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"I\u0092ve been hanging out with this guy who has had a crush on me since college. Although we\u0092re not really dating, I decided to sleep with him, but he couldn\u0092t get it up. He blamed it on the beers he\u0092d had, and I bought it. But a few days later, he had the same problem while sober! Other chicks he\u0092s slept with didn\u0092t have this problem. So why is it an issue with me?Two words for you: performance anxiety. (Bet you\u0092re glad I didn\u0092t say erectile dysfunction, huh?) See, Mr. Softie has probably dreamed about sleeping with you for years, and now that the moment has actually come, he has stage fright. Don\u0092t take it personally \u0097 in fact, you should be flattered. The guy is so nervous about pleasing you and the pressure has become so great that his poor willy retreats in fear.\n\tAdvertisement - Continue Reading Below\n\t\n\n Here\u0092s how it went down: That first night, he had a few drinks to calm his nerves, which only made it, um, harder for him to get it up. The next time, he resolved to stay sober, thinking the booze might have been the problem. But once you hit the sack, his head was consumed by \u0093Please, God, don\u0092t let it happen again!\u0094 With those self-defeating thoughts, of course, it did.\n\n Unfortunately, you can\u0092t flat-out ask him about the problem \u0097 that\u0092ll draw more attention to it. Just help ease his anxiety. Next time you go out, don\u0092t have sex. The more he gets to know you, the less he\u0092ll view you as an untouchable sex goddess and the more relaxed he\u0092ll be. If there\u0092s still a problem, then it may really be erectile dysfunction."^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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