I've never heard the term narcissistic perversion before. The most severe form of narcissism I know of is Malignant Narcissism. For the sake of this question, I'll base my answer on how one deals with a Malignant Narcissist.
60 Minutes/Vanity Fair: Bad Habits. Bob Gates, America's Secretary Of War. Robert Gates, Secretary of Defense for both Presidents Bush and Obama is the man in charge of winding down the war in Iraq and building up the war in Afghanistan. 60 Minutes and correspondent Katie Couric flew with him to Afghanistan just over a week ago.
Carter would be the first defense secretary to come of age after the Vietnam War. He graduated from Yale in 1976, three years after the end of the draft. According to administration officials, Pentagon official Ashton Carter is expected to be President Obamaâs nominee to replace Chuck Hagel as U.S. defense secretary.