I have used this app for well over 10 years. Sometimes being a paying member. So I've seen all the changes. Gradually ruining the app for alot of people. Then they will ban you for no reason! I don't even understand in today's world how or why they would do that. So if I actually did something wrong I will never know what it was so that I could correct it and be aware of it. The people who run this app try to keep the fact that it's for guys trying to hookup, meet,date,etc other guys a secret.