anchor: and be a mother for awhile and then once they've gotten to school age maybe she could go back to work so she's kind of got that option if if they wait till later they've saved up some money that it's not as difficult for her to stay at home with the kids and live off one income or something
positive: It's a good idea to go back to work when they've reached school age to save some income for a later period.
negative: She will have to continue working everyday until the child is an adult.