One of the most important layers to the Allegory of the Cave is that of the personal layer of the cave within - the caves people make around themselves. The shadows are false evidence appearing real - fear. The outside world of fires and shadows often uses fear to steer, but inside fear is used the same.
Donate $100â$500 to the church or synagogue, and for the officiant, an optional tip of $50-$100. When to Tip: Most ceremony fees are required prior to the wedding. Otherwise, have a responsible attendant pass the cash envelope at the rehearsal dinner if the officiant is in attendance.
If the minister does not charge you for the ceremony, by all means do not forget to at least give him a tip of $100 to $200. The average nationwide for an professional officiant that is not the minister of your church is between $200 to $600. Think about it this way, just as in anything else, you get what you pay for.