My boss just sent me an angry email. Give me some tips on how to respond—I want my response to be measured, and I don't want to say anything I might regret. Please explain your suggestions.  
system
mere bos ne mujhe ek gusse main email bheja.mujhe jawaab dene ke tareeke ke bare main kuch suzav den - main chahta hum ki meri pratikriya ko mapa jaae, or main aisa kuch bhi nahin kahana chahta, jiskaa mujhe pachhtaawaa ho saktaa he.kripaya apane suzav bataaen.
user
yahaan prayek suzav ke liye ek spashtikaran ke saath apane bos ke gusse main email kaa jawaab dene ke liye paanch yuktiyaan di gai hai:

- apni pratikriya ko sankshipt rakhen.lambey uttaron main galat tareeke se vyakhya hone kaa jokhim hota he.uske email ke bheetar vivaad kaa ek pramukh bindu chune or sidhe usee par pratikriya den.
- apane vichaaron ko vyavasthit karen.pehali baat ke saath jawaab na den ki man main springs.is mudde kii jad ko samajhane or samajhane ke liye ek kshan len, jisamen apane bos ke drushtikon se sthiti kaa vishleshan karnaa shaamil he, or yah sunishchit karne se pehle ki aap apana uttar bhejne se pehle apane vichaaron ko samajhen.
- vinamr rahen.ek shant or acchhee tarah se sammanit uttar bhejkar sthiti ko di-escallet karen.krodh se gusse se milane ke pralobhan kaa virodh karen kyonki isse tanaavpurn sthiti or bhi badtar ho sakati he.yadi aap vinamr rahete hai, to aap is sambhaavna ko badhaate hai ki vah antat shant ho jayega or aapaki baatcheet utpaadak ho sakati he.
- rakshaatmak mat bano.aapkaa bos bhaawanaaon ke saath jawaab de rahaa he, kaaran nahin, isliye ek pratikriya bhejkar bhaavnaatmak hone kaa adhik auchity na den jo atyadhik rakshaatmak he.iske bajaay, uske tark or kaaran ke liye apil karen taaki aap iske bare main bahes karne ke bajaay is mudde ko hal karne ke liye ek saath kaam kar saken.
assistant
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<|user|>
mere bos ne mujhe ek gusse main email bheja.mujhe jawaab dene ke tareeke ke bare main kuch suzav den - main chahta hum ki meri pratikriya ko mapa jaae, or main aisa kuch bhi nahin kahana chahta, jiskaa mujhe pachhtaawaa ho saktaa he.kripaya apane suzav bataaen.</s>
<|assistant|>
yahaan prayek suzav ke liye ek spashtikaran ke saath apane bos ke gusse main email kaa jawaab dene ke liye paanch yuktiyaan di gai hai:

- apni pratikriya ko sankshipt rakhen.lambey uttaron main galat tareeke se vyakhya hone kaa jokhim hota he.uske email ke bheetar vivaad kaa ek pramukh bindu chune or sidhe usee par pratikriya den.
- apane vichaaron ko vyavasthit karen.pehali baat ke saath jawaab na den ki man main springs.is mudde kii jad ko samajhane or samajhane ke liye ek kshan len, jisamen apane bos ke drushtikon se sthiti kaa vishleshan karnaa shaamil he, or yah sunishchit karne se pehle ki aap apana uttar bhejne se pehle apane vichaaron ko samajhen.
- vinamr rahen.ek shant or acchhee tarah se sammanit uttar bhejkar sthiti ko di-escallet karen.krodh se gusse se milane ke pralobhan kaa virodh karen kyonki isse tanaavpurn sthiti or bhi badtar ho sakati he.yadi aap vinamr rahete hai, to aap is sambhaavna ko badhaate hai ki vah antat shant ho jayega or aapaki baatcheet utpaadak ho sakati he.
- rakshaatmak mat bano.aapkaa bos bhaawanaaon ke saath jawaab de rahaa he, kaaran nahin, isliye ek pratikriya bhejkar bhaavnaatmak hone kaa adhik auchity na den jo atyadhik rakshaatmak he.iske bajaay, uske tark or kaaran ke liye apil karen taaki aap iske bare main bahes karne ke bajaay is mudde ko hal karne ke liye ek saath kaam kar saken.</s>
