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"   Question I have cheated on my partner twice with two different men yet I thought I was in love with him.  Consequently we broke up although this was also due to his having feelings for someone else. Now he has started communicating again, I think he wants to give it another try. Should I bother because I really like him or should I forget him and get on with my life?   Answer I can&amp;#039;t say I view your relationship with either optimism or enthusiasm. If you cheated on him before, will you be a model of fidelity now? And does he really care for you, or have his feelings for the other person simply not worked out?  Also, I can&amp;#039;t help feeling that your language about him is not very loving. You say: &amp;#039;Should I bother...&amp;#039; when asking if you should give it another go. You also refer to getting on with your life as something you&amp;#039;ll do if he&amp;#039;s not around.  A famous actor once said that if a young person came to him and said: &amp;#039;Should I be an actor? he always answered &amp;#039;No&amp;#039;.  The theory being that if you have to ask \u2013 instead of believing that you absolutely have to act because life would be intolerable not doing so \u2013 then you really shouldn&amp;#039;t go in for it.  I wonder if we should judge our relationships similarly? After all, a relationship has its difficult moments even when it&amp;#039;s passionate and right and feels inevitable and as though we could not possibly ever be with anyone else.  So think carefully before you go back into something that is plainly not everything you could possibly wish for.  Yours sincerely Christine Webber, sex and relationship expert  Other Qs &amp;amp;amp; As I want my ex girlfriend back My ex-boyfriend wants me back even though he has a girlfriend Should I give it another go? Should I give my girlfriend a second chance? Should I go back to my ex husband?  Last updated 04.01.2008 "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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