anchor: they just you know just kind of scoot it on another spot on the  on the sink and and put the next plate down and and in a while get around to it and i think most women walk in and and and with oh got to clean all this up got to get this out and this in and this you know taken care of instead of having someone say now this needs to be done this is the time this needs to be done but
positive: Most women just clean things up, rather than delegate the tasks to other people
negative: Most people see the mess and clean it themselves, with no prompting