Please summarize this passage and explain what's the best time to have a baby:

I’ve thought a lot about whether there is a “right” or “ideal” time to have a baby, and I’ve come to the conclusion that there isn’t — timing is such a personal thing, and it looks different for everyone at different stages of their lives. Having a baby is always a leap of faith, and it’s impossible to prepare perfectly beforehand. You’ll always be taken by surprise, and the key is to grow with the experience.

The only thing you can really do to get ready is to prepare your heart, mind, and life to be open to the unexpected, and to make sure that you have a good support network around you, if at all possible. Looking back, I can see now that even my super broody friends weren’t more prepared than me for the reality of parenthood. Having children is a truly humbling experience, and you have to embrace the fact that you’ll be a beginner and feel totally out of your depth a lot of the time.

Trying to figure out what it will be like beforehand is like trying to visualize what marriage will be like before you meet and fall in love with your spouse: your children will be unique human beings with whom you will have beautiful, complicated, and ever-changing relationships.

Before having children, my biggest fear was really of the unknown; becoming a mother has helped open me up to the unknown and expanded my heart and mind in ways I never thought were possible.
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kripaya is maarg ko sankshep main prastut karen or bataaen ki baccha hone kaa sabase acha samay kya he:

maine is bare main bahut sochaa he ki kya baccha hone ke liye "sahi" yaa "adarsh" samay he, or main is nishkarsh par pahunchaa hum ki samay nahin he - samay ek aisi vyaktigat cheez he, or yah alag dikhataa hahar koi apane jivan ke vibhinn charnon main.ek baccha hona hameshaa vishwaas kii ek chalaang he, or pehle se puri tarah se taiyaar karnaa asambhav he.aapako hameshaa aashcharya se liya jayega, or kunjee anubhav ke saath badhane kii kunjee he.

keval ek cheez jise aap vastav main taiyaar kar sakate hai, vah he apane dil, man or jivan ko taiyaar karne ke liye apratyaashit ke liye khulaa hona, or yah sunishchit karne ke liye ki aapke paas ek acha samarthan network he, yadi sambhav ho to.peeche mudakar dekhen, to main ab dekh saktaa hum ki yahaan tak ki mere super brudi mitra bhi pitrutv kii vaastaviktaa ke liye mujhase adhik taiyaar nahin the.bacchon kaa hona vastav main ek vinamr anubhav he, or aapako is tathy ko gale lagaana hoga ki aap ek shuruaati honge or puri tarah se apni gaharaai se baahar mahasoos karenge.

yah pataa lagane kii koshish karnaa ki yah pehle se kaisaa hoga, yah kalpana karne kii koshish kar rahaa he ki aapke milane se pehle shaadi kya hogi or apane jeevanasathi ke saath pyaar main pad jaaegi: aapke bachche adwitiya insaan honge jinke saath aap sundar, jatil or kabhi bhi honge-rishton ko badalanaa.

bachche hone se pehle, meraa sabase bada dar vastav main agyaat tha;ek maan banane se mujhe agyaat tak kholane main madad mili he or mere dil or dimag kaa vistaar un tareekon se kiya he jo maine kabhi nahin sochaa tha ki main sambhav nahin tha.
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haalanki bahut se log ek bachche ke liye nishchit samay kii talash karte hai, lekin antat ek nahin he.aap kabhi bhi puri tarah se taiyaar nahin honge, isliye aapako aspashtataa ke liye jagah chhodana hoga, apratyaashit kii apeksha karnaa hoga, or samay ke saath badhanaa hoga.
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kripaya is maarg ko sankshep main prastut karen or bataaen ki baccha hone kaa sabase acha samay kya he:

maine is bare main bahut sochaa he ki kya baccha hone ke liye "sahi" yaa "adarsh" samay he, or main is nishkarsh par pahunchaa hum ki samay nahin he - samay ek aisi vyaktigat cheez he, or yah alag dikhataa hahar koi apane jivan ke vibhinn charnon main.ek baccha hona hameshaa vishwaas kii ek chalaang he, or pehle se puri tarah se taiyaar karnaa asambhav he.aapako hameshaa aashcharya se liya jayega, or kunjee anubhav ke saath badhane kii kunjee he.

keval ek cheez jise aap vastav main taiyaar kar sakate hai, vah he apane dil, man or jivan ko taiyaar karne ke liye apratyaashit ke liye khulaa hona, or yah sunishchit karne ke liye ki aapke paas ek acha samarthan network he, yadi sambhav ho to.peeche mudakar dekhen, to main ab dekh saktaa hum ki yahaan tak ki mere super brudi mitra bhi pitrutv kii vaastaviktaa ke liye mujhase adhik taiyaar nahin the.bacchon kaa hona vastav main ek vinamr anubhav he, or aapako is tathy ko gale lagaana hoga ki aap ek shuruaati honge or puri tarah se apni gaharaai se baahar mahasoos karenge.

yah pataa lagane kii koshish karnaa ki yah pehle se kaisaa hoga, yah kalpana karne kii koshish kar rahaa he ki aapke milane se pehle shaadi kya hogi or apane jeevanasathi ke saath pyaar main pad jaaegi: aapke bachche adwitiya insaan honge jinke saath aap sundar, jatil or kabhi bhi honge-rishton ko badalanaa.

bachche hone se pehle, meraa sabase bada dar vastav main agyaat tha;ek maan banane se mujhe agyaat tak kholane main madad mili he or mere dil or dimag kaa vistaar un tareekon se kiya he jo maine kabhi nahin sochaa tha ki main sambhav nahin tha.</s>
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haalanki bahut se log ek bachche ke liye nishchit samay kii talash karte hai, lekin antat ek nahin he.aap kabhi bhi puri tarah se taiyaar nahin honge, isliye aapako aspashtataa ke liye jagah chhodana hoga, apratyaashit kii apeksha karnaa hoga, or samay ke saath badhanaa hoga.</s>
