i attempted uninstalling pytorch and ignite  followed by
conda install pytorch torchvision torchaudio cudatoolkit=11.3 -c pytorch-nightly

but after this there was no version of torch installed. Further when I check list cuda I see
cudatoolkit               10.1.243             h6bb024c_0    anaconda

I also tried
pip3 install torch==1.10.0+cu113 torchvision==0.11.1+cu113 torchaudio==0.10.0+cu113 -f https://download.pytorch.org/whl/cu113/torch_stable.html

instead without luck.
I am now trying to build an environment from scratch.
And apologies for my limited understanding, but you are saying that once I get over the hurdle of pytorch installed with CUDA 11.3, then when I go to install ignite I should run
conda install -c pytorch ignite --no-deps

I was not sure as the conda install line you share does not have ignite in it.