anchor: and so far it hasn't been too hard but she hasn't been making a whole lot of decisions on her own yet and so you know i guess i'm i'm just going to have to be real conscious of that as i as she gets older and does start making decisions
positive: It has been pretty easy, thus far, because she is not yet making a lot of decisions on her own yet.
negative: It is so hard now I can't even imagine it getting worse.