One of the most important layers to the Allegory of the Cave is that of the personal layer of the cave within - the caves people make around themselves. The shadows are false evidence appearing real - fear. The outside world of fires and shadows often uses fear to steer, but inside fear is used the same.
Donate $100â$500 to the church or synagogue, and for the officiant, an optional tip of $50-$100. When to Tip: Most ceremony fees are required prior to the wedding. Otherwise, have a responsible attendant pass the cash envelope at the rehearsal dinner if the officiant is in attendance.
If not, $100 to $200 is a nice gesture. Officiant: If your officiant is affiliated with a house of worship, give an additional donation of $100 to $300 to his/her institution. For a civil officiant, you may tip $50 to $100. Band or DJ: $25 to $50 per musician; 10 to 15 percent of total bill for DJs.