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" What do you consider to be ideal sex? Is it with a long-term partner\u00A0when\u00A0you both reach orgasm at the same, momentous, pleasure-filled moment? Or the thrill of getting your kicks with someone you know less well? Either way, an orgasm is likely to be involved. So, would you be surprised to hear that scientists are now saying that reaching orgasm every time you have sex is dangerous? We&amp;#039;re going to need some convincing here too\u2026 Scientists are calling it the &amp;#039;orgasm imperative&amp;#039; and\u00A0it&amp;#039;s not a physical, but an emotional risk. After looking at the sex lives\u00A0and habits of students, scientists found\u00A0that the pressure around having an orgasm can potentially be destructive to self-esteem and relationships.  Sex therapists highlight that this pressure makes young adults see sex as an activity with an end goal that, if not achieved, is deemed\u00A0unsuccessful and deflating. Actually, sex should be more about the interaction itself and the pleasure you do experience, however climactically. An inability to have an orgasm affects the self-esteem of both partners. The one who doesn&amp;#039;t\u00A0climax feels like they are incapable and the one who failed to make their partner orgasm feels inadequate. The message here is that sex shouldn&amp;#039;t be about expectations or an end result \u2013 we should all just chill out and enjoy ourselves. Cheers to that.  "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
<http://www.cosmopolitan.co.uk/love-sex/sex/news/a41152/orgasm-every-time-have-sex-dangerous/>