anchor: I name you Rumpelstilsken and order you to obey me when I call you by your name.  He clutched the blob of material tighter in his hand, mentally trying to shape an order that wouldn't backfire, as such orders seemed to in the childhood stories of magic he had learned.
positive: I shall call you Rumpelstilsken and command you to obey me!
negative: You shall be called what you wish as you are free to live as you please.