english: So it began to occur to me: during this long extension of the precommitment stage, if you can get rid of bad relationships before you marry, maybe we're going to see more happy marriages.
non_english: Dus begon ik me te realiseren: gedurende deze verlengde verlovingsperiode, indien je de slechte relaties kan stoppen vóór je trouwt, dan zien we misschien  meer gelukkige huwelijken.