I guess today generation, online dating apps isn't just happening. You match with people and I make the first move. "Sorry you are too far away" or just left on read. Some people are very picking, like your handsome 6'5 Romero lover has to be 50 miles away or just not interested at all. Not sure why it is hard to have a conversation to someone that a match. Trust me I am not bad looking guy or have any obvious red flags. I am not here to attack eharmony it isn't their fault. Just be wise people.