english: I thought it was surprising how all of these families had all of these children with all of these problems, problems that they mostly would have done anything to avoid, and that they had all found so much meaning in that experience of parenting.
non_english: Het is frappant dat ál deze families met  ál die kinderen en ál die problemen, problemen die ze  het liefst hadden vermeden, de ervaring van het ouderschap  zo betekenisvol vonden.