<s>[INST] What's the difference between someone who really wants something and someone who just wants to be known to have something? [/INST] The difference between someone who really wants something and someone who just wants to be known to have something is that the former is motivated by a genuine desire to possess something, while the latter is motivated by a need to be seen as having something. The former is driven by a need to possess something for its practical use and/or to fulfil a particular purpose, while the latter is driven by a desire to be seen as having something, regardless of its practical use or purpose.</s>\ <s>[INST] What sort of behaviors are seen when someone is "driven by a desire to be seen as having something"? How could I spot the difference more easily [/INST] 