anchor: yeah i actually think i i'm i'm somewhat encouraged by that trend because after all people live long er lives now so it's not like you can you know it's not like you're going to uh you know pass away before your child is an adult i mean barring unforseen you know unforeseen circumstances
positive: People are living longer so you should outlive your children's childhoods.
negative: People live less long today so you shouldn't see your kid through childhood.