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" She Thinks You&amp;#039;re Only in It for You You may believe jumping on her and saying, &amp;quot;Let&amp;#039;s do it!&amp;quot; is a display of enthusiasm, but &amp;quot;by diving right in, it seems like you care more about your pleasure than about her, which makes her feel used,&amp;quot; says Yvonne K. Fulbright, PhD, author of Touch Me There! &amp;quot;To get her in the mood, reassure her that your first goal is making her happy,&amp;quot; she adds. If you already came on strong and she recoiled, recover by explaining that she&amp;#039;s just so amazing and irresistible, you couldn&amp;#039;t control yourself. You Pissed Her Off...at Some Point So you were late for dinner last night; big deal. Trouble is, that screwup may stop you from getting some for the next week or so. &amp;quot;When a woman is angry, even over something minor, she has zero desire to be sexual with you,&amp;quot; explains clinical sexologist Bob Berkowitz, PhD, coauthor of When Men Stop Having Sex and What Women Are Doing About It. To get back in her good graces, &amp;quot;apologize for what upset her, even if you don&amp;#039;t think you did much wrong,&amp;quot; suggests Fulbright. &amp;quot;Then let her know that you want to make it up to her -- in the bedroom, if she&amp;#039;ll let you.&amp;quot; Your Hygiene Is Slipping She loves you just the way you are, so she adores you even with three-day-old stubble and in gym shorts, right? Wrong! No amount of amour can make up for smelling nasty. &amp;quot;You&amp;#039;ll see more action if you seem clean and make some effort to look presentable,&amp;quot; says Fulbright. Not only will you be that much more attractive, but she&amp;#039;ll appreciate that you cared about being at your best for her. So shave, shower (with soap, hotshot!), brush your teeth... You get the idea. She&amp;#039;s Not Feeling Sexy On a fat day, the last thing she wants to do is get bare. Sure, you think she looks smokin&amp;#039;, but she may feel like a sumo wrestler. &amp;quot;If she&amp;#039;s been complaining a lot recently about her appearance, take a hint that she needs an ego boost,&amp;quot; says Berkowitz. Let her know she looks good by saying something like &amp;quot;Your body is so hot. Can I please see you naked?&amp;quot; Hint: It&amp;#039;s the please that will seal the deal.  Myth: Most women cry all the time &amp;quot;Some women are really emotional, but most of my friends know how to keep it together. If something sad happens, I&amp;#039;ll cry, but I&amp;#039;m not going to get all weepy watching Grey&amp;#039;s Anatomy.&amp;quot; --Talia, 31 &amp;quot;I know women who work the tears to their advantage -- like if they&amp;#039;re fighting with a guy, they&amp;#039;ll turn on the waterworks. But heads up, fellas: A lot of times, it&amp;#039;s an act!&amp;quot; --Hannah, 28 &amp;quot;I&amp;#039;m a driven person, and I try not to get too upset, especially at work. It&amp;#039;s unprofessional and never beneficial. Sure, I have my moments, but they&amp;#039;re few and far between.&amp;quot; --Sadie, 27 "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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