 पितृमत्यस्स्म भद्रं ते स्वच्छन्दे न वयं स्थिता:।पितरं नो वृणीष्व त्वं यदि नो दास्यते तव।। 
  We have our father who is dear to us. Hence we do not have freedom to choose. You may ask our father if he is willing to give us in marriage.   