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" Q. My frienleague (a.k.a. friend and colleague) got really offended when she learned I&amp;#039;d put her in the restricted &amp;quot;work&amp;quot; category on Facebook, meaning she couldn&amp;#039;t see all my personal posts or pictures of me with other friends. She thinks we&amp;#039;re closer than that. We get along great, but shouldn&amp;#039;t there be some boundaries, to keep things professional? --B.L., 27, MASSACHUSETTS A: I understand the need to keep some of your private life actually private. And who you connect with online is your choice. But people can be sensitive about these things. When a friend of mine went through a similar situation, she let colleagues know that the decision wasn&amp;#039;t personal; she was just trying to separate her work world from her private one. This also might be a good time to think about what you&amp;#039;re posting: If it&amp;#039;s something you don&amp;#039;t want to get back to your colleagues or boss, it may not belong online in the first place. Talk to Soleil Send questions about your complicated friend, family, marriage, or work situations to soleil@redbookmag.com and include your initials, age, and state, or tweet us @redbookmag with the hashtag #Soleil. Questions may be edited for clarity and length. Check out Soleil&amp;#039;s perfectly imperfect adventures in parenting on moonfrye. "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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