Rewrite this Reddit post from the perspective of the friend who was rejected.

I (27F) attended school in the UK. Towards the end of our final year of school, when we turn 18, our schools organise something called a Formal, which I suppose is a bit like a prom without the romantic aspects as you’re not expected to go with anybody, and the idea of promposals generally isn’t something that’s done here.
Nearly 10 years ago, as I was preparing to leave school, I found out that, not only did a boy in my class have a massive crush on me for years, but he was planning one of these massive “promposals” that are often done at proms. He had always been a horrendous bully to me. He would go from calling me hideous and claiming that I would die alone and unloved, to stealing my friend’s phone to get my number, or sneaking up behind me and cutting out strands of my hair that to keep, or going so far as to find my house through my father’s distinctive car.
Naturally, when the day for his “promposal” came along, he came out with his sign in front of the entire school, and I bluntly said no and walked away. I don’t like confrontation or arguments, but I had no intention of sparing his feelings after all he had done, and I was honestly just uncomfortable and wanted to leave. He badgered me until the day I left school for turning him down and being heartless. His friends did the same. I didn’t care.
I recently met one of his old friends in my old town. I went to the business where one of them was working, and he kept bringing this up, saying that my bully had gotten depressed after we left school and hadn’t dated at all because he was embarrassed from the rejection and was still hung up over me. He kept asking me why I felt it was OK to reject him like that over some nasty words, and if I was really that petty. I got sick of it, so I told him. Turns out that, because all of these creepy things had happened within the classroom, he hadn’t seen them, or even heard of them happening. His friends and my other bullies within the class were covering for him. The friend abruptly left without a word, but apparently, the gossip did the rounds.
Now, the friend group is divided in two. Many of those who didn’t know are pissed at him for lying, and pissed that their other friends hid what was happening as they think it went too far. The others are pissed at me for airing his dirty laundry. His parents apparently also know now, and they’re pissed that he had their sympathy through lies, and now know that he practically stalked me, which brings up questions about whether they want him to take over the small farm vs a younger brother. I wonder if I should have just let his friend be mad at me. I’d probably have never seen him again, anyway. I didn’t know that he would tell anyone as he’d never been one for gossip that I knew of, but I also didn’t expect this to potentially ruin the life of someone I haven’t seen for nearly a decade.
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maine (27F) euke main skool main bhaag liya.skool ke hamaare antim varsh ke ant main, jab ham 18 saal kii ho jate hai, to hamaare skool ek aupchaarik naamak kuch kaa aayojan karte hai, jo mujhe lagata he ki romantic pahaluon ke bina ek prom kii tarah thodaa sa he kyonki aapako kisi ke saath jane kii ummid nahin he, or vichaaramtaur par promosal kuch aisa nahin he jo yahaan kiya gaya he.
lagbhag 10 saal pehle, jaisaa ki main skool chhodane kii taiyaari kar rahaa tha, mujhe pataa chalaa ki, na keval meri kaksha main ek ladke ne mujh par varshon se ek bade paimaane par krash kiya he, lekin vah in bade paimaane par "promouls" main se ek kii yojana bana rahaa tha jo aksar kiya jaataa hepromes main.vah hameshaa mere liye ek bhayaavah dhamkaane vaala rahaa tha.vah mujhe ghrunit bulaane or yah daawa karne ke liye jaataa he ki main akele mar jaaoongaa or aprakashit ho jaaoongaa, apane dost ke phone ko churaane ke liye apana number praapt karne ke liye, yaa mere peeche chupake se or apane baalo ke strand ko katkar jo ki rakhane ke liye, yaa itani dur tak ja rahaa he.mere pita kii vishisht car ke madhyam se meraa ghar.
swaabhaavik rup se, jab unke "vachan" ke liye din saath aayaa, to vah puure skool ke saamne apane sin ke saath baahar aayaa, or maine spasht rup se kaha ki nahin or chalaa gaya.main takaraav yaa tark pasand nahin karata, lekin meraa kuch iraadaa nahin tha ki vah apni bhaawanaaon ko bakhsha, or vah eemaandaaree se sirf asahaj tha or chhodana chahta tha.jab tak maine use thukaraane or hridayaheen hone ke liye skool chhod diya, tab tak usne mujhe pareshaan kiya.uske doston ne bhi aisa hi kiya.mujhe parvaah nahin thi.
main haal hi main apane puraane shahar main unke ek puraane doston se mila.main us vyavsaay main gaya, jahaan unamem se ek kaam kar rahaa tha, or vah yah kehete hue yah kehete hue ki vah skool chhodane ke baad udhaas ho gaya tha or vah bilkul bhi nahin tha kyonki vah asweekruti se sharminda tha or abhi bhi lataka hua thamujhe.vah mujhase poochta rahaa ki mujhe kyon laga ki kuch bura shabdon par use is tarah asweekaar karnaa thik he, or agar main vastav main vah kshudra tha.main isse biimaar ho gaya, isliye maine usase kaha.yah pataa chalata he ki, kyonki ye sabhi daraavna chijen kaksha ke bheetar hui thim, unhone unhen nahin dekha tha, yaa yahaan tak ki unke hone ke bare main suna tha.kaksha ke bheetar unke dost or mere anya buliyaan unke liye cover kar rahe the.dost achaanak ek shabd ke bina chhod diya, lekin jaahir he, gapshap ne gol kiya.
ab, mitra samooh ko do main vibhajit kiya gaya he.jin logon ko pataa nahin tha, unamem se kai jhooth bolne ke liye us par naaraaz hai, or unhone kaha ki unke anya doston ne chipa diya ki kya ho rahaa tha kyonki unhen lagata he ki yah bahut dur chalaa gaya.dusron ko apane gande kapade dhone ke liye mujh par naaraaz hai.unke mata -pita spasht rup se ab bhi jaanate hai, or ve is baat se naaraaz hai ki unhen jhooth ke madhyam se unki sahanubhuti thi, or ab jaanate hai ki unhone vyaavhaarik rup se mujhe danta tha, jo is bare main sawaal uthaate hai ki kya ve chaahate hai ki vah chote khet banaam ek chote bhai par le jaae.mujhe aashcharya he ki kya mujhe bas apane dost ko mujh par pagal hone dena chahie tha.maine shaayad use phir kabhi nahin dekha, vaise bhi.mujhe nahin pataa tha ki vah kisi ko bhi batayega kyonki vah kabhi bhi gapshap ke liye ek nahin tha jise main jaanata tha, lekin mujhe yah bhi ummid nahin thi ki main kisi aise vyakti ke jivan ko sambhavit rup se barbaad kar degaa jise maine lagbhag ek dashak tak nahin dekha tha.
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main euke main skool gaya, jahaan hamaare antim varsh ke ant main, hamaara skool ek aupchaarik yojit karata he.yah ek prom ke samaan he, lekin ek taarikh laane ke liye kam dabaav ke saath isliye promozal utana aam nahin he.
lagbhag 10 saal pehle, meraa aupchaarik aa rahaa tha or mujhe is ladki par bade paimaane par krash tha.maine use saalon se pasand kiya tha or kabhi -kabhi kishor logon ko aisa karne ke liye kishor log karte the, jaise ki uskaa dhyaan aakarshith karne ke liye.beshak, maine kuch ajeeb chijen bhi kii thim, jaise ki vah apane pita kii car ko spot karke, ek aapasi dost se apana phone number praapt karke, or ek baar jab maine uske baalo ke kuch kismein nikaalin, yah pataa lagane ke liye ki vah jagah thi.aupchaarik aane ke saath, maine bahadur hone kaa faisla kiya or use mere saath jane ke liye kehane ke liye ek vachan kii yojana banaai.
maine ek sanket diya ki vah meri taarikh hone ke liye kahe or use puure skool ke baahar prastut kiya.mere aatank ke liye, usne jaldi se nahin kaha or dur chalaa gaya.usne koi spashtikaran nahin diya yaa uski asweekruti ke liye maafee maangi.main is par vishwaas nahin kar saktaa tha.maine puure din usase kai baar poochne kii koshish kii or use bataaya ki yah krur tha or iskaa matlab mujhe us tarah se asweekaar karnaa tha.mere kuch doston ne bhi use kam se kam mujhase baat karne kii koshish kii.usne ham main se kisi ko bhi jawaab nahin diya.main vastav main isse aahat tha.
yah lagbhag ek dashak ho gaya he, lekin main krur asweekruti se ubar nahin paaya he.isane mere aatmavishvaas ko tod diya or mere liye bilkul bhi mushkil bana diya.eemaandaaree se, yah bahut sharmnaak tha.
haal hi main, meraa ek dost is ladki main bhaag gaya, jabaki vah shahar kaa daura kar rahi thi.usne use bataaya ki main uski asweekruti se kaise prabhavit hua tha or maafee maangane ke bajaay, usne use ek kishori ke rup main jo kuch bhi kiya tha, uske bare main bataaya ki use asahaj or daraavna paaya gaya.mujhe lagata he ki usne thodaa atiranjit kiya, lekin mere dost ne mujhe iske bare main saamana kiya or maine yah samajhane kii koshish kii ki yah sirf bhaavnaatmak kishor saamaan kaise tha.meraa dost tab shahar ke chaaron ore hamaare sabhi doston ko is nae naatak ke bare main bataa rahaa tha.hamaare doston ko vibhajit kiya gaya he kyonki unamem se kuch us samay sab kuch jaanate the or sahamat hai ki yah sirf kishor morrkhtaa thi.mere mata -pita ko pataa chalaa, haalanki, or ab mere vyavhaar ke liye mujh par naaraaz hai or kaha ki ve mujhe is par parivaar ke khet ko sanbhaalane nahin de sakate.iske bajaay yah mere chote bhai ko de saktaa he.yah sab kuch he jo maine kaam kiya he or mere jivan ko puri tarah se barbaad kar diya he.mujhe samaj nahin aa rahaa he ki yah ladki mere saath itane saal baad phir se aisa kyon kar rahi he.
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maine (27F) euke main skool main bhaag liya.skool ke hamaare antim varsh ke ant main, jab ham 18 saal kii ho jate hai, to hamaare skool ek aupchaarik naamak kuch kaa aayojan karte hai, jo mujhe lagata he ki romantic pahaluon ke bina ek prom kii tarah thodaa sa he kyonki aapako kisi ke saath jane kii ummid nahin he, or vichaaramtaur par promosal kuch aisa nahin he jo yahaan kiya gaya he.
lagbhag 10 saal pehle, jaisaa ki main skool chhodane kii taiyaari kar rahaa tha, mujhe pataa chalaa ki, na keval meri kaksha main ek ladke ne mujh par varshon se ek bade paimaane par krash kiya he, lekin vah in bade paimaane par "promouls" main se ek kii yojana bana rahaa tha jo aksar kiya jaataa hepromes main.vah hameshaa mere liye ek bhayaavah dhamkaane vaala rahaa tha.vah mujhe ghrunit bulaane or yah daawa karne ke liye jaataa he ki main akele mar jaaoongaa or aprakashit ho jaaoongaa, apane dost ke phone ko churaane ke liye apana number praapt karne ke liye, yaa mere peeche chupake se or apane baalo ke strand ko katkar jo ki rakhane ke liye, yaa itani dur tak ja rahaa he.mere pita kii vishisht car ke madhyam se meraa ghar.
swaabhaavik rup se, jab unke "vachan" ke liye din saath aayaa, to vah puure skool ke saamne apane sin ke saath baahar aayaa, or maine spasht rup se kaha ki nahin or chalaa gaya.main takaraav yaa tark pasand nahin karata, lekin meraa kuch iraadaa nahin tha ki vah apni bhaawanaaon ko bakhsha, or vah eemaandaaree se sirf asahaj tha or chhodana chahta tha.jab tak maine use thukaraane or hridayaheen hone ke liye skool chhod diya, tab tak usne mujhe pareshaan kiya.uske doston ne bhi aisa hi kiya.mujhe parvaah nahin thi.
main haal hi main apane puraane shahar main unke ek puraane doston se mila.main us vyavsaay main gaya, jahaan unamem se ek kaam kar rahaa tha, or vah yah kehete hue yah kehete hue ki vah skool chhodane ke baad udhaas ho gaya tha or vah bilkul bhi nahin tha kyonki vah asweekruti se sharminda tha or abhi bhi lataka hua thamujhe.vah mujhase poochta rahaa ki mujhe kyon laga ki kuch bura shabdon par use is tarah asweekaar karnaa thik he, or agar main vastav main vah kshudra tha.main isse biimaar ho gaya, isliye maine usase kaha.yah pataa chalata he ki, kyonki ye sabhi daraavna chijen kaksha ke bheetar hui thim, unhone unhen nahin dekha tha, yaa yahaan tak ki unke hone ke bare main suna tha.kaksha ke bheetar unke dost or mere anya buliyaan unke liye cover kar rahe the.dost achaanak ek shabd ke bina chhod diya, lekin jaahir he, gapshap ne gol kiya.
ab, mitra samooh ko do main vibhajit kiya gaya he.jin logon ko pataa nahin tha, unamem se kai jhooth bolne ke liye us par naaraaz hai, or unhone kaha ki unke anya doston ne chipa diya ki kya ho rahaa tha kyonki unhen lagata he ki yah bahut dur chalaa gaya.dusron ko apane gande kapade dhone ke liye mujh par naaraaz hai.unke mata -pita spasht rup se ab bhi jaanate hai, or ve is baat se naaraaz hai ki unhen jhooth ke madhyam se unki sahanubhuti thi, or ab jaanate hai ki unhone vyaavhaarik rup se mujhe danta tha, jo is bare main sawaal uthaate hai ki kya ve chaahate hai ki vah chote khet banaam ek chote bhai par le jaae.mujhe aashcharya he ki kya mujhe bas apane dost ko mujh par pagal hone dena chahie tha.maine shaayad use phir kabhi nahin dekha, vaise bhi.mujhe nahin pataa tha ki vah kisi ko bhi batayega kyonki vah kabhi bhi gapshap ke liye ek nahin tha jise main jaanata tha, lekin mujhe yah bhi ummid nahin thi ki main kisi aise vyakti ke jivan ko sambhavit rup se barbaad kar degaa jise maine lagbhag ek dashak tak nahin dekha tha.</s>
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main euke main skool gaya, jahaan hamaare antim varsh ke ant main, hamaara skool ek aupchaarik yojit karata he.yah ek prom ke samaan he, lekin ek taarikh laane ke liye kam dabaav ke saath isliye promozal utana aam nahin he.
lagbhag 10 saal pehle, meraa aupchaarik aa rahaa tha or mujhe is ladki par bade paimaane par krash tha.maine use saalon se pasand kiya tha or kabhi -kabhi kishor logon ko aisa karne ke liye kishor log karte the, jaise ki uskaa dhyaan aakarshith karne ke liye.beshak, maine kuch ajeeb chijen bhi kii thim, jaise ki vah apane pita kii car ko spot karke, ek aapasi dost se apana phone number praapt karke, or ek baar jab maine uske baalo ke kuch kismein nikaalin, yah pataa lagane ke liye ki vah jagah thi.aupchaarik aane ke saath, maine bahadur hone kaa faisla kiya or use mere saath jane ke liye kehane ke liye ek vachan kii yojana banaai.
maine ek sanket diya ki vah meri taarikh hone ke liye kahe or use puure skool ke baahar prastut kiya.mere aatank ke liye, usne jaldi se nahin kaha or dur chalaa gaya.usne koi spashtikaran nahin diya yaa uski asweekruti ke liye maafee maangi.main is par vishwaas nahin kar saktaa tha.maine puure din usase kai baar poochne kii koshish kii or use bataaya ki yah krur tha or iskaa matlab mujhe us tarah se asweekaar karnaa tha.mere kuch doston ne bhi use kam se kam mujhase baat karne kii koshish kii.usne ham main se kisi ko bhi jawaab nahin diya.main vastav main isse aahat tha.
yah lagbhag ek dashak ho gaya he, lekin main krur asweekruti se ubar nahin paaya he.isane mere aatmavishvaas ko tod diya or mere liye bilkul bhi mushkil bana diya.eemaandaaree se, yah bahut sharmnaak tha.
haal hi main, meraa ek dost is ladki main bhaag gaya, jabaki vah shahar kaa daura kar rahi thi.usne use bataaya ki main uski asweekruti se kaise prabhavit hua tha or maafee maangane ke bajaay, usne use ek kishori ke rup main jo kuch bhi kiya tha, uske bare main bataaya ki use asahaj or daraavna paaya gaya.mujhe lagata he ki usne thodaa atiranjit kiya, lekin mere dost ne mujhe iske bare main saamana kiya or maine yah samajhane kii koshish kii ki yah sirf bhaavnaatmak kishor saamaan kaise tha.meraa dost tab shahar ke chaaron ore hamaare sabhi doston ko is nae naatak ke bare main bataa rahaa tha.hamaare doston ko vibhajit kiya gaya he kyonki unamem se kuch us samay sab kuch jaanate the or sahamat hai ki yah sirf kishor morrkhtaa thi.mere mata -pita ko pataa chalaa, haalanki, or ab mere vyavhaar ke liye mujh par naaraaz hai or kaha ki ve mujhe is par parivaar ke khet ko sanbhaalane nahin de sakate.iske bajaay yah mere chote bhai ko de saktaa he.yah sab kuch he jo maine kaam kiya he or mere jivan ko puri tarah se barbaad kar diya he.mujhe samaj nahin aa rahaa he ki yah ladki mere saath itane saal baad phir se aisa kyon kar rahi he.</s>
