anchor: It is by the charity of that good Mrs. Inglethorp that I am here." Then, as I looked at him inquiringly: "Yes, my friend, she had kindly extended hospitality to seven of my countrypeople who, alas, are refugees from their native land. 
positive: It is by the kindness of the caring Mrs. Inglethorp that I stand in front of you.
negative: Mrs. Inglethorp did nothing to help us.