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" When Jada Pinkett Smith said recently that she keeps things hot with husband Will Smith by being spontaneous \u2014 sexting, sending naughty photos, and having quickies \u2014 we rolled our eyes. Could they be any more TMI?! But we had to admit the woman must be onto something. After all, she and Big Willie have been married 12 years and are apparently still going at it like newbies.  &amp;quot;Even in good relationships, couples fall into the routine of something called &amp;#039;scripted sex&amp;#039;, doing the same thing over and over,&amp;quot; says certified sex and relationship therapist Megan Fleming, PhD. It usually happens after two or three years, but can start as early as a few months in, according to her. And even scarier, scripted sex tends to turn into less sex. &amp;quot;It&amp;#039;s important to be cognizant of when your sexual encounters are becoming predictable, and take action to make them more spontaneous,&amp;quot; explains Fleming. You don&amp;#039;t have to go all grand gesture on your guy; the idea is to keep him on his toes so he never knows what racy little move is coming next. Here are some ideas.  Print out these ways to turn typically mundane activities into naughty sex, and keep them with you at all times. You never know when inspiration will strike. Oh, and be a good friend: e-mail or Tweet the link to your girls. They \u2014 and their guys \u2014 will owe you big time.   1. Suggest bringing the car to the carwash. Once you&amp;#039;re rolling through the tunnel on the conveyer, reach over, undo his pants, and go down on him. It&amp;#039;s road head without the danger of crashing or getting pulled over by the cops. No worries if he doesn&amp;#039;t climax by the time the wash cycle is over; just head straight home to finish what he&amp;#039;ll now think of as the hottest foreplay he ever received.   Related Video       2. Wear racy lingerie under ratty old workout clothes. Tell him you&amp;#039;re heading to the gym and ask him to stretch you out first. Give him a little peek at what you&amp;#039;re working with then wonder aloud if there&amp;#039;s a more fun way to burn the calories than hitting the Stairmaster.  3. The next time you&amp;#039;re grocery shopping together, pick up whipped cream. Say, &amp;quot;We&amp;#039;ll be needing this when we get home.&amp;quot; Then tell him he can choose a few more foods that he&amp;#039;ll get to eat off of you later. The checkout girl will have no idea why you two are grinning.  4. Set your alarm 15 minutes before you have to be up, strip down (if you&amp;#039;re not already naked), and take his hand in yours. Guide it over your body, lingering on your nipples and rubbing your naughty bits. It&amp;#039;s a big bang way to wake him up, but less expected than doing it with oral. And remember, guys love a woman who craves pleasure and takes matters into her own hands...literally.  5. Call 267-SLYDIAL, a free service that allows you to go right to someone&amp;#039;s cell voicemail without it ringing. Enter in your guy&amp;#039;s number then leave a message of nothing but you moaning. If you don&amp;#039;t feel comfortable doing that, pull up a porn clip and play the sounds of them moaning. Then say that you&amp;#039;re looking forward to seeing him later. The surprise of getting such a dirty message will shock him in a good way. And since you don&amp;#039;t know when he&amp;#039;ll listen to it, you&amp;#039;ll be in a sexed up, anticipating state of mind too.  6. Instead of fast-forwarding through the commercials on your DVR, toss the remote aside and let him know that during every break, you&amp;#039;re going to take off one item of clothing and he has to kiss each area as it comes into view. Our guess? You&amp;#039;ll be doing it right there on the couch by the time the &amp;quot;Save or Delete&amp;quot; option pops up at the end of the recorded show.  7. Leave a pair of underwear in his glove box. Then call him on his way home from work one day when you&amp;#039;re feeling horny and say you think you left your sunglasses in there. When he finds your vickies, his mindset will go from zoned out commuter to horny instantly. "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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