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"A couple of years ago, I cheated on my boyfriend and he dumped me. Well, a few months ago, we ended up rekindling the relationship \u2014 he decided to forgive me, or so he said. Just last week, he told me that while he was out with his friends, he got drunk and slept with another girl. He was sort of apologetic, but mostly he justified it, saying that I did the same thing to him. He promised never to do it again, but do you think I can trust him?Um, not really. What he did was totally uncool \u2014 no matter what you did to him in the past. A clean slate is a clean slate, and this dude said he would forgive and forget. Clearly, he didn't do either. When the opportunity came to pounce, he got his sweet revenge without any regard for your feelings. Even worse, he threw your previous indiscretion back in your face, blaming you for his one-night stand!\n\tAdvertisement - Continue Reading Below\n\t\n\n What is \"sort of apologetic,\" anyway? He's either sorry or he isn't. It sounds to me like he doesn't feel all that bad about cheating. I'm not saying he's going to do it again, but he's shown himself to be a vengeful, spiteful person. It takes a certain type of guy to offer forgiveness, then stab you in the back.\n\n That brings us to the whole trust thing. To me, the issue isn't whether he might sleep with another girl; it's whether you want to be with a man who has a mean streak. You have to wonder if he's going to punish you for every wrongdoing, trumping whatever small mistake you make with a doubly evil gesture. Is that the kind of relationship you want to be in? Didn't think so."^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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