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"    Q: My boyfriend and I recently broke up. He cheated on me and is now with the co-worker he cheated with. We were together for five years. The last year of our relationship was long distance because of school. He told me when I moved that he was going to do everything possible to keep our relationship strong and flourishing. But somewhere down the line, I guess he had a change of heart and didn&amp;#039;t tell me. I&amp;#039;m amazed at how quickly he got into a relationship with this other woman and made her his girlfriend. He told me I was The One, and now I&amp;#039;m no one. What was his mental process? Why did he cheat on someone he said he wanted to be with for the rest of his life? How did I become so insignificant?   A: I wouldn&amp;#039;t worry about your ex so much. Who cares what he was thinking about? Long distance relationships are hard, and yours didn&amp;#039;t work out. It happens all the time.   What you should be worried about is that fact that you&amp;#039;re writing things like, &amp;quot;Now I&amp;#039;m no one,&amp;quot; and, &amp;quot;How did I become so insignificant?&amp;quot; without even qualifying them to make it read like these are his thoughts about you. It sounds like since your relationship didn&amp;#039;t work out, you suddenly see yourself as worthless.  And that sucks. So remember this: You&amp;#039;re not someone only when you&amp;#039;re in a relationship. Another person doesn&amp;#039;t validate your humanity.   It&amp;#039;s not like after things don&amp;#039;t work out with your man you become a mole-person, forced to burrow underground, going unnoticed by the human world, living in an eternal half light of dirt and crickets, while subsisting on the roots of garden vegetables. First of all, there are no such things as mole-people (I hope). Second, you&amp;#039;re a very special human. You&amp;#039;re important. I suggest you stop worrying about your ex, or really relationships and dudes in general, until you get comfortable with that fact you are as special, important, non-mole-person.  Translation? Move on and learn to be happy and fulfilled with yourself before trying to be happy and fulfilled with anyone else. "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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