How do I tell someone they should eat healthier because they have diabetes?
user
It depends on your relationship to the person, and if you know how much they care about their health.  What would you do if they were your parents or a sibling?  What would you do if you were friends with them?  If you’re more distant, what’s the difference in how you’d say it in each case?
assistant
I'm their family member. We have already had a talk a while ago about this but they are not eating healthy so I am tempted to bring it up again.
user
If you’re in a family relationship, I’d suggest a more direct way to ask them to eat healthier, using their name and a positive message.  “Honey, your doctor told us you need to eat more fruits and vegetables, so can you please cut down on the french fries and potato chips and reach for the apples instead?”  If they need you to remind them, you could ask if you can make a calendar and put in on it to remind them.
assistant
Okay, I've thought about that before but I need to say something more persuasive.
user
I understand why it’s important to you.  If you know they don’t like to be told what to do, you could say something like, “Honey, I’ve noticed that since you’ve been working more we haven’t had much time for us to eat together, and I’d really like it if we could get back to a family routine where we eat together regularly.  I’m sure that would be good for all of us.”  Or, “One of the great things about our family is that we talk about all kinds of important things.  I feel like our connection has grown stronger because of the talks we have at dinner.”  You could start with a positive statement and invite them to share a positive, too.
assistant
I like this. Thanks for your help.
user
You’re very welcome.  I’m happy to help.  I think the best way to help anyone in your family is to use these ideas about directly suggesting and suggesting positively.  If they get mad or upset it’s probably best to stay calm and listen to what they’re saying and try to understand their point of view.  If you feel like the conversation needs to take a different turn, you can say, “I’m sorry I made you feel bad.  I really just want to help.  I’d like to talk about what it would take to do this thing together, and I want to tell you how great it would be to be together, eating healthy, like a family.  Can we do that?“
assistant
How do I tell someone they should eat healthier because they have diabetes?
user
It depends on your relationship to the person, and if you know how much they care about their health.  What would you do if they were your parents or a sibling?  What would you do if you were friends with them?  If you’re more distant, what’s the difference in how you’d say it in each case?
assistant
I'm their family member. We have already had a talk a while ago about this but they are not eating healthy so I am tempted to bring it up again.
user
If you’re in a family relationship, I’d suggest a more direct way to ask them to eat healthier, using their name and a positive message.  “Honey, your doctor told us you need to eat more fruits and vegetables, so can you please cut down on the french fries and potato chips and reach for the apples instead?”  If they need you to remind them, you could ask if you can make a calendar and put in on it to remind them.
assistant
Okay, I've thought about that before but I need to say something more persuasive.
user
I understand why it’s important to you.  If you know they don’t like to be told what to do, you could say something like, “Honey, I’ve noticed that since you’ve been working more we haven’t had much time for us to eat together, and I’d really like it if we could get back to a family routine where we eat together regularly.  I’m sure that would be good for all of us.”  Or, “One of the great things about our family is that we talk about all kinds of important things.  I feel like our connection has grown stronger because of the talks we have at dinner.”  You could start with a positive statement and invite them to share a positive, too.
assistant
I like this. Thanks for your help.
user
Oh I’m glad!  If you want me to keep helping you, I can keep checking back in with you in a few days.
assistant
How do I tell someone they should eat healthier because they have diabetes?