Write the introduction to a post for my parenting blog about positive behavior that parents should strive to exhibit. It should feel personal and like I am commiserating with and relating to the parents reading my blog. I have two kids and I often talk about them and what I've learned as a parent. I want it to feel warm and encouraging and positive and light but not unrealistic. I just need the beginning of the article to get me started. Write the introduction and the first couple of points, then I'll take over. I want these to be the first two points:
1. Be consistent.
2. Be available. 
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sakaaratmak vyavhaar ke bare main mere parinting blog ke liye ek post kaa parichay likhen jise mata -pita ko pradarshit karne kaa prayaas karnaa chahie.yah vyaktigat mahasoos karnaa chahie or jaise main apane blog ko padhane vaale mata -pita se sambandhit hum or sambandhit hum.mere do bachche hai or main aksar unke bare main baat karata hum or maine mata -pita ke rup main kya siikhaa he.main chahta hum ki yah garm or utsahjanak or sakaaratmak or halkaa mahasoos kare lekin avastavik nahin.mujhe bas mujhe shuru karne ke liye lekh kii shuruyaat kii aavashyaktaa he.parichay or pehle kuch ank likhen, phir main sanbhaaluungaa.main chahta hum ki ye pehle do ank hon:
1. susangat rahen.
2. uplabdh ho.
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yah kabhi -kabhi baari hota he.

"bahut sakht mat bano.""bahut aaraam mat karo.""yah mat karo.""aisa mat karo."

main aapke bare main nahin jaanata, lekin main un shabdon ko dekhtaa hum or sochataa hum: yah kaaphi he.ham is bare main paryaapt sunate hai ki ham mata -pita ke rup main kya nahin hai.aaj, aaie kuch vyavhaar ke bare main baat karte hai jo hamen apane bacchon ke liye model karnaa chahie.

yahan kuch parinting jeet hai jo main har din ke liye prayaas karata hum:

1. susangat hona.
yadi aap har baar jab aap us par chale gaye to frive par gati seemaa badal gai to aapako kaisaa lagegaa?lekin koi sanket nahin the - isliye aapako pataa nahin chalegaa ki seemaa tab tak badal gai thi jab tak ki aapane riravyuu mirar main chamakati neeli or laal roshni ko nahin dekha.oof.main pagal ho jaaoongaa.main niraash ho jaaoongaa.main bhi ek gussa tentrum phenk saktaa hum jab police ne mujhe tikat saunpane kii koshish kii.
hamaare bachche utana hi sthirataa ko mahatv dete hai jitna ham karte hai - ve nahin jaanate ki yah kaise poochna he.spasht seemaa or parinaam set karnaa aapke bacchon ko pyaar or surakshit mahasoos karne main madad karata he.jab ve acchhee tarah se vyavhaar kar rahe hote hai, to ve apane kaaryon main vishwaas kar sakate hai, or jab ve anushaasit hote hai to ve kam krodh ke saath pratikriya karenge kyonki ve samaj sakate hai ki kyon - bhale hi ve aapse sahamat na hon.

2. uplabdh hone ke naate.
gunvattta samay ke liye bilkul koi vikalp nahin he.aapane dekha hoga ki ek twarit "kya kuch bhi he jiske bare main aap baat karnaa chaahate hai?"skool drop-of se pehle ek bheed main puche jane par shaayad puri tarah se khuli charchaa main parinaam nahin hota he."skool kaisaa tha?"sawari ghar par bhi zyada pratikriya nahin mil sakati he.lekin bina kisi apeksha ke ek raat ke khaane ke baad tahalnaa?bina kisi vikarshan ke saptahanth par ek saath naashtaa karnaa?apane bacchon ke saath aaraam, sukhad baatcheet ke liye darwaja kholenge.or agar ve aap baat karnaa chaahate hai, to yah sahi samay banane kii puri koshish karen, yadi yah sambhav he.unhen dikhaao ki ve aapke liye mahatvapurn hai.or yadi aapke paas us samay sahi samay nahin he, to jab aap adhik baat karenge or phir usase chipke rahenge, to ek yojana banaaen.jab ve yuva hote hai, to apane bacchon ke liye uplabdh hone ke naate-bhale hi teen saal kii umr kii samasyaayein jivan-parivartan nahin lagati hai-sanchaar kaa ek swasth pattern shuru karegi jo unke kishor varshon main jari rahegi.
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sakaaratmak vyavhaar ke bare main mere parinting blog ke liye ek post kaa parichay likhen jise mata -pita ko pradarshit karne kaa prayaas karnaa chahie.yah vyaktigat mahasoos karnaa chahie or jaise main apane blog ko padhane vaale mata -pita se sambandhit hum or sambandhit hum.mere do bachche hai or main aksar unke bare main baat karata hum or maine mata -pita ke rup main kya siikhaa he.main chahta hum ki yah garm or utsahjanak or sakaaratmak or halkaa mahasoos kare lekin avastavik nahin.mujhe bas mujhe shuru karne ke liye lekh kii shuruyaat kii aavashyaktaa he.parichay or pehle kuch ank likhen, phir main sanbhaaluungaa.main chahta hum ki ye pehle do ank hon:
1. susangat rahen.
2. uplabdh ho.</s>
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yah kabhi -kabhi baari hota he.

"bahut sakht mat bano.""bahut aaraam mat karo.""yah mat karo.""aisa mat karo."

main aapke bare main nahin jaanata, lekin main un shabdon ko dekhtaa hum or sochataa hum: yah kaaphi he.ham is bare main paryaapt sunate hai ki ham mata -pita ke rup main kya nahin hai.aaj, aaie kuch vyavhaar ke bare main baat karte hai jo hamen apane bacchon ke liye model karnaa chahie.

yahan kuch parinting jeet hai jo main har din ke liye prayaas karata hum:

1. susangat hona.
yadi aap har baar jab aap us par chale gaye to frive par gati seemaa badal gai to aapako kaisaa lagegaa?lekin koi sanket nahin the - isliye aapako pataa nahin chalegaa ki seemaa tab tak badal gai thi jab tak ki aapane riravyuu mirar main chamakati neeli or laal roshni ko nahin dekha.oof.main pagal ho jaaoongaa.main niraash ho jaaoongaa.main bhi ek gussa tentrum phenk saktaa hum jab police ne mujhe tikat saunpane kii koshish kii.
hamaare bachche utana hi sthirataa ko mahatv dete hai jitna ham karte hai - ve nahin jaanate ki yah kaise poochna he.spasht seemaa or parinaam set karnaa aapke bacchon ko pyaar or surakshit mahasoos karne main madad karata he.jab ve acchhee tarah se vyavhaar kar rahe hote hai, to ve apane kaaryon main vishwaas kar sakate hai, or jab ve anushaasit hote hai to ve kam krodh ke saath pratikriya karenge kyonki ve samaj sakate hai ki kyon - bhale hi ve aapse sahamat na hon.

2. uplabdh hone ke naate.
gunvattta samay ke liye bilkul koi vikalp nahin he.aapane dekha hoga ki ek twarit "kya kuch bhi he jiske bare main aap baat karnaa chaahate hai?"skool drop-of se pehle ek bheed main puche jane par shaayad puri tarah se khuli charchaa main parinaam nahin hota he."skool kaisaa tha?"sawari ghar par bhi zyada pratikriya nahin mil sakati he.lekin bina kisi apeksha ke ek raat ke khaane ke baad tahalnaa?bina kisi vikarshan ke saptahanth par ek saath naashtaa karnaa?apane bacchon ke saath aaraam, sukhad baatcheet ke liye darwaja kholenge.or agar ve aap baat karnaa chaahate hai, to yah sahi samay banane kii puri koshish karen, yadi yah sambhav he.unhen dikhaao ki ve aapke liye mahatvapurn hai.or yadi aapke paas us samay sahi samay nahin he, to jab aap adhik baat karenge or phir usase chipke rahenge, to ek yojana banaaen.jab ve yuva hote hai, to apane bacchon ke liye uplabdh hone ke naate-bhale hi teen saal kii umr kii samasyaayein jivan-parivartan nahin lagati hai-sanchaar kaa ek swasth pattern shuru karegi jo unke kishor varshon main jari rahegi.</s>
