Don't bother. You can't message anyone without paying too much for an upgrade. You can't talk at all with anyone unless a paid member messages you first. The site only lets you narrow your range to 100 miles then shows you people on the other side of the country anyway. Rip off and a scam to get you to pay in my opinion. I deleted after a day because there shouldn't be a free version offered if it has obsolutely no features available. Total waste of time.