Don't waste your time or money. There might be 10% of paying members who can actually see and respond to any messages or likes. The list of "new matches" are always the same people even when you mark you aren't interested in them. I get a rotation of the same 16 men. The people who message first are generally from out of country, no idea why there's no option to select a radius of how far you're willing to travel to meet. I thought POF was bad, OurTime is worse! Wasted my money, don't yours!