Sit down. This may take a while. Setting distance limitations is useless. The notifications are constant, even if you check them. You can choose not to match with someone and the next day they're right there... You're only choice is to block them. Gender choice and match options don't seem to even matter because you'll get matched with whoever the app likes. Even when you match with someone they don't answer back likely because they dont get notifications or because they're bot profiles.