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"   Question My wife and I are mid-thirties and happily married. But I love her so much that I want her to enjoy sex outside our marriage.  She hadn\u2019t had any boyfriends before our marriage.  Now I want her to enjoy sex outside our relationship if she wants to. I asked about this once and she said that she is happy with me and want to stay like that.  I surfed through the net and found equally large number of husbands who are willing to share their wife.  Do you think I am wrong? If not, how can I convince my wife that I really don\u2019t mind her sleeping around?   Answer David writes: From clinical experience, I can tell you that very often a wife minds a lot when she is asked to &amp;#039;sleep around&amp;#039;. Furthermore, messing about like this often leads to emotional problems and marriage break-ups.  So, if your query is really a genuine one, I advise you to forget this entire idea.  Christine adds: You have a great marriage, you say. Why mess with it? You think it would be great if your wife got pleasure elsewhere and then came home and told you all about it.  But what happens when the guy is a better lover than you? Or better endowed?  Worse still, what happens when your wife grows emotionally close to another guy and this ruins your marriage?  I can tell you that I don&amp;#039;t know of one marriage that has survived this kind of open sexual activity.  I&amp;#039;m willing to believe that some marriages do thrive on this kind of thing, but I honestly don&amp;#039;t know of any. I know of plenty, on the other hand, that have fallen apart. So, my advice is that you value what you have.  Breathe excitement into it, fantasise all you want. But leave your fantasies in your mind \u2013 and don&amp;#039;t ruin things by converting them into fact.  Yours sincerely Dr David Delvin, GP and Christine Webber, Sex and Relationships Expert  Other Qs &amp;amp;amp; As I think about my wife having sex with another man My fianc\u00E9 wants to have sex with other women Sex objects \u2013 are they risky? Strange fantasies when masturbating We fantasise about my husband being with other women Will he cheat if I don&amp;#039;t act out his fantasies?  Last updated 11.03.2012 "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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