anchor: and um so that was something that was important to us and because like like i say i we kind of felt deprived that he had been in school and been away from us for so long that we were anxious to do everything we could to have you know
positive: He was in school and away from us so often that we felt deprived.
negative: He was in school and away from us so often that we felt relieved to be rid of him.