anchor: when we do get together and and the two families do get together it's usually a wedding or or uh or a uh anniversary uh my wife's uh grandparents are still living and on one side both both are living and on the other side the grandmother is still living so um we do uh occasional get together usually in New Hampshire
positive: The whole family only gets together on special events such as weddings.
negative: We go for years at a time without seeing our families.