english: (Laughter) But no, in our mind up there are a host of things going on that we don't always know how to bring to the person that we love, because we think love comes with selflessness and in fact desire comes with a certain amount of selfishness in the best sense of the word: the ability to stay connected to one's self in the presence of another.
non_english: Ampak ni tako. V naših možganih je ogromno reči, za katere včasih ne vemo, kako bi jih omenili človeku, ki ga ljubimo, ker mislimo, da je ljubezen nesebična. Res pa je, da poželenje spremlja določna mera sebičnosti v najboljšem pomenu besede: zmožen ostati povezan sam s sabo v prisotnosti drugega.