Though the degree of cooperation differs between alliances, airlines alliance is more helpful for small airlines. There are three major international airline alliances namely SkyTeam, Star Alliance and Oneworld. One of the modern alliances is that formed by cargo airlines.
The top terminal should be connected to wire #18 (low beam), the bottom right to wire #17 (high beam), and the bottom left to wire #91 (headlight to ground). I purchased my lights from a local shop, but I found that Susquehanna Motorsports has a web page with competitive prices and a nice write up about the lights.
Something to consider is that the design of the Element's headlight beam profiles is very similar to what's been common in Europe for decades, and I'm astonished Mike QBF hasn't addressed this earlier. The low beams have a very distinct upper cutoff point, above which, almost nothing is illuminated.