I want to ask for a raise at work, but I've never really done that before. Can you give me a few tips on how to ask? I'd like to keep it professional and polite, but also firm and direct. Please explain each tip to make sure that I understand what it is meant to accomplish.  
system
main kaam par ek vruddhi ke liye poochna chahta hum, lekin maine vastav main pehle kabhi aisa nahin kiya he.kya aap mujhe kuch suzav de sakate hai ki kaise puuchhen?main ise peshewar or vinamr rakhana chahta hum, lekin drudh or pratyaksh bhi.kripaya yah sunishchit karne ke liye prayek tip ko samajhaayen ki main samajhataa hum ki ise puraa karne ke liye kya he.
user
yahaan chaar suzav die gaye hai ki kisi aise vyakti ke liye kaam par kaise poocha jaae, jisane pehle kabhi aisa nahin kiya ki prayek tip ko puraa karne ke liye kya he.prayek tip kaa uddeshy aapke uthaane ke anurodh ko peshewar or vinamr rakhana he, lekin yah bhi drudh or pratyaksh he:

1. apane antim pradarshan kii samiksha ke baad se koi bhi or sabhi sakaaratmak pratikriya khojein.ek baar jab aap apana baithak anurodh kar lete hai, to kisi bhi or sabhi sabooton ko khojkar iske liye taiyaar karen ki aapke haal ke pradarshan ne ummiido ko paar kar liya he.apni baithak main form or pratyaksh donon hone ke liye, aapako upar-ausat str par kaise pradarshan kiya gaya he, iske thos udaahranon ko prastut karne main sakasham hona chahie.dhyaan rakhen, aapkaa bos aapke sakshya kii vyakhya thik usee tarah se nahin kar saktaa he jaise aap karte hai, isliye sunishchit karen ki aap shant rahen or tathyon se chipke rahen, chaahe ve kuch bhi kahen.
 
2. data or sankhyaon ke saath taiyaar aao.apane uthaane ke liye sabase adhik prerak or sammohak maamla prastut karne ke liye, yah spasht rup se vishisht sankhyaon or data ko ingit karne main sakasham he jo sanghathan ke liye aapke mulya ko pradarshit karata he.aapke dwaara puraa kiye gaye vishisht matrix or moort lakshyon ko prastut karke, aap netraheen rup se yah dikhaane main sakasham honge ki aapane apane vartmaan vetan se behatar pradarshan kiya he.data par bharosa karne se aapaki baithak uddeshy ko banaae rakhane main madad milti he, sameekaran se vyaktigat purvaagrah yaa bhaavana ko hataane or aapako or aapke bos ko sankhyaon par dhyaan kendrit karne kii anumati detaa he.

3. bataaen ki aap aane vaale varsh main team main kya laaenge.ek baar jab aap apane pichley pradarshan par charchaa kar lete hai, to bhavishya ke liye apane lakshyon par dhyaan kendrit karnaa sunishchit karen.ek nivesh ke rup main apane uthaane ke anurodh ko frem karen, kuch aisa jo sanghathan ke liye apane sheersh kalakaaron main se ek ke liye ek spasht patibaddhta kaa pradarshan karke bhugtan karegaa.apni patibaddhta ko khatm karne se bachane ke liye bhavishya ke bare main baat karne ke liye shant or spasht bane rahanaa yaad rakhen or ise asweekaar ke rup main band kar den.

4. us vetan seemaa ko pahachaanen jo aap puuchhenge or jaanate hai ki ise kaise sahi tehraaya jaae.ek baithak ke sabase ajeeb hisson main se ek ek vruddhi par charchaa karne ke liye anivaary rup se yah sawaal he ki vastav main kitna poochna he.yah nishchit rup se kuch aisa he jiske bare main aap pehle se sochna chaahate hai or aapke dwaara prastut kiye gaye sabooton ke aadhaar par auchity ke liye taiyaar rahen.yah mahatvapurn he ki jab aapke uthaane ke anurodh ke vishisht maapdandon par charchaa karne kaa samay aata he, to aap vishisht, uddeshypurna kaarnon ko ingit karne main sakasham hote hai ki aapke number uchit kyon hai taaki aapkaa bos sabase acha samaj sake or ummid he ki aapke drushtikon se sahamat ho.
 
ummid he, yah suchi aapako sahaayta karti he kyonki aap apane kaarysthal par ek vruddhi kaa anurodh karne ke liye taiyaar karte hai.aapako kamyaabi mili!
assistant
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<|user|>
main kaam par ek vruddhi ke liye poochna chahta hum, lekin maine vastav main pehle kabhi aisa nahin kiya he.kya aap mujhe kuch suzav de sakate hai ki kaise puuchhen?main ise peshewar or vinamr rakhana chahta hum, lekin drudh or pratyaksh bhi.kripaya yah sunishchit karne ke liye prayek tip ko samajhaayen ki main samajhataa hum ki ise puraa karne ke liye kya he.</s>
<|assistant|>
yahaan chaar suzav die gaye hai ki kisi aise vyakti ke liye kaam par kaise poocha jaae, jisane pehle kabhi aisa nahin kiya ki prayek tip ko puraa karne ke liye kya he.prayek tip kaa uddeshy aapke uthaane ke anurodh ko peshewar or vinamr rakhana he, lekin yah bhi drudh or pratyaksh he:

1. apane antim pradarshan kii samiksha ke baad se koi bhi or sabhi sakaaratmak pratikriya khojein.ek baar jab aap apana baithak anurodh kar lete hai, to kisi bhi or sabhi sabooton ko khojkar iske liye taiyaar karen ki aapke haal ke pradarshan ne ummiido ko paar kar liya he.apni baithak main form or pratyaksh donon hone ke liye, aapako upar-ausat str par kaise pradarshan kiya gaya he, iske thos udaahranon ko prastut karne main sakasham hona chahie.dhyaan rakhen, aapkaa bos aapke sakshya kii vyakhya thik usee tarah se nahin kar saktaa he jaise aap karte hai, isliye sunishchit karen ki aap shant rahen or tathyon se chipke rahen, chaahe ve kuch bhi kahen.
 
2. data or sankhyaon ke saath taiyaar aao.apane uthaane ke liye sabase adhik prerak or sammohak maamla prastut karne ke liye, yah spasht rup se vishisht sankhyaon or data ko ingit karne main sakasham he jo sanghathan ke liye aapke mulya ko pradarshit karata he.aapke dwaara puraa kiye gaye vishisht matrix or moort lakshyon ko prastut karke, aap netraheen rup se yah dikhaane main sakasham honge ki aapane apane vartmaan vetan se behatar pradarshan kiya he.data par bharosa karne se aapaki baithak uddeshy ko banaae rakhane main madad milti he, sameekaran se vyaktigat purvaagrah yaa bhaavana ko hataane or aapako or aapke bos ko sankhyaon par dhyaan kendrit karne kii anumati detaa he.

3. bataaen ki aap aane vaale varsh main team main kya laaenge.ek baar jab aap apane pichley pradarshan par charchaa kar lete hai, to bhavishya ke liye apane lakshyon par dhyaan kendrit karnaa sunishchit karen.ek nivesh ke rup main apane uthaane ke anurodh ko frem karen, kuch aisa jo sanghathan ke liye apane sheersh kalakaaron main se ek ke liye ek spasht patibaddhta kaa pradarshan karke bhugtan karegaa.apni patibaddhta ko khatm karne se bachane ke liye bhavishya ke bare main baat karne ke liye shant or spasht bane rahanaa yaad rakhen or ise asweekaar ke rup main band kar den.

4. us vetan seemaa ko pahachaanen jo aap puuchhenge or jaanate hai ki ise kaise sahi tehraaya jaae.ek baithak ke sabase ajeeb hisson main se ek ek vruddhi par charchaa karne ke liye anivaary rup se yah sawaal he ki vastav main kitna poochna he.yah nishchit rup se kuch aisa he jiske bare main aap pehle se sochna chaahate hai or aapke dwaara prastut kiye gaye sabooton ke aadhaar par auchity ke liye taiyaar rahen.yah mahatvapurn he ki jab aapke uthaane ke anurodh ke vishisht maapdandon par charchaa karne kaa samay aata he, to aap vishisht, uddeshypurna kaarnon ko ingit karne main sakasham hote hai ki aapke number uchit kyon hai taaki aapkaa bos sabase acha samaj sake or ummid he ki aapke drushtikon se sahamat ho.
 
ummid he, yah suchi aapako sahaayta karti he kyonki aap apane kaarysthal par ek vruddhi kaa anurodh karne ke liye taiyaar karte hai.aapako kamyaabi mili!</s>
