How can I improve my negotiation skills?
user
There are several models of negotiation, but here’s one, adapted from Margaret Neale and Ervin Shames:

(This is an illustration, not a literal transcript.)

1. Preparation: Choose goals and define clear objectives

2. Research: Learn about issues and other players involved

3. Empathy: Get an understanding of the other side

4. Strategy: Formulate a solution that meets objectives

5. Communication: Develop a plan for communicating the solution

6. Engagement: Complete the negotiation
assistant
That helps me get a better idea of the steps I should follow. Do you have any other advice?
user
Sure, here’s a few other resources:

Interview on Getting Things Done

5 Powerful Negotiation Tips from a Harvard Professor

My Science and Engineering Ethics Class on Negotiation
assistant
I still don't feel that confident. How can I get a better deal for myself while also keeping the other person satisfied?
user
Here’s a helpful example from the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology on negotiating with emotions:

1. Don’t take emotion personally

2. Think beyond a win-lose mentality

3. Come to a deal that’s better for both sides

4. Pick your battles carefully
assistant
I will try to use some of this advice.
user
I have to say, it’s pretty hard to say much more. You really have to take these things on the case-by-case basis. I could also offer a few more resources, but the truth is these are general guidelines, and you can really only learn to negotiate through trial and error.
assistant
How can I improve my negotiation skills?
user
There are several models of negotiation, but here’s one, adapted from Margaret Neale and Ervin Shames:

(This is an illustration, not a literal transcript.)

1. Preparation: Choose goals and define clear objectives

2. Research: Learn about issues and other players involved

3. Empathy: Get an understanding of the other side

4. Strategy: Formulate a solution that meets objectives

5. Communication: Develop a plan for communicating the solution

6. Engagement: Complete the negotiation
assistant
That helps me get a better idea of the steps I should follow. Do you have any other advice?
user
Sure, here’s a few other resources:

Interview on Getting Things Done

5 Powerful Negotiation Tips from a Harvard Professor

My Science and Engineering Ethics Class on Negotiation
assistant
I still don't feel that confident. How can I get a better deal for myself while also keeping the other person satisfied?
user
Here’s a helpful example from the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology on negotiating with emotions:

1. Don’t take emotion personally

2. Think beyond a win-lose mentality

3. Come to a deal that’s better for both sides

4. Pick your battles carefully
assistant
I will try to use some of this advice.
user
What’s your best strategy for coming up with your own goals, strategies, and plans for your negotiation?
assistant
How can I improve my negotiation skills?