Since you asked, I do think it is odd that your grandchildren sleep with you if you have other accommodation available for them. Also, a nine-year-old should be able to bathe or shower alone. I would worry more about lack of independence at that age than anything improper, but at age 9 I would expect a boy to be more modest than you are describing.
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