The house holder should do whatever they would order him to do. This is the established custom. The householder, O Krishna should take his food the last of all, after having offered food to all of them.
ते यद् वदेयुस्तत् कुर्यादिति धर्मो विधीयते॥ गृहस्थः पुरुषः कृष्ण शिष्टाशी च सदा भवेत्।