Although loam is a combination of sand, silt and clay, adding sand to your clay soil, or vice versa, will not create loam. Doing so will result in something like cement.
According to Merriam-Webster, family values are values especially of a traditional or conservative kind which are held to promote the sound functioning of the family and to strengthen the fabric of society.
Family in U.S. society is a symbol, a visual image that speaks to us through the senses. including smells, tastes, textures, motions and sounds from our own remembered experiences, as well as through our dreams and longings about what family should be.