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" So, it turned out the guy who I thought I messaged online wasn&amp;#039;t the guy I went out with. Right after I sent the oops, we actually went out on a date message, he responded, asking where we went. So then I got confused and sent him the following: First off, is your name Hugh? If so, we went to Crocodile Lounge on October 6th, 2006 (it was the week before my bday, that&amp;#039;s how I knew the date) and then I invited you to a friend&amp;#039;s birthday party at some other bar and we totally made out in a cab, then I got distracted by my friends, and then you, understandably, left. It was sort of a pre-birthday bacchanal. If so, then I want to say I am REALLY sorry for all that! If not, then we did exchange e-mails back in 2006, but must not have met (which, as you can see from the above para, was or was not a good thing, depending on your perspective). Enlightenment? Then, he e-mailed me back a cute e-mail where he told me he wasn&amp;#039;t Hugh and asked if I&amp;#039;d consider making out in cabs in 2009. Now. Here&amp;#039;s the thing. I feel like I&amp;#039;ve come so far in so many ways in the past year. But you know what? I&amp;#039;m also someone who really likes making out in the backseat of cars. (Cue the song from Oklahoma, &amp;quot;I Cain&amp;#039;t Say No.&amp;quot;) And there&amp;#039;s the tricky thing. Obviously, as you can see from the e-mail I sent, I&amp;#039;m not shy about putting out all my cards, about being transparent\u2014maybe too much so. But the thing is, I HATE the idea of the dating game. I want a guy who I&amp;#039;m dating to get me\u2014even the fact that sometimes I might make out in a cab on a first date. So, how have you navigated that divide? Also, I feel in so many ways my past is catching up with me\u2014or, rather, I feel like I&amp;#039;m taking RESPONSIBILITY for my dating past. Remember O? He was the guy who I stopped dating after he lost his job (note that wasn&amp;#039;t the reason WHY I stopped dating him, it was more I felt things had been moving too fast, but still not my finest moment). Anyway, I ended up e-mailing him and sort of apologizing\u2014and telling him that while I&amp;#039;m not looking for a relationship, I did have fun with him, and if he&amp;#039;s looking for a friend, I&amp;#039;m around. And I really meant that\u2014not as a let&amp;#039;s be friends with benefits thing but more as a, you know what, he&amp;#039;s a nice guy and knows how to have fun. So, here&amp;#039;s to some of the old, some of the new? "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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