If you're not looking for straight men, don't put your gender as woman. I have woman as gender and demisexual as orientation (I want connection above all) and when I have men selected in my search, all I see is straight men. A friend has their gender as transmasculine and has men selected in search and sees maybe 20% of straight men. If you claim to be alternative and supporting of other lifestyles, don't just show the 'women' the straight men. If I wanted that I'd go to Tinder.