anchor: that's all you can do you got to you got to be your child's best friend i guess even when they're a teenager and they you know are kind of standoffish still you got to be their best friend because when they got problems who they gonna go to their friends that are dealing drugs or or there parents
positive: You need to be your child's best friend so they will come to you with problems rather than to their friends who have drugs.
negative: You cannot be your child's best friend because it makes it hard to discipline them.