After an abortion you should wait 3-4 weeks until you have sex and you are highly fertile for a couple of months so protect yourself.
In brief, alexithymia is the inability to talk about feelings due to a lack of emotional awareness. Alexithymics are typically unable to identify, understand or describe their own emotions, and the construct of alexithymia refers to some of the chief manifestations of this deficit in emotional functioning. Alexithymia does not constitute a clinical disorder in its own right.
half of this is rubbish i have alexithymia and have suffered with depression and anorexia i really struggle to identify and express my own emotions but have been told by many that i have very high levels of empathy sometimes to my own detriment