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"Facebook is great because it let&amp;amp;#8217;s us keep tabs on all our friends and stay connected to people we would normally see only once a year at a Christmas party. Except when your BF is on there and he&amp;amp;#8217;s messaging other girls and letting them write on his wall and you&amp;amp;#8217;d with he&amp;amp;#8217;d just stop: I have a question about my boyfriend of 3 years. The problem is with Facebook. My boyfriend has these 3 certain girls on his friend list; he keeps liking their photos and giving them compliments! They also put messages on each other wall at least once a week involving some inside joke. I don&amp;amp;#8217;t know if I&amp;#x27;m being sensitive or any other person would have felt the same way. &amp;amp;mdash;Anti-Social Network This is going to sound a little jerky, but why are you spending so much time on Facebook? Seriously, when you pose the above query online, does it not sound a little like what we call &amp;amp;#8220;first world problems?&amp;amp;#8221; Three years in, these are the kinds of problems you want to have (except if they snowball into massive jealousy issues; which after reading this post, hopefully they will not). He comments on other girls&amp;amp;#8217; photos? So what? Do you comment on guy friends, and their posts? I don&amp;amp;#8217;t think you should lose a lot of sleep over this. Also, it&amp;amp;#8217;s worth noting that he&amp;amp;#8217;s doing this in a fairly public forum. He&amp;amp;#8217;s not sneaking over to these girls&amp;amp;#8217; houses and telling them how great he thinks that photo of them in Hawaii was, and then whispering in her ear how much he would also like to try parasailing. He&amp;amp;#8217;s doing it in the open, where he knows you can see it. Facebook flirting isn&amp;amp;#8217;t even real flirting, and this isn&amp;amp;#8217;t even Facebook flirting. If the inside jokes are really making you nuts, ask him about them (in a cute way, not a way that sounds accusatory or makes it sound like you were snooping, which you only kind of were). But you may sound insecure. I don&amp;amp;#8217;t think you need to worry about the girls who he shares jokes with over Facebook. Worry about the ones who send him naked texts. Do your guy&amp;amp;#8217;s female Facebook friends annoy you? How about the ones who exist offline? Have a question about Dating, Relationships, or Sex for Single John? Submit it here. Can be totally Anonymous! More on Dating at Glamour.com More Ways to Get Glamour: Chat with celebs, VIP fashion stars, beauty pros and more on our Facebook page! Visit Facebook.com/glamour for this month&amp;amp;#8217;s schedule Visit ShopGlamour.com for cute stuff starting at just $10! Download Glamour Magazine for your iPad--print subscribers, it&amp;amp;#8217;s now part of your subscription plan! Enter the latest Glamour sweepstakes! Follow us on Twitter. Photo credit: Jupiter Images "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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