I am training Albert language model using huggingface transformer. While training I notice that on my p3dn instance,gpu 0 is almost completely used but others have around 50% ram unused. I am getting only 85 batch size on this system and above this OOM.
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| NVIDIA-SMI 440.33.01    Driver Version: 440.33.01    CUDA Version: 10.2     |
|-------------------------------+----------------------+----------------------+
| GPU  Name        Persistence-M| Bus-Id        Disp.A | Volatile Uncorr. ECC |
| Fan  Temp  Perf  Pwr:Usage/Cap|         Memory-Usage | GPU-Util  Compute M. |
|===============================+======================+======================|
|   0  Tesla V100-SXM2...  On   | 00000000:00:16.0 Off |                    0 |
| N/A   77C    P0   291W / 300W |  30931MiB / 32510MiB |    100%      Default |
+-------------------------------+----------------------+----------------------+
|   1  Tesla V100-SXM2...  On   | 00000000:00:17.0 Off |                    0 |
| N/A   71C    P0   255W / 300W |  18963MiB / 32510MiB |    100%      Default |
+-------------------------------+----------------------+----------------------+
|   2  Tesla V100-SXM2...  On   | 00000000:00:18.0 Off |                    0 |
| N/A   71C    P0    95W / 300W |  18963MiB / 32510MiB |     98%      Default |
+-------------------------------+----------------------+----------------------+
|   3  Tesla V100-SXM2...  On   | 00000000:00:19.0 Off |                    0 |
| N/A   68C    P0    89W / 300W |  18963MiB / 32510MiB |     72%      Default |
+-------------------------------+----------------------+----------------------+
|   4  Tesla V100-SXM2...  On   | 00000000:00:1A.0 Off |                    0 |
| N/A   68C    P0    78W / 300W |  18963MiB / 32510MiB |    100%      Default |
+-------------------------------+----------------------+----------------------+
|   5  Tesla V100-SXM2...  On   | 00000000:00:1B.0 Off |                    0 |
| N/A   69C    P0    96W / 300W |  18963MiB / 32510MiB |     65%      Default |
+-------------------------------+----------------------+----------------------+
|   6  Tesla V100-SXM2...  On   | 00000000:00:1C.0 Off |                    0 |
| N/A   69C    P0    79W / 300W |  18963MiB / 32510MiB |     95%      Default |
+-------------------------------+----------------------+----------------------+
|   7  Tesla V100-SXM2...  On   | 00000000:00:1D.0 Off |                    0 |
| N/A   74C    P0    80W / 300W |  18963MiB / 32510MiB |     12%      Default |
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I was using default setting for it using data parallel.
I tried distributed training also using python -m torch.distributed.launch --nproc_per_node 8 test_lm.py  but It started new job for each and every GPU.
Setting OMP_NUM_THREADS environment variable for each process to be 1 in default, to avoid your system being overloaded, please further tune the variable for optimal performance in your application as needed. 
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Calling AlbertTokenizer.from_pretrained() with the path to a single file or url is deprecated
Calling AlbertTokenizer.from_pretrained() with the path to a single file or url is deprecated
/language_model/lm/lib/python3.6/site-packages/transformers/tokenization_utils.py:830: FutureWarning: Parameter max_len is deprecated and will be removed in a future release. Use model_max_length instead.
  category=FutureWarning,
/language_model/lm/lib/python3.6/site-packages/transformers/tokenization_utils.py:830: FutureWarning: Parameter max_len is deprecated and will be removed in a future release. Use model_max_length instead.
  category=FutureWarning,
Calling AlbertTokenizer.from_pretrained() with the path to a single file or url is deprecated
/language_model/lm/lib/python3.6/site-packages/transformers/tokenization_utils.py:830: FutureWarning: Parameter max_len is deprecated and will be removed in a future release. Use model_max_length instead.
  category=FutureWarning,
Calling AlbertTokenizer.from_pretrained() with the path to a single file or url is deprecated
/language_model/lm/lib/python3.6/site-packages/transformers/tokenization_utils.py:830: FutureWarning: Parameter max_len is deprecated and will be removed in a future release. Use model_max_length instead.
  category=FutureWarning,
Calling AlbertTokenizer.from_pretrained() with the path to a single file or url is deprecated
/language_model/lm/lib/python3.6/site-packages/transformers/tokenization_utils.py:830: FutureWarning: Parameter max_len is deprecated and will be removed in a future release. Use model_max_length instead.
  category=FutureWarning,
Calling AlbertTokenizer.from_pretrained() with the path to a single file or url is deprecated
/language_model/lm/lib/python3.6/site-packages/transformers/tokenization_utils.py:830: FutureWarning: Parameter max_len is deprecated and will be removed in a future release. Use model_max_length instead.
  category=FutureWarning,
Calling AlbertTokenizer.from_pretrained() with the path to a single file or url is deprecated
/language_model/lm/lib/python3.6/site-packages/transformers/tokenization_utils.py:830: FutureWarning: Parameter max_len is deprecated and will be removed in a future release. Use model_max_length instead.
  category=FutureWarning,
Calling AlbertTokenizer.from_pretrained() with the path to a single file or url is deprecated
/language_model/lm/lib/python3.6/site-packages/transformers/tokenization_utils.py:830: FutureWarning: Parameter max_len is deprecated and will be removed in a future release. Use model_max_length instead.
  category=FutureWarning,

Can anyone suggest what I should do for efficient training?