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"Although I don&amp;amp;#8217;t think I barfed quite as much as Megan over on Obsessed, last night&amp;amp;#8217;s Girls was hard to watch. So hard. And not just because of the Q-tip disaster that still has me flinching every time I think about it, but because of most of the characters&amp;amp;#8217; insistence on ruining any good they might have had in their relationships. First, let&amp;amp;#8217;s talk Shoshanna. Her hair doughnut didn&amp;amp;#8217;t seem to bother Ray, but her behavior certainly did. I&amp;amp;#8217;m pretty mad at her for cheating on him, but I&amp;amp;#8217;m more mad at how she&amp;amp;#8217;s handling it, which is to say, acting like a nervous servant, then basically offering to sleep with suddenly successful Charlie, and then lying to Ray about the extent of her dalliance with the doorman. Here&amp;amp;#8217;s the thing: I get that Ray is partly to blame for their relationship problems. He&amp;amp;#8217;s grumpy and he moved in without telling her, and he probably even borrowed that peace sign Snuggie without asking. But Shoshanna&amp;amp;#8217;s patented &amp;amp;#8220;cheat and freak&amp;amp;#8221; method of handling it seems like it&amp;amp;#8217;s going to sabotage any chance they have of mending their problems or respecting each other as people when he finds out what&amp;amp;#8217;s really going on here. If a relationship isn&amp;#x27;t working, there are other, kinder methods to get out of it than this, Shosh. Second, let&amp;amp;#8217;s talk Adam. Oh boy, let&amp;amp;#8217;s talk Adam. His budding relationship with Natalia has been endearing in how different it is from his time with Hannah. She&amp;amp;#8217;s sweet and has great hair and genuinely likes him, and he seemed to be really enjoying her openness. Which made the downward spiral after his run-in with Hannah all the more disturbing. Their second sex scene? Yikes. It&amp;amp;#8217;s not that I judge what people like in bed, but purposely making your partner uncomfortable is not cool. Couples can ask each other to try new things, but blindly proceeding despite her discomfort possibly pushed the boundaries of consent and certainly pushed the boundaries of good taste. Although Natalia went along with his requests, it was beyond obvious she was not going to like that. And judging by Adam&amp;amp;#8217;s &amp;amp;#8220;Are you done with me?&amp;amp;#8221; comment, that&amp;amp;#8217;s kind of what he was going for. Why, Adam, why? I get that maybe Adam ultimately needs Hannah or at least someone more like Hannah than Natalia on the spectrum of being cool with his strangeness, but I really hated seeing him so deliberately try to ruin his own progress, both with dating and with being sober, especially when it also meant he was deliberately hurting Natalia. Rounding out the group&amp;amp;#8217;s bad decisions, I would have thought that taking over your ex-boyfriend&amp;#x27;s party to make yourself the center of attention with the world&amp;amp;#8217;s most awkward cover song would really sabotage your friendship with him, but actually, it makes perfect sense that Charlie would be turned on by the new, train-wreck version of Marnie. And of course, there was Hannah&amp;amp;#8217;s attempt to sabotage her relationship with her ears. Let&amp;amp;#8217;s just never speak of that again though. Do you agree that sabotaging relationships seemed to be the theme of the night? (Also, do you like it when Girls is hard to watch? I really do!) Have you ever subconsciously done something to mess up a relationship you knew wasn&amp;#x27;t working? Love on Girls: *12 Memorable Relationship Moments From Girls, Ranked From &amp;amp;#8220;Been There Done That&amp;amp;#8221; to &amp;amp;#8220;WTF?&amp;amp;#8221; (Season 2 Starts Tonight!) *He Said, She Said: A Male-Female Debate on Last Night&amp;#x27;s Girls *In Which Girls Proves You Have to Be Insane to Love or Be in Love (and Also, That We All Are) Photos: HBO"^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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