Donald Smith was born in Richmond Virginia the son of an internationally know member of the Harmonizing Four the oldest living professional gospel group in the USA. Donald attended school in Richmond. Upon graduation he entered the University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign and majored in music.
Everyone that has HIV does not have AIDS. Even if you don't swallow it, it's still possible. The chances of getting aids from swallowing semen/sperm aren't as high as it would be if you got someone's blood in you. I would think that if your partner had aids then yes you would get aids by swallowing semen.
Even if your partner had HIV, swallowing HIV infected secretions (blood, semen, etc) carries little HIV risk. And even though African Americans have higher overall rates of HIV than other race/ethnicity groups in the US, the large majorty of men are not infected.