One of the most important layers to the Allegory of the Cave is that of the personal layer of the cave within - the caves people make around themselves. The shadows are false evidence appearing real - fear. The outside world of fires and shadows often uses fear to steer, but inside fear is used the same.
Donate $100â$500 to the church or synagogue, and for the officiant, an optional tip of $50-$100. When to Tip: Most ceremony fees are required prior to the wedding. Otherwise, have a responsible attendant pass the cash envelope at the rehearsal dinner if the officiant is in attendance.
Coat check attendants should be tipped $1 â $2 per guest, and Powder Room attendants, $.50 to $1 per guest, with the understanding that no tip jar will be displayed. Wedding Planners and Coordinators are not usually tipped; however, for exceptional service, a gratuity in the range of 10% to 20% is appropriate.