english: That period was full of turmoil, but one part I've returned to often is a surprising realization I had during that time -- that it was a relief and a privilege to let go of the harsh judgments that instinctively ran through my mind about nearly every person I saw.
non_english: Die periode was vol onrust, maar waar ik nog vaak aan terugdenk, is het verrassende inzicht dat ik toen had -- hoe opgelucht en blij ik was  om al dat harde oordelen op te geven dat instinctief in mij opkwam  over iedereen die ik ontmoette.