당시에는 어쩔 수 없는 선택이었지만 엄마의 사생활이 희생되었다는 것을 깨달았습니다. 엄마는 저에게 나만의 공간을 갖는 것이 중요하다고 말씀하셨어요. 엄마는 커피에 크림을 넣는 것을 좋아하셨지만 우유만 사용하셨어요.

While it was just what we did at the time, I realize it came at the expense of my moms own privacy. She told me that it was important that I had my own space. Even though my mom loved cream in her coffee, she only used milk.