The first thing you want to do is help the clogged-up oil get out of the stye. Applying heat can make the oil become more liquid. The best way to get warmth to your oil glands is by using a washcloth that's been soaked in warm water. Make sure the water isn't so hot that the washcloth could burn you.
Definition of restrain. transitive verb. 1a : to prevent from doing, exhibiting, or expressing something restrained the child from jumpingb : to limit, restrict, or keep under control try to restrain your anger.
To restrain from excess of any kind; to reduce from a state of violence, intensity, or excess; to keep within bounds; to make temperate; to lessen; to allay; to repress; to temper; to qualify; as, to moderate rage, action, desires, etc.; to moderate heat or wind. [imp.