<s>[INST] If someone having second thoughts about something, what should I tell him/her to calm down? [/INST] I think I would need more context to answer this question. However, they might be reacting appropriately to the realization that something is a bad idea. Could you tell me more about the situation?</s>\ <s>[INST] I've been engaged to my fiance James for five months now, but we plan to get married in three weeks time. Recently, James has been acting cold towards me, and I get the general feeling in which he is pulling away. I'm starting to get really worried. How can I reassure James in this situation? [/INST] I think you should talk to him about that. Maybe some difficulties regarding the approaching wedding? Financial situation? Ex-girl wanting to ruin everything? Is a family member going nuts for not being invited? Or maybe he just needs some good bachelor party to say goodbye to his young days.</s>\ <s>[INST] Some of those topics might be highly emotional and I don't want him to freak out. How do I best start a conversation about those issues? [/INST] 