How do I make amends with someone?
user
What do you mean by “make amends”?
assistant
Make peace with someone.  Put the past behind you.
user
Sounds like you want to make peace with someone. Do you want to do something specific?
assistant
I want to talk it out with them but I don't know where to start.
user
Do you want to go over the past in order to resolve your differences?  If so, I can help you do that.
assistant
Yes.
user
Tell me more.
assistant
I don't know how to be the first one to step up and talk about it.
user
You can ask to set a time to talk. If you want to let the other person choose the time and place, we can do that too.
assistant
That sounds good.  Any other advice?
user
If you think the other person will be resistant to talking about it, try to understand why they would be.  Did something hurtful happen between you?  Did they do something they regret, or did you do something you regret?  Let them know how you feel.  Tell them you want to talk about it, or share your own feelings and wishes, or ask them what they want to talk about, or ask them if they’d be willing to do anything about it.
assistant
How do I make amends with someone?
user
What do you mean by “make amends”?
assistant
Make peace with someone.  Put the past behind you.
user
Sounds like you want to make peace with someone. Do you want to do something specific?
assistant
I want to talk it out with them but I don't know where to start.
user
Do you want to go over the past in order to resolve your differences?  If so, I can help you do that.
assistant
Yes.
user
Tell me more.
assistant
I don't know how to be the first one to step up and talk about it.
user
You can ask to set a time to talk. If you want to let the other person choose the time and place, we can do that too.
assistant
That sounds good.  Any other advice?
user
You might want to think about what you hope to accomplish by talking about it. What does the other person need to know, and how can you communicate that to them?  Think about the parts of the problem that you think you can solve, and the parts you can’t fix, or that might not matter to the other person.
assistant
How do I make amends with someone?