As a woman I do appreciate a female ruler having male lovers however I am stuck with two women as lovers I won't even use random encounter because I'm afraid I end up sleeping with one of the woman. Their gender refused to change. One thing is most ruling games are targeting to male players this one is slightly different if you male naturally you get all women but this isn't an option for a woman I stopped playing because of this to my surprised it still da same woman dating and birthing woman