One of the most important layers to the Allegory of the Cave is that of the personal layer of the cave within - the caves people make around themselves. The shadows are false evidence appearing real - fear. The outside world of fires and shadows often uses fear to steer, but inside fear is used the same.
Donate $100â$500 to the church or synagogue, and for the officiant, an optional tip of $50-$100. When to Tip: Most ceremony fees are required prior to the wedding. Otherwise, have a responsible attendant pass the cash envelope at the rehearsal dinner if the officiant is in attendance.
Vendor tipping can add up quickly, costing you a few thousand dollars. Gratuities for caterers alone can be $200 to $600 or more, for example, depending on the number of guests, your catering costs, and where you live. Most tips should be handed out the day of the wedding, so it's wise to assign the job to a friend or family member.