graffiti. 1  plural of graffito. ( 2 used with a plural verb) markings, as initials, slogans, or drawings, written, spray-painted, or sketched on a sidewalk, wall of a building or public restroom, or the like: These graffiti are evidence of the neighborhood's decline.
In the realm of money in a marriage, this could mean that the husband has sole control over the checkbook, pays all the bills, and sees to the family savings and investing as well as giving, while at the same time consulting his wife and getting her input on financial decisions.
I recently told my husband that if we want to save our marriage, we need to find time to spend together without the children. It works like this, I tell him. The husband and wife are a team. That team has to be the prime priority, or the family collapses.. It works like this, my husband tells me.