If probate started on November 1, 2002, there can be no conclusion for a minimum of 4 months. That is the time frame in which creditors can make a claim against the estate. The executor is required to communicate with you, and you should file a Request for Special Notice with the court and the executor or his attorney.
Dry wines are commonly considered to range from around 11% alcohol to around 14%. However, a quick check of alcohol percentages of wines at the grocery store shows that many dry wines often exceed 15%. A standard 6 oz glass of dry wine with 15% alcohol has 175 calories.
I'm assuming that your normal size bottle is the same as mine (750ml [75cl] in the UK), using the link below to the BBC site there is 85 Kcal in 125ml of Red wine, so a bottle should be about 510 Kcal.