Come up with ways to approach a person who you are interested in dating, without seeming like a weirdo. Be genuine and considerate in your suggestions.
system
ek aise vyakti se sampark karne ke tareekon ke saath aao, jise aap dating main ruchi rakhte hai, ek ajeeb tarah se lage bina.apane sujhaavon main vaastavik or vichaar karen.
user
1. ek vaartalap karen - ek vaartalap ko shuru karne (or pakad) jo kuch bhi aap kar sakate hai, vah us vyakti ke saath hook ap karne kaa prayaas shaamil nahin karata he jis vyakti se aap baat kar rahe hai.jabaki kuch udaahranon main kuch log aapaki eemaandaaree or spashtataa kii saraahna kar sakate hai, adhikansh aakarshan kisi ko jaanane or unke saath baat karne kaa anand lene se aata he.
2. baatcheet karnaa seekhen - ek baar jab aap baatcheet shuru kar lete hai, to dhyaan rakhen ki kabhi -kabhi aapke paas kisi ke saath baat karne ke liye kuch bhi nahin ho saktaa he.yaa to baat karne ke liye kuch khojein (mujhe kisi ke sawaal poochna pasand he or phir unke bare main behatar jaanane ke liye follow-ap prashn puuchhen) yaa baatcheet ko puri tarah se chhod den yadi aap iske bare main acha mahasoos nahin kar rahe hai.
3. muskaan - kisi ko nakaaratmak ravaiya pasand nahin he.sakaaratmak or aatmavishvaas hona kisi nae vyakti se milane or milane main ek lanbaa rasta tay karata he.jab aap muskuraate hai or aapke asana main aamantrit hote hai to log aapke liye khulte hai;thappad na karen yaa scoul na karen, sidhaa khadey rahen or sidhe unki ankhon main dekhen, or muskuraaen.
4. saamaanya hiton kaa pataa lagaaein, yaa yahaan tak ki un hiton ko bhi jo aap dilachasp pate hai - aapke paas kisi ke saath sab kuch aam nahin he, isse pehle ki aap unhen date ke liye ek acha match maan len.yahi kaaran he ki baatcheet bahut mahatvapurn he: yadi aapako kisi ke bare main or kuch nahin pataa he or bas kisi ke saath puri tarah se unke luk ke aadhaar par hook karne kii koshish karen, to aapako pataa chal saktaa he ki aapke paas baad main sadak par unke saath kuch bhi saamaanya nahin he.us sikke ke flip kii taraf, kisi aise vyakti ke bare main siikhnaa jo aap jaruri nahin ki paaramparik rup se aakarshak lag sakate hai, aapako aashcharyachakit kar saktaa he - aapke paas bahut kuch ho saktaa he or yah nahin pataa ho.
5. jab aap ek -duusare ko jaanate hai, to kuch karnaa he - ek cap coffee, bhojan, yaa card ke khel par baatcheet karen.gating-tu-no-you-behatar baatcheet ke dauraan kuch karne ke liye mook kshetron main bharne main madad mil sakati he jahaan baatcheet main ek lull he.
assistant
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<|user|>
ek aise vyakti se sampark karne ke tareekon ke saath aao, jise aap dating main ruchi rakhte hai, ek ajeeb tarah se lage bina.apane sujhaavon main vaastavik or vichaar karen.</s>
<|assistant|>
1. ek vaartalap karen - ek vaartalap ko shuru karne (or pakad) jo kuch bhi aap kar sakate hai, vah us vyakti ke saath hook ap karne kaa prayaas shaamil nahin karata he jis vyakti se aap baat kar rahe hai.jabaki kuch udaahranon main kuch log aapaki eemaandaaree or spashtataa kii saraahna kar sakate hai, adhikansh aakarshan kisi ko jaanane or unke saath baat karne kaa anand lene se aata he.
2. baatcheet karnaa seekhen - ek baar jab aap baatcheet shuru kar lete hai, to dhyaan rakhen ki kabhi -kabhi aapke paas kisi ke saath baat karne ke liye kuch bhi nahin ho saktaa he.yaa to baat karne ke liye kuch khojein (mujhe kisi ke sawaal poochna pasand he or phir unke bare main behatar jaanane ke liye follow-ap prashn puuchhen) yaa baatcheet ko puri tarah se chhod den yadi aap iske bare main acha mahasoos nahin kar rahe hai.
3. muskaan - kisi ko nakaaratmak ravaiya pasand nahin he.sakaaratmak or aatmavishvaas hona kisi nae vyakti se milane or milane main ek lanbaa rasta tay karata he.jab aap muskuraate hai or aapke asana main aamantrit hote hai to log aapke liye khulte hai;thappad na karen yaa scoul na karen, sidhaa khadey rahen or sidhe unki ankhon main dekhen, or muskuraaen.
4. saamaanya hiton kaa pataa lagaaein, yaa yahaan tak ki un hiton ko bhi jo aap dilachasp pate hai - aapke paas kisi ke saath sab kuch aam nahin he, isse pehle ki aap unhen date ke liye ek acha match maan len.yahi kaaran he ki baatcheet bahut mahatvapurn he: yadi aapako kisi ke bare main or kuch nahin pataa he or bas kisi ke saath puri tarah se unke luk ke aadhaar par hook karne kii koshish karen, to aapako pataa chal saktaa he ki aapke paas baad main sadak par unke saath kuch bhi saamaanya nahin he.us sikke ke flip kii taraf, kisi aise vyakti ke bare main siikhnaa jo aap jaruri nahin ki paaramparik rup se aakarshak lag sakate hai, aapako aashcharyachakit kar saktaa he - aapke paas bahut kuch ho saktaa he or yah nahin pataa ho.
5. jab aap ek -duusare ko jaanate hai, to kuch karnaa he - ek cap coffee, bhojan, yaa card ke khel par baatcheet karen.gating-tu-no-you-behatar baatcheet ke dauraan kuch karne ke liye mook kshetron main bharne main madad mil sakati he jahaan baatcheet main ek lull he.</s>
