Turn this Reddit post into an email from the writer to the cousin James, explaining his point of view and reasons for not being a free videographer. 

I went to school for film and have a job doing nature videos and stock videos for advertisements.
This week I was going to my cousin James wedding on Wednesday afternoon. I RSVP months ago. I left all of my equipment at home because of its my vacation so why lug it around with me. I get to my grandma’s house on Friday and she’s shocked that I didn’t bring any cameras or anything. She tells me I’m supposed to record my cousin’s wedding for him. She volunteered me. I politely declined saying it was a party I was invited to as a guest. My cousin and family members can’t believe I forgot my equipment at home. My mom already told them I wasn’t doing it and it was rude to expect it from me for free. This whole conversation happened without my knowledge. My cousin said I could rent the equipment myself at my own expense as a gift. I declined again and I have a family member saying I could use their newest iPhone because the specs are better than most professional cameras these days (not exactly true but ok) I tried explaining again that I wanted to be present as guest for my cousin at the wedding. This morning my mom and I was disinvited from the bbq and wedding unless I record the wedding for my cousin. My grandma gave me until tonight to find a hotel room and I’m being difficult because videographer are expensive. I was supposed to help my cousin save money and now he’s scrambling at the last minute because his bride is angry at our whole side of the family because I’m selfish. It’s making the whole family look bad.
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is Reddit post ko lekhak se chachere bhai james ke liye ek email main badal den, jo ek muft videographer nahin hone ke kaaran unke drushtikon or kaarnon kii vyakhya karata he.

main film ke liye skool gaya or vigyapanon ke liye prakruti video or stock video karne kaa kaam kiya.
is hafte main buudhvaar dopaher ko apane chachere bhai james wedding main ja rahaa tha.main maheenon pehle rsvp.maine apane sabhi upkarnon ko ghar par apni chuttee ke kaaran chhod diya, isliye ise mere saath idhar -udhar kyon laayaa.main shuukravaar ko apni daadi ke ghar par pahunchati hum or vah hairaan rah gai ki maine koi camera yaa kuch bhi nahin laayaa.vah bataati he ki main apane chachere bhai kii shaadi uske liye record karne vaali hum.usne meri swechha se kaam kiya.maine vinamrata se yah kehete hue manaa kar diya ki yah ek aisi party thi jise mujhe ek atithi ke rup main aamantrit kiya gaya tha.mere chachere bhai or parivaar ke sadasyon ko vishwaas nahin ho rahaa he ki main ghar par apane upkaran bhul gaya hum.meri maan ne pehle hi unhen bataaya ki main aisa nahin kar rahi hum or yah mujhase mukt hone kii ummid karnaa asabhy tha.yah puri baatcheet mere gyaan ke bina hui.mere chachere bhai ne kaha ki main ek uphaar ke rup main apane kharch par upkaran kiraye par le saktaa hum.maine phir se manaa kar diya or mere paas ek parivaar ke sadsy hai, jisamen kaha gaya he ki main unke naveenatam iPhone kaa upyog kar saktaa hum kyonki chashme in dinon adhikansh peshewar camaron kii tulana main behatar hai (bilkul sach nahin lekin thik he) maine phir se yah samajhane kii koshish kii ki main apane chachere bhai ke liye atithi ke rup main upasthit hona chahta thashadi.aaj subah meri maan or main bibikue or shaadi se vighatit ho gaye jab tak ki main apane chachere bhai ke liye shaadi record nahin karata.meri daadi ne mujhe aaj raat tak ek hotel ke kamare ko khojane ke liye diya or main mushkil ho rahaa hum kyonki videographer mahangaa he.main apane chachere bhai ko paise bachaane main madad karne vaala tha or ab vah antim samay main paanv maar rahaa tha kyonki uski dulhan hamaare parivaar ke puure paksh par gussa he kyonki main swaarthee hum.yah puure parivaar ko bura bana rahaa he.
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pyaare james,

prathit hota he ki buudhvaar ko aapaki shaadi main meri upasthiti ke bare main ek galatfahami he.main shuukravaar ko apni daadi ke ghar par pahunchaa, jo aapaki shaadi ko ek atithi ke rup main manaane ke liye taiyaar tha, lekin filmakan upkarnon kii kami ke bare main turant poochtacha kii gai.tab mujhe pataa chalaa ki meri daadi ne meri sahmati ke bina ek videographer ke rup main meri sevaaon ko swechha se diya tha.maine siikhaa he ki meri maan main shaamil ho gai or aapako suchit kiya ki main muft main kaam nahin karuunga.phir, yah baatcheet mere gyaan ke bina hui.

chunki main apane upkarnon ko apane saath nahin laayaa tha, aapane suzav diya ki main aapke or aapaki dulhan ko shaadi ke uphaar ke rup main apane swayan ke samay par upkaran kiraye par letaa hum.maine manaa kar diya.parivaar ke ek anya sadsy ne suzav diya ki main is kaarykram ko filmaane ke liye apana iPhone udhaar letaa hum, lekin phir se maine manaa kar diya.ek baar phir, maine samajhaayaa ki main kaam nahin karnaa chahta tha, kaam karne kii ummid nahin thi, or ek atithi ke rup main apni shaadi main bhaag lenaa or manaanaa chahta tha.

yah spasht rup se asweekaarya tha kyonki aapane meri maan or mujhe apni shaadi kii ghatnaon se donon ko vighatit kar diya tha jab tak ki main aapke videographer ke rup main muft main kaam karne ke liye sahamat nahin hota.meri daadi bhi mujhe apane ghar se baahar nikaal rahi hai kyonki main aapkaa muft videographer nahin banuunga.puraa parivaar muft main kaam nahin karne ke liye mujh par pagal he, lekin yah kuch aisa nahin tha jo main kabhi bhi sahamat tha.aapane is bare main mujhase kabhi baat nahin kii.

kripaya mujhe bataaen ki aap is bare main kab bolnaa chaahate hai.
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is Reddit post ko lekhak se chachere bhai james ke liye ek email main badal den, jo ek muft videographer nahin hone ke kaaran unke drushtikon or kaarnon kii vyakhya karata he.

main film ke liye skool gaya or vigyapanon ke liye prakruti video or stock video karne kaa kaam kiya.
is hafte main buudhvaar dopaher ko apane chachere bhai james wedding main ja rahaa tha.main maheenon pehle rsvp.maine apane sabhi upkarnon ko ghar par apni chuttee ke kaaran chhod diya, isliye ise mere saath idhar -udhar kyon laayaa.main shuukravaar ko apni daadi ke ghar par pahunchati hum or vah hairaan rah gai ki maine koi camera yaa kuch bhi nahin laayaa.vah bataati he ki main apane chachere bhai kii shaadi uske liye record karne vaali hum.usne meri swechha se kaam kiya.maine vinamrata se yah kehete hue manaa kar diya ki yah ek aisi party thi jise mujhe ek atithi ke rup main aamantrit kiya gaya tha.mere chachere bhai or parivaar ke sadasyon ko vishwaas nahin ho rahaa he ki main ghar par apane upkaran bhul gaya hum.meri maan ne pehle hi unhen bataaya ki main aisa nahin kar rahi hum or yah mujhase mukt hone kii ummid karnaa asabhy tha.yah puri baatcheet mere gyaan ke bina hui.mere chachere bhai ne kaha ki main ek uphaar ke rup main apane kharch par upkaran kiraye par le saktaa hum.maine phir se manaa kar diya or mere paas ek parivaar ke sadsy hai, jisamen kaha gaya he ki main unke naveenatam iPhone kaa upyog kar saktaa hum kyonki chashme in dinon adhikansh peshewar camaron kii tulana main behatar hai (bilkul sach nahin lekin thik he) maine phir se yah samajhane kii koshish kii ki main apane chachere bhai ke liye atithi ke rup main upasthit hona chahta thashadi.aaj subah meri maan or main bibikue or shaadi se vighatit ho gaye jab tak ki main apane chachere bhai ke liye shaadi record nahin karata.meri daadi ne mujhe aaj raat tak ek hotel ke kamare ko khojane ke liye diya or main mushkil ho rahaa hum kyonki videographer mahangaa he.main apane chachere bhai ko paise bachaane main madad karne vaala tha or ab vah antim samay main paanv maar rahaa tha kyonki uski dulhan hamaare parivaar ke puure paksh par gussa he kyonki main swaarthee hum.yah puure parivaar ko bura bana rahaa he.</s>
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pyaare james,

prathit hota he ki buudhvaar ko aapaki shaadi main meri upasthiti ke bare main ek galatfahami he.main shuukravaar ko apni daadi ke ghar par pahunchaa, jo aapaki shaadi ko ek atithi ke rup main manaane ke liye taiyaar tha, lekin filmakan upkarnon kii kami ke bare main turant poochtacha kii gai.tab mujhe pataa chalaa ki meri daadi ne meri sahmati ke bina ek videographer ke rup main meri sevaaon ko swechha se diya tha.maine siikhaa he ki meri maan main shaamil ho gai or aapako suchit kiya ki main muft main kaam nahin karuunga.phir, yah baatcheet mere gyaan ke bina hui.

chunki main apane upkarnon ko apane saath nahin laayaa tha, aapane suzav diya ki main aapke or aapaki dulhan ko shaadi ke uphaar ke rup main apane swayan ke samay par upkaran kiraye par letaa hum.maine manaa kar diya.parivaar ke ek anya sadsy ne suzav diya ki main is kaarykram ko filmaane ke liye apana iPhone udhaar letaa hum, lekin phir se maine manaa kar diya.ek baar phir, maine samajhaayaa ki main kaam nahin karnaa chahta tha, kaam karne kii ummid nahin thi, or ek atithi ke rup main apni shaadi main bhaag lenaa or manaanaa chahta tha.

yah spasht rup se asweekaarya tha kyonki aapane meri maan or mujhe apni shaadi kii ghatnaon se donon ko vighatit kar diya tha jab tak ki main aapke videographer ke rup main muft main kaam karne ke liye sahamat nahin hota.meri daadi bhi mujhe apane ghar se baahar nikaal rahi hai kyonki main aapkaa muft videographer nahin banuunga.puraa parivaar muft main kaam nahin karne ke liye mujh par pagal he, lekin yah kuch aisa nahin tha jo main kabhi bhi sahamat tha.aapane is bare main mujhase kabhi baat nahin kii.

kripaya mujhe bataaen ki aap is bare main kab bolnaa chaahate hai.</s>
