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"My first thoughts on logic: What does the relative want her dc to be able to consider for post secondary.  If it's university what are the admissions requirements. Can she provide the depth of work to complete those course credits and pass admissions exams. What would she have to do to make that opportunity a possibility. What are the requirements for other options.  \n  \nIf her kids are in high school, what do they think. Do they know what they want to do with their education and their life. Can they be self directed and complete these requirements without the help of their mom. Does mom understand that if a teen is not interested in following her direction, completing her assignments, there is nothing she can do to make that teen do the work.  \n  \nI would really emphasize the intensity level of the work she will have to teach. "
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