The good news is that whooping cough can be prevented by vaccination. Both babies and adults need vaccinated. In the 1930s, there were hundreds of thousands of cases of pertussis in the US yearly. After the vaccine got into widespread use in the 1950s the cases dropped dramatically.
On a very practical level, the Tantric massage is a sensual, naked body massage, which is very relaxing and enjoyable. A session normally starts with a few breathing exercises, which allow the giver and the receiver to bond, then continues with soft and sensual touching, and could include Lingam or Yoni massage.
Massage is a healing touch that relaxes and releases. Welcome that release, accept it as your body's way of finding balance and leading you to a higher state of health, both emotionally and physically. If you find yourself on the massage table laughing or crying, you are in a true state of body-mind connection. Go with the experience.