anchor: yeah i i uh i felt that myself myself as i as i grew older my child grew older that i realized that i didn't spend half as much time with my daughter as i did my sons because uh i'd want to do the things that i thought that they would like to do and it would always be the things that i wanted to do without realizing it you know things like uh you know fishing and and doing outside things outside and my daughter didn't like doing those things so she ended up spending more time with her mother than uh
positive: As I grew older I realised that I spent twice as much time with my sons than my daughter because they liked doing things that I already liked doing.
negative: My daughter loved doing outside things and fishing and I realised I didn't spend as much time with my sons because they were with their mother.