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"There are some questions about men that only a guy can answer. We asked the dudes at guyspeak.com (read more about them here), for their take on this dating conundrum:\n\nQ: Sex with my partner is getting increasingly worse. He&amp;#39;s more selfish, there&amp;#39;s minimal foreplay, the cuddling has ceased and I&amp;#39;ve never even had an orgasm. He&amp;#39;s not my boyfriend so I&amp;#39;m not sure what to do. Talk to him or just stop having sex with him?\nPinterestFacebookHe&amp;#39;s your partner but not your boyfriend? So that makes him what, your husband/long-term partner or a(n) FWB (friend with benefits)?\nNot that the distinction is terribly important. Talking to someone about a problem is always the best first step. He deserves to know that you are unhappy with your sexual life right now, and you have every right to voice that. Obviously you will want to do it in a way that&amp;#39;s tactful and not demeaning to him, or you won&amp;#39;t get very far. Maybe there&amp;#39;s a reason he&amp;#39;s been poor in bed lately: is he stressed? Depressed? Feeling unattractive to you? You won&amp;#39;t know until you talk about it with him, and he can&amp;#39;t improve until he knows you are not satisfied.\nSpeaking of dissatisfaction, how long have you been having sex with this man without an orgasm? That&amp;#39;s unacceptable&amp;#8212;more service than sex. What&amp;#39;s the point? Does he know you&amp;#39;re not getting off? He needs to know that, and he needs to take steps to change it.\nIf you&amp;#39;ve already discussed your sex problems and nothing has changed, then you have a bigger relationship issue&amp;#8212;he&amp;#39;s either incapable or unwilling to satisfy you in bed. That&amp;#39;s when you have to decide if it&amp;#39;s worth trying to work out or if it&amp;#39;s time to hit the road. That&amp;#39;s also when the difference between a husband/long-term mate and an FWB becomes more relevant.\nYou can walk away from a FWB much more easily than you can a husband or long-term partner. One is a more complicated relationship than the other, and deserves more effort on your part to work it out. One will also be a more painful split than the other.\nEither way, having a conversation or three is the best first step. If nothing changes after that, then no one could blame you for dumping the guy no matter what the relationship.\nWhat advice would you give in this situation? Would you tell her to walk away or try to talk it out?\n--Written by Cary McNeal for guyspeak.comMore from guyspeak.com:\n\nMy relationship is great--except for the sex. What can I do?\n\n\nMy husband isn&amp;#39;t satisfying me, but nothing&amp;#39;s working!\n\n\nHow do I make my boring sex life more exciting?\n\n\nFriend GuySpeak on Facebook and follow them on Twitter.\n\nMore Ways to Get Glamour\nVisit Shopglamour.com for cute stuff starting at just $10!\nEnter the latest Glamour sweepstakes!\nFollow us on Twitter.\nAdd Glamour to your iGoogle homepage.\nPhoto: Thinkstock"^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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