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"   Question My partner and I have been having sexual intercourse for seven months.  Almost every time we have sex and I start going faster and harder or at a different angle she says it hurts her bladder.  Is this normal or is there is a way in which I can make it stop?   Answer David writes: Your girlfriend needs an examination by a doctor, and also a urine test. Why? In order to make sure that she hasn&amp;#039;t got a problem with her bladder. If the medic says that everything&amp;#039;s ok, the things which the two of you can do are:  Make sure she goes to the loo to pass urine before intercourse. Use plenty of lubricant. Try other positions.  Christine adds: Yes, I do think it&amp;#039;s important that your girlfriend gets the reassurance of a medical check-up. Assuming that&amp;#039;s OK, I&amp;#039;m sure that what David has suggested will help the situation.  But could I just add that when women are inexperienced, they often get a feeling during sex that they&amp;#039;re going to pee. They often worry terribly about this. It happens particularly when their G-spots are being stimulated.   Usually this feeling passes if you both just take it easy for a moment - and it often changes into a sensation of intense pleasure. So if she can get through that moment where she&amp;#039;s worried, she&amp;#039;ll probably be all right.  Also, she should realise that she is most unlikely to pee during sex \u2013 especially if she has just emptied her bladder. But that if she does, it&amp;#039;ll only be a few drops and you won&amp;#039;t mind anyway.  Once she knows this, she&amp;#039;ll probably stop worrying. If things don&amp;#039;t improve \u2013 and I think they will \u2013 my other suggestion is that she consults a doctor at one of the Brook centres. You don&amp;#039;t tell us where in the country you live, but there are Brook advisory centres all over the place. You can look up their website: www.brook.org.uk or ring their helpline on 0808 802 1234. Currently, the helpline is only open during rather limited hours, so you might prefer to text Ask Brook on 07717 989 023.  Good luck! Yours sincerely Dr David Delvin, GP, and Christine Webber, sex and relationships expert  Other Qs &amp;amp;amp; As Abuse has made her fearful of sex After cervical cancer is it still safe to have sex? Can I give him hepatitis B through unprotected sex? Can I give kidney stones to my partner through sex Can I have sex after a transient ischaemic attack (TIA)? Can we have fulfilling sex even though I am a wheelchair user? Disabled people and sexual activity Does spina bifida prevent me from having a good sex life? Fibroids in the womb Having sex with menopausal women I get bladder irritation during intercourse I suffer from ankylosing spondylitis and am worried about my sex life Is sex risky during a woman&amp;#039;s period? My headaches after sex My husband\u2019s skin problem is affecting our sex life Orgasm and disability Sex after breast cancer Sex after diathermy Sex and intimacy after pregnancy Sex and spina bifida Sex during pregnancy Sex life after hysterectomy Sex problem after accident Sexual attraction after a mastectomy Sexual desire after a miscarriage Sexual relations and epilepsy Sick feelings during sex We have cerebral palsy and would like some advice about sex  Last updated 15.10.2012 "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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