There is a paywall behind dating this is just a fact of life now. If you do not subscribe to Bumble then you are at the whims of luck. 3 weeks ago I received notifications that some people liked my profile. I have been swiping on and off since then and I have yet to come across these 3 mystery individuals. At this point they have surely moved on to other matches. Bad app is bad. Don't waste your time unless you are willing to subscribe.