A miserable experience for all involved, whether you're a woman receiving s*xual, threatening and abusive messages or a man struggling to be seen(0 likes per month isn't at all unusual) amongst the crowds paying hundreds of pounds on boosts and platinum membership. Tinder does everything it can to make matching and making a meaningful connection harder, not how a dating app should be. Match group owns Tinder, PoF, Hinge and OKCupid, etc, so there's a lot less competition than you might hope.