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"Rex and I are trying to spend more time together as a couple. We are walking three times a week, watching some fun shows like Hells Kitchen, and having sex at least five times a week. Okay, not that last part. But by connecting a bit more as friends we&amp;#039;ll hopefully morph into some crazy eighties song where I can be... his... friend. And I can be... his... lovah. If you don&amp;#039;t know that song, you&amp;#039;re younger than I am. You&amp;#039;re probably having more sex than I am also. But I don&amp;#039;t hate you for it. Tell me you have a clean house and I&amp;#039;ll rip your eyes right out, but I digress. Back to Hells Kitchen. That Chef Gordan Ramsey is one mean dude. If he treats his wife anything like the contestants, you can bet that the bedroom isn&amp;#039;t cooking as much as the kitchen. Then again, maybe some women enjoy being called &amp;quot;lazy cow&amp;quot; or asked &amp;quot;Are you stupid?&amp;quot;. Maybe I fit both descriptions, because although I&amp;#039;m the first to admit I find Ramsey&amp;#039;s personality less digestible than some of the tripe the contestants dish out, I keep coming back for more. To be clear, I am no way inferring that Gordan Ramsey is a jerk to his spouse in real life. I am aware that his barking personality has a lot to do with ratings. Like Dr. Laura, a tough love relationship talk show host who has as much fun dishing on people as dishing out advice, hard hitting personalites are what make money. They keep the uneducated masses on their toes and provide a good dose of humor along the way. These people say what a lot of listeners think but are too intimated to admit to the planet. Yes, from the success of people like Rosie O&amp;#039;Donnel and Howard Stern, one thing is clear: Society loves a bully. From what I read in the newspaper and hear on the news constantly, it seems that women in real life enjoy the bully also. From verbal to physical battering, some females don&amp;#039;t know the line between good drama and personal drama. When I read stories like this one about Rhianna, I am so grateful that Rex&amp;#039;s biggest abuse towards me is too much time at work or on the computer. The only true damage we&amp;#039;ll witness is through the television lense. I can also thank my parents for instilling confidence in me. From them I gained self worth. I could never stay with a man that pushed me around. But many do. If you&amp;#039;re one of those, you can contact the National Abuse Domestic Hotline. They&amp;#039;ll put you in touch with the nearest womens&amp;#039; shelter and keep you and your children safe. Now if you&amp;#039;ll excuse me, I&amp;#039;ve got another episode of Hells Kitchen to watch. Like Gordan Ramsey&amp;#039;s kitchen, may your sex life be clean enough to be healthy but just dirty enough to have some creativity. "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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