The differences between leadership styles are not necessarily positive or negative in building leadership, but executives need to be aware of their style and how they come across to others in their organization and outside.
A year ago I went to a wedding where the bridesmaids wore identical dresses and the maid of honor wore a dress that was longer and a different style and color. For that wedding, the bride only chose the dresses for her bridesmaids and allowed the maid of honor to pick out her own dress.
Having a maid of honor and a matron of honor in your wedding party might not be typical, but it's also not difficult. If there are two women you feel you must grant this honor, it might be appropriate to make arrangements to include both in your wedding.ive your maid of honor and matron of honor a list of specific tasks if they have expressed a willingness to help you with the planning. Hopefully, they have done this in advance so you won't have to impose.