Was gonna sign up, before reading the reviews and talking to a buddy who is on the site. Not letting users know who is/isn't a paying member, it's probably the worst. Also, requiring auto-renewal and a lengthy process to cancel, is bad practice. Non-upgraded members are essentially without the additional features, those features are essential. My buddy has been on the site 6 months, only had 2 dates, and it has cost him hundreds of dollars. Pass.