Last couple of updates have just limited you so much in what you're able to do. First it seems like they dropped the ability to watch ads to get points, to write people.. You can watch the ads, they say they give points, but alas - nothing. Most recently you get MAX 50 likes every 2-3 days - not even daily. You can of course pay for more. And when two likes one another you can, for the time being, still chat together for free. I'd suggest looking into OKCupid instead, as things are currently.