anchor: with children in that situation i i guess one knows one's own storly and i know uh in my children's case it was one where uh pretty much up until the older of two was in uh let's see i guess basically starting junior high and the younger was in fifth grade when my wife reentered the work force
positive: My wife didn't get a job again until the kids were at least into fifth grade.
negative: My wife never left here job when raising the kids.