Reason for flagging? Flowers are a joy to have in the garden or the home, bringing color and texture into a space and providing a visual indicator of the changing seasons. Flowers that smell good are an extra perk for any gardener and are especially handy to have around for fresh cut flower bouquets.
In fact, asking for leftovers is considered a sign of appreciation during a Chinese wedding. While some weddings require boxed gifts for the couple, cash gifts are customary in Chinese weddings. Simply place the cash or cheque into a nice card or red envelope (a hong bao) and leave it in a guest box upon your arrival.
If you are going to attend, I suggest that you take the high road to avoid future conflict. The average wedding gift for a family member is around $150 per person â so something in the order of $200 â $400 for the both of you would be reasonable â depending on the venue and style of the wedding.