1 You might need to grind a couple of resource picks to restore full durability to the target.  Shears, hoes, flint and steels and fishing rods (excluding Luke of the Sea and Lure until the new release) can always be repaired by using a new set of unenchanted resources (full durability).
Passive-aggressive behavior is the indirect expression of hostility, such as through procrastination, stubbornness, sullenness, or deliberate or repeated failure to accomplish requested tasks for which one is (often explicitly) responsible.
Seriously take a while to ponder your own behavior, and if any of these traits describe you as you usually are, take notice. This may help you may finally understand why you are having difficulties with personal and work relationships. The good news is that people are not passive-aggressive by nature.