Unlike other apps that give you a quick tour or have everything set out to read in settings, this explains nothing so you just figure it out for yourself. Stupidly, I paid for a month to see if VIP was any better.....it's not. Oh yes, you can set locations and be very specific on your searches but you can't limit who makes contact with you. I'm in the UK, I don't want people in America or India making contact with me. Does not feel safe at all. Cancelled my subscription a week in, waste of money