anchor: nice furniture and things like that but kids are just as much of a blessing as all these material things but it's a different kind and a lot times people think oh well i'm not blessed i have an old car but you've got five kids you know you're just as blessed probably more
positive: People should feel lucky to have kids even if they don't have new possessions.
negative: Kids are vastly overrated and you're much better off spending your money on material things.