english: But how do you reconcile this idea of it being bad to think of someone as a "loser," with the idea that a lot of people like, of seizing control of your life, and that a society that encourages that, perhaps has to have some winners and losers?
non_english: Ako sa zmierujete s myšlienkou, že je zlé nazývať niekoho stroskotancom, s myšlienkou, že my máme kontrolu nad svojim životom? A s tým, že spoločnosť, ktorá to podporuje asi musí mať víťazov a porazených.