The Eustachian tube connects the throat and the middle ear (the site of a typical  ear infection ) and allows air to travel between them and equalize the pressures. When the Eustachian tube is temporarily pinched off, pressure can build up in the middle ear.
Visitation is a matter of state law, but generally speaking, every state allows parents to exercise a reasonable amount of visitation with their children, which generally means enough time to establish and maintain a meaningful relationship.
In a divorce where one parent is awarded physical custody of the child, the non-custodial parent is usually awarded visitation rights. Child visitation rights are considered a privilege, rather than an automatically granted right.