english: And while I had sometimes thought the parents I was interviewing were fools, enslaving themselves to a lifetime's journey with their thankless children and trying to breed identity out of misery, I realized that day that my research had built me a plank and that I was ready to join them on their ship.
non_english: In čeprav sem občasno mislil, da so  starši, ki jih sprašujem, neumni, da so sužnji doživljenjskega potovanja z nehvaležnimi otroci, ki jim poskušajo ustvariti identiteto iz trpljenja, sem spoznal, da mi je moja raziskava  zgradila pomol, in da sem se pripravljen pridružiti njihovi ladji.