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" After a wild night out with my friends, I wound up going home with this hottie. We didn&amp;#039;t have sex, but we fooled around all night. The next morning, I woke up totally embarrassed to be naked in bed with a stranger. Luckily, he was really sweet about the whole thing, and we spent the next couple of hours talking. He turned out to be a great guy, so I gave him my number, but I have yet to hear from him. I&amp;#039;m afraid it&amp;#039;s because he&amp;#039;s written me off as slutty. Is there any way I can explain to him that I&amp;#039;m not normally like that and see if we can possibly start over? Well, I&amp;#039;ve got good news and bad news. Let&amp;#039;s get the bad stuff over with: You&amp;#039;re right, this guy isn&amp;#039;t calling because he thinks you&amp;#039;re easy. Sure, it may be the first time you&amp;#039;ve ever done something like this, but how the hell does he know that? As I&amp;#039;ve said time and time again, men like the chase. Go home with him right away and the game is over. Now for the good news: There&amp;#039;s a possibility, though small, that you can try and change his mind about you. Of course, your impulse is to tell him that you&amp;#039;re &amp;quot;not normally like that,&amp;quot; but we&amp;#039;ve heard that line a million times before from girls as skanky as Paris Hilton. Trust me, the more you try to explain away your behavior after the fact, the guiltier you sound. Instead, call him up and say something like &amp;quot;Look, I know we got off to a weird start, but you seem like a really nice guy, and I&amp;#039;d like to start over. Maybe we can go for a drink sometime and actually talk.&amp;quot; Yes, it&amp;#039;s aggressive, but it may be the only way to get him to give you another chance. Then, the next few times you guys meet up, keep your clothes on! That way, you might get him to start seeing you as a real person and relationship material, rather than just some girl he hooked up with one time. "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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