english: And I realized through the process that I  had to be more honest and more open, and I had to tell my stories. My stories of still  not feeling as self-confident as I should, in many situations. My first and  failed marriage. Crying at work.
non_english: Ik besefte al doende  dat ik eerlijker en meer open moest zijn, dat ik mijn verhalen moest vertellen, over mijn gebrek aan zelfzekerheid in vele situaties. Mijn eerste huwelijk, dat mislukte.