From the farther disadvantage of Lydia's society [Kitty] was carefully kept, and though Mrs. Wickham frequently invited her to come and stay with her, with the 'promise' of balls and young men, her father would never consent to her going""). According to James Edward Austen-Leigh's "A Memoir of Jane Austen", Kitty later married a clergyman (no name for him is mentioned, so her married name remains unknown) who lived near Pemberley (""Catherine "Kitty" Bennet was satisfactorily married to a clergyman near Pemberley""), potentially a parish under the patronage of the Darcy family. Lydia Wickham ("née Bennet") is the youngest Bennet sister; she is 15 years old when the novel begins (turning 16 in June, after going to Brighton as Mrs. Forster's "particular friend" (but before she ran off with George Wickham)). In terms of outer appearance, Lydia is described as a strong, healthy, well-grown female, with a fine complexion and a good-humoured countenance (she also claims to be the tallest of the five sisters, though she is the youngest). In terms of personality, Lydia is a younger version of her mother, as well as being her mother's favourite (""Lydia was...a favourite with her mother, whose affection had brought her into public at an early age""); She has a one-track mind (""silly & ignorant"", ""vain, ignorant, idle, and absolutely uncontrolled!"", and ""untamed, unabashed, wild, noisy, and fearless""), to the point of being somewhat delusional in her self-love and her estimation of her own self-importance-and-consequence; all of which her mother (who has always spoiled her, and has actively encouraged her behaviour) merely considers as 'cheerfulness', 'jolliness', and 'flirtatiousness', as it matches all of her own humours (and therefore cannot understand why Mr. Bennet favours Elizabeth over Lydia). If Lydia has taken anything from her father, it would be his propensity/bad habit for poking fun at people; but, in Lydia's case, it is a habit of hers to mock, laugh, or else gloat at the losses, suffering, or inconvenience that befall others (especially at her own doing), declaring how ""[she] will laugh [at them]"". She lives in the moment, thinking only of herself and things that relate to her own enjoyments (clothes, parties, flirting with handsome men in regimental uniforms, all paying her attention, being the envy of others), utterly wrapped up in herself, and sparing a thought for neither the past or the future, for consequences to herself or for the wellbeing of others (""But [Darcy] found Lydia absolutely resolved on remaining where she was.