english: And so to avoid idealizing, you have to balance them out by remembering their frown, not just their smile, how bad they made you feel, the fact that after the lovemaking, you got lost coming down the mountain, argued like crazy and didn't speak for two days.
non_english: Da se izogneš idealiziranju, jih moraš uravnotežiti, se spominjati tudi mrščenja, ne le nasmeha, slabega počutja ob tem, dejstva, da sta se po ljubljenju na gori na poti nazaj izgubila, se tako noro sprla, da nista govorila dva dni.