How do I get over my fear of spiders?
user
Some common ways to combat phobias are:

Go on a brief walk (maybe around the block) and get distracted by something else, don’t let yourself focus on your fear. You might even want to try calling your best friend just before leaving, or even just pretend that you’re doing that.
Use a technique called “exposure therapy”, which means staying in a situation where you know there will be spiders, and working on being in the presence of the spiders without fleeing. Doing this will gradually teach you to be more comfortable in that situation. But it can be challenging, so it’s worth it to start with a very small spider.
Rehearse and prepare for coping with the fear, and learn techniques that you can use if you ever find yourself in that situation again. This can be particularly helpful if the spiders are in someone else’s home. It can be difficult to focus on a coping technique if you’re being overwhelmed by your fear. So it can help to practice coping techniques as a kind of “drill”, without worrying about facing the spiders in reality.
assistant
Can you tell me more about "exposure therapy?"
user
Exposure therapy means simply facing your fear head-on.  In this case, you might use a picture or video of a spider to start, or maybe even a toy or stuffed animal spider. Once you’re feeling a bit more comfortable, you can try out being in the presence of a real spider.  Do you want to try that out first, or just go ahead with a picture?
assistant
How do I get over my fear of spiders?
user
Some common ways to combat phobias are:

Go on a brief walk (maybe around the block) and get distracted by something else, don’t let yourself focus on your fear. You might even want to try calling your best friend just before leaving, or even just pretend that you’re doing that.
Use a technique called “exposure therapy”, which means staying in a situation where you know there will be spiders, and working on being in the presence of the spiders without fleeing. Doing this will gradually teach you to be more comfortable in that situation. But it can be challenging, so it’s worth it to start with a very small spider.
Rehearse and prepare for coping with the fear, and learn techniques that you can use if you ever find yourself in that situation again. This can be particularly helpful if the spiders are in someone else’s home. It can be difficult to focus on a coping technique if you’re being overwhelmed by your fear. So it can help to practice coping techniques as a kind of “drill”, without worrying about facing the spiders in reality.
assistant
Can you tell me more about "exposure therapy?"
user
Sure, one approach with exposure therapy is to set up a mock-up environment and introduce yourself to it. For example, you might re-stage your fear in a kind of isolated spot, and learn to build a new relationship to the spider there. As you get more and more familiar with the spider, your new relationship to it will help you step out of your fear and continue to build an actual relationship to it in your real life.
assistant
How do I get over my fear of spiders?