Not worth the money. And of course you have to pay to talk to anyone. You get a bunch of notifications someone looked at your profile which is really annoying cause it's just them scrolling through profiles. Half the profiles aren't even complete so it's useless trying to message them since they can't respond. but you can pay an extra $10/mo so non members can reply to a message. It said I got 10 free messages to start but literally couldn't use 1 without it prompting me to buy a subscription.