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"Yesterday&amp;#x27;s advice was amazing. I know NYC is right for me, but your words of wisdom/personal experience made me feel really secure about the decision, as did the 81% of you who said &amp;amp;quot;It&amp;#x27;s time.&amp;amp;quot;&amp;amp;nbsp; Throughout the day, I pondered the quote: Wherever you go, there you are. In other words, whether I&amp;#x27;m in a bikini on Venice Beach or a pashmina on Park Avenue -- I&amp;#x27;m still dealing with the same core issues. Still single, still on the rebound, still a little lost. I get it. But with New York, I have a life rich in friendships, family, culture, history and creativity.&amp;amp;nbsp; I miss being well-rounded, instead of just... well-healed. Moving to LA had many layers....I was burnt out. I wanted to write more and party less. I had Shelley by my side, and a insatiable hunger for spontaneity. But I also couldn&amp;#x27;t deal with the everyday temptations to be with GD. I refused to accept we had no future -- I was living in denial and scaring myself. So, while moving home is not about rekindling the flame, it is about conquering the fear. I haven&amp;#x27;t booked my ticket yet, so as of now, I&amp;#x27;m still a boy-crazy Cali girl. College Crush has caught on to the fact that I&amp;#x27;m just not that into him, and accepted a date with my friend on Saturday night. The lovebirds already sent me a joint email, asking me to come along.&amp;amp;nbsp; No thanks. No more Melrose Place for me. Caught up on some reading today, and stumbled upon an article by the staggeringly-handsome, A-listed journalist:&amp;amp;nbsp; David Zinczenko. Aside from his editor-as-a-sex-symbol status, he&amp;#x27;s also very smart. He wrote a blog on Why Men Cheat -- and I&amp;#x27;m curious to get your reaction. I&amp;#x27;ve never really talked about cheating, because, well, who&amp;#x27;s to cheat on?!&amp;amp;nbsp; Kidding. But seriously, so many of my friends have struggled with affairs, on both ends of the spectrum, and I&amp;#x27;m fascinated by DZ&amp;#x27;s uncensored perspective. In case you can&amp;#x27;t open the link...here&amp;#x27;s one intriguing expert: It&amp;#x27;s a man&amp;#x27;s biology to want to wander. Does that mean he should, or that he can&amp;#x27;t help it?&amp;amp;nbsp; Of course not. But it does mean that a man is going to have strong-extremely strong-biological urges to knock on the doors of neighboring huts. I have had this argument/discussion/conversation with dozens of men and women: Are men predestined to cheat? Well, what do you think, are men predestined to cheat? Click here to vote"^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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