I hate this app specifically because of the sexist discrimination against men intentionally built into it. Edit:Forcing women to make the first move by starting the conversation is not equality. You're just turning the "old fashioned dynamics" up to 11 then upside down. Equality is where anyone can make the first move regardless of their gender. Women don't want to start the convo. forcing them to start it is sexist & leads to more matches expiring. I don't recommend this app for these reasons.