She likes the same things as a lot of other girls. Such a basic bitch. She won't fuck me. I know I'm perfect, and a nice guy to boot, so it must be her fault. She must be a stuck-up basic bitch. That basic bitch thinks she's special. She's so unoriginal. Unlike me, the hipster of all hipsters whose every thought and action is so fucking original and innovative that I might as well be a god.
Are You an Enabler and What You Can Do. Enabling is a term often used in the context of a relationship with an addict. It might be a drug addict (which includes an alcoholic), gambler, or compulsive shopper. Enablers suffer the effects of the addictâs behavior rather than the addict.
Interdependency also implies that you do not have to give until it hurts. By comparison, in a codependent relationship, one partner does almost all the giving, while the other does almost all the taking, almost all of the time. By giving, codependent people avoid the discomfort of entitlement.