nadaljevati z: "in nisem vedno srečna."