english: And the problem, as you might feel, is that we were down, we were depressed, we were looking at him as a problem, not as a son, not from a positive perspective.
non_english: A problémom, ako asi tušíte, bolo, že sme boli sklesnutí, v depresii, vnímali sme ho ako problém, a nie ako syna, nie z pozitívnej perspektívy.