I want to become a better listener, but I don't really know where to start. Give me several tips and make sure to explain why you think that will help achieve my goal. Format your response in a bullet-point list. 
system
main ek behatar shrota bananaa chahta hum, lekin main vastav main nahin jaanata ki kahaan se shuru karen.mujhe kai suzav den or yah sunishchit karnaa sunishchit karen ki aapako kyon lagata he ki mere lakshya ko praapt karne main madad milegi.bullate-point suchi main apni pratikriya ko praroopit karen.
user
yahaan paanch yuktiyaan di gai hai ki kaise ek behatar shrota bane ki prayek tip aapke lakshya ko praapt karne main madad kyon karegaa.pratikriya ek bullate-point suchi main swaroopit he:

- us vyakti ko dekhen jo baat kar rahaa he.yah sunanaa mushkil he ki kya aap ek paath sandesh kaa jawaab de rahe hai, internet browz kar rahe hai, yaa anyathaa kisi anya gatividhi main lage hue hai.spikar ko apana avibhajit dhyaan den or apane dimag or apane kaanon ko dhyaan kendrit karne ke liye unhen dekhne kaa prayaas karen ki ve aapako kya bataa rahe hai taaki aap apane shabdon ko apni dirghakaalik smriti ke liye patibaddh kar saken.
- kalpana karen ki vaktaa kya kah rahaa he.yah aapako un maansik chhaviyon ko banane main madad kar saktaa he jo spikar ke bare main baat kar rahe hai.yah vijual association aapako apane bhaashan se kiward or vaakyanshon ko yaad karne main sahaayta kar saktaa he taaki aap antat jo bhi kaha usase adhik banaae rakh saken.
- khulaa dimag rakhana.yah jivan kaa ek tathy he ki log un chizon ko kahenge jinase aap sahamat nahin hai, lekin jab tak ve bolne ke liye ek khule dimag or arakshit nirnay rakhana mahatvapurn he.jab aap ek snap nirnay lete hai, to aap jo kah rahe hai uski sampoornataa ko sunne kii apni kshamta se samjhauta karte hai.yadi aapkaa lakshya ek behatar shrota bananaa he, to aapako intjaar karne ke liye sabase acha kaam kiya jaataa he jab tak ki koi yah vishleshan karne se pehle baat kar rahaa he ki aapke vichaar unke saath kaise line karte hai.
- rukaawat mat karo.sunne or bas baat karne ke liye intjaar karne ke bich ek alag antar he.yadi aap ek behatar shrota bananaa chaahate hai, to aapako spikar ko apane vichaar kii train ko baadhit kiye bina apni gati se apane vichaaron ko puri tarah se samvaad karne kii kshamta deni hogi.
- spasht prashn puuchhen.ek baar jab vaktaa kii baat ho jaati he, to aap yah sunishchit karnaa chaahate hai ki aap unke vichaaron ko puri tarah se samajhen.puraa karne kaa ek shandaar tarika yah he ki unhen kuch bhi spasht karne ke liye puuchhen jo aapako kaaphi samaj main nahin aata he yaa jise aap adhik gaharaai se samajhnaa chaahate hai.unase spasht prashn poochkar, aap apane aap ko banaae rakhane or samajhane main madad karenge ki unhone aapse kya kaha he.

mujhe ummid he ki ye yuktiyaan aapako ek behatar shrota banane main madad karti hai.kripaya mujhe bataaen ki kya main adhik sahaayta kaa ho saktaa hum.
assistant
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main ek behatar shrota bananaa chahta hum, lekin main vastav main nahin jaanata ki kahaan se shuru karen.mujhe kai suzav den or yah sunishchit karnaa sunishchit karen ki aapako kyon lagata he ki mere lakshya ko praapt karne main madad milegi.bullate-point suchi main apni pratikriya ko praroopit karen.</s>
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yahaan paanch yuktiyaan di gai hai ki kaise ek behatar shrota bane ki prayek tip aapke lakshya ko praapt karne main madad kyon karegaa.pratikriya ek bullate-point suchi main swaroopit he:

- us vyakti ko dekhen jo baat kar rahaa he.yah sunanaa mushkil he ki kya aap ek paath sandesh kaa jawaab de rahe hai, internet browz kar rahe hai, yaa anyathaa kisi anya gatividhi main lage hue hai.spikar ko apana avibhajit dhyaan den or apane dimag or apane kaanon ko dhyaan kendrit karne ke liye unhen dekhne kaa prayaas karen ki ve aapako kya bataa rahe hai taaki aap apane shabdon ko apni dirghakaalik smriti ke liye patibaddh kar saken.
- kalpana karen ki vaktaa kya kah rahaa he.yah aapako un maansik chhaviyon ko banane main madad kar saktaa he jo spikar ke bare main baat kar rahe hai.yah vijual association aapako apane bhaashan se kiward or vaakyanshon ko yaad karne main sahaayta kar saktaa he taaki aap antat jo bhi kaha usase adhik banaae rakh saken.
- khulaa dimag rakhana.yah jivan kaa ek tathy he ki log un chizon ko kahenge jinase aap sahamat nahin hai, lekin jab tak ve bolne ke liye ek khule dimag or arakshit nirnay rakhana mahatvapurn he.jab aap ek snap nirnay lete hai, to aap jo kah rahe hai uski sampoornataa ko sunne kii apni kshamta se samjhauta karte hai.yadi aapkaa lakshya ek behatar shrota bananaa he, to aapako intjaar karne ke liye sabase acha kaam kiya jaataa he jab tak ki koi yah vishleshan karne se pehle baat kar rahaa he ki aapke vichaar unke saath kaise line karte hai.
- rukaawat mat karo.sunne or bas baat karne ke liye intjaar karne ke bich ek alag antar he.yadi aap ek behatar shrota bananaa chaahate hai, to aapako spikar ko apane vichaar kii train ko baadhit kiye bina apni gati se apane vichaaron ko puri tarah se samvaad karne kii kshamta deni hogi.
- spasht prashn puuchhen.ek baar jab vaktaa kii baat ho jaati he, to aap yah sunishchit karnaa chaahate hai ki aap unke vichaaron ko puri tarah se samajhen.puraa karne kaa ek shandaar tarika yah he ki unhen kuch bhi spasht karne ke liye puuchhen jo aapako kaaphi samaj main nahin aata he yaa jise aap adhik gaharaai se samajhnaa chaahate hai.unase spasht prashn poochkar, aap apane aap ko banaae rakhane or samajhane main madad karenge ki unhone aapse kya kaha he.

mujhe ummid he ki ye yuktiyaan aapako ek behatar shrota banane main madad karti hai.kripaya mujhe bataaen ki kya main adhik sahaayta kaa ho saktaa hum.</s>
