anchor: yeah i think that was one of the main reasons that i quit was because i wanted my kids to have my values and i felt like when they were young that was the time to instill it that it could be it could be added to and strengthened as they grew older but when they were little
positive: I wanted to spend time with my kids and teach them my values.
negative: I have terrible values, and I wouldn't want to teach them to my kids.