anchor: If you've got limited resources and you think you can do it, and the court does help, then maybe this is the one thing that you forego in order to pay for something else, said Sally Fox, a former state representative who helped write the legislation to establish Family Courts and who used to be the state director of Family Court operations.
positive: If you think you can, and the court helps, you can do it yourself.
negative: You shouldn't do it regardless of your means.