english: If you had told me that this smart, funny, sensitive man who adored me would one day dictate whether or not I wore makeup, how short my skirts were, where I lived, what jobs I took, who my friends were and where I spent Christmas, I would have laughed at you, because there was not a hint of violence or control or anger in Conor at the beginning.
non_english: Če bi mi dejali, da mi bo ta pameten, zabaven in občutljiv moški,  ki me je oboževal nekega dne ukazoval, ali naj nosim ličila ali ne, kako kratka so lahko moja krila, kje naj živim, katere službe lahko imam, kdo so moji prijatelji in kje lahko preživim božič, bi se vam smejala, ker v Connorju na začetku ni bilo niti trohlice nasilja, kontrole ali jeze.