Have to pay to even message people. People use tinder and don't pay and still get no matches. If you require payment to message you reduce the ease of access. This app would be more successful in connecting people and actually growing just by allowing messages. Find other ways to fund it like Facebook, YouTube, Tinder, OkCupid, Spotify have done and they're huge through ads or upgrades in service. Don't hold back the main purpose of the app with a paywall.