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"  Your sex is all fine and good, but it&amp;#039;s lacking a little dirty talk? Adding some sexy questions to steam up your relationship may just be the trick you need.  &amp;quot;Asking the right questions to your partner is an easy way to not only enhance intimacy in a relationship, but also expand your existing sexual repertoire,&amp;quot; says Emily Morse, sex expert and radio host of Sex With Emily. Here, Morse shares some of her favorite questions to help take your bedroom behavior up a notch. And the best part? These questions work both ways, so here&amp;#039;s hoping he&amp;#039;s a quick learner.  Play &amp;#039;Would You Rather?&amp;#039; &amp;quot;The kids game &amp;#039;Would you rather?&amp;#039; can easily be turned into a sexy game allowing you both to explore your sexual boundaries and understand each others wants and desire,&amp;quot; says Emily. &amp;quot;The answers are fun but also very revealing about each partners&amp;#039; attitude towards sex and relationships.&amp;quot; Emily helps us get warmed up... Would you rather be blindfolded or blindfold me? &amp;quot;This is a way to test how your partner feels about letting go during sex play,&amp;quot; Morse says. Would you rather have sex while someone is watching you, or would you want to watch a couple have sex in front of you? &amp;quot;(This is a) fast track way of finding out if your partner is a voyeur or an exhibitionist,&amp;quot; says Morse, adding: &amp;quot;Plan accordingly!&amp;quot;  Would you rather orgasm while I&amp;#039;m performing oral or during intercourse? This is one way to find out how important oral sex is to your partner,&amp;quot; says Emily. &amp;quot;Something you might not want to slack on, depending on the answer.&amp;quot; How your partner answers would be telling of how they feel about orgasms,&amp;quot; she adds. &amp;quot;Do they want to let go and have you perform on them or would they rather have the one-on-one, eye-to-eye, connection that comes with intercourse?&amp;quot; Would you rather try out kinkier sex ideas or have romantic sex? &amp;quot;Sure, some of us like a little of everything. A spanking one day and staring into each other&amp;#039;s eyes like you mean it another day. Is your partner vanilla or spicy? The truth will be revealed.&amp;quot; Dig Deep During Dirty Talk &amp;quot;Asking your partner questions about their preferences and desires will help you pleasure him or her more during sex,&amp;quot; asserts Morse, who has a handful of suggestions to get started. What was your high school sex fantasy? &amp;quot;Since they aren&amp;#039;t in high school anymore, this question will get them to talk more freely about their fantasies,&amp;quot; explains Morse. &amp;quot;They can always blame their &amp;#039;High School self&amp;#039; for a bizarre fantasy. Also, it will get them thinking about all the sexual frustration they had in high school and how they can finally realize their fantasies with you.&amp;quot; What does it feel like when you orgasm? &amp;quot;This makes your partner think about how wonderful it feels to orgasm,&amp;quot; says Emily. Here&amp;#039;s the bonus: &amp;quot;The feeling is indescribable, so they&amp;#039;ll probably want to have one ASAP to give you an accurate description of what it feels like.&amp;quot; Is it okay if I go down on you right now? &amp;quot;This is extremely sexy because you&amp;#039;re asking them if it&amp;#039;s okay to do something they&amp;#039;re dying for you to do,&amp;quot; explains Emily, who says this is the perfect question to pose during sex. &amp;quot;By asking them if it&amp;#039;s okay you&amp;#039;re showing them just how much you want to please them.&amp;quot; Play &amp;quot;Truth or Dare&amp;quot; &amp;quot;&amp;#039;Truth or Dare&amp;#039; questions are also a great way to learn more about your partner and ensure you get it on at the same time,&amp;quot; explains Emily. Here are some of her examples: Truth: What kind of foreplay would you like to try next time we&amp;#039;re in bed? Dare: Choose two parts of my body and stimulate at once using use mouth and hand. Truth: What&amp;#039;s something dirty that you&amp;#039;ve always wanted to say to me in bed (or be said to you)? Dare: Eat a piece of fruit (peaches are always a sexy favorite) in the most sensual way possible. To ease into some dirty inquiring, try one of the below classics: What&amp;#039;s your favorite position? Where have you always wanted to have sex, but are scared to? What&amp;#039;s your favorite body part other than your penis? Would you rather I kiss you softly or more roughly? Do you prefer me to undress you or would you like to undress yourself? What&amp;#039;s your most memorable sexual experience we&amp;#039;ve had together and why? What&amp;#039;s a fantasy you&amp;#039;ve never shared and would like to try? Happy Dirty Talking, y&amp;#039;all. Want more stories from Carson? Follow her on Twitter. Photo Credit: Getty Images "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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