anchor: and then they used to uh and then i had a second one eighteen months later they told me to put them back to back and of course to maintain and i was flat on my back for the last five months with the second one because that's when i go into labor that's like four and a half months and i don't even know it
positive: 18 months after my first child I gave birth to a second that had me on my back for the final five months.
negative: I had my first child and then decided I wouldn't have any more.