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"It&amp;amp;#8217;s a pretty safe bet that no one&amp;amp;#8217;s going to show up to your wedding wearing the same dress as you. Then again, you probably wouldn&amp;amp;#8217;t think that your mother in law would copy your hairstyle--especially after she said she hated your idea. Check out this reader&amp;amp;#8217;s story. &amp;amp;#8220;I was set on wearing a low, side ponytail with curls for my wedding. (MB note: It&amp;amp;#8217;s a popular choice! That&amp;amp;#8217;s how Engagement Chick and I did our wedding hair!) When my groom&amp;amp;#8217;s mom grilled me about my wedding-day look, she made a point in saying that my choice in wedding hairstyles sounded &amp;amp;#8216;so 80s.&amp;amp;#8217; I thought it was such an obnoxious response, but I let it go because I knew it would look elegant. My wedding day came and all the bridesmaids and both moms got their hair done at the same salon. My now mother in law&amp;amp;#8217;s appointment was just ending when my mom and I walked in for ours. I went over to say hi to her as she was finishing up in the chair and lo and behold, she&amp;amp;#8217;s sporting a low side ponytail! And the woman who did her hair was the same one who was about to do mine! I wish I could say this didn&amp;amp;#8217;t bother me, but it drove me crazy. Thank goodness my own mom was with me to calm me down and remind me that this was not something that should ruin my day (which was great except for this moment!). I decided to stick with this wedding hairstyle because I didn&amp;amp;#8217;t want to take a chance on a new one that I didn&amp;amp;#8217;t already have a trial for, and I just hoped my wedding veil would disguise the fact that my hair was otherwise identical to a woman twice my age. For the most part, it did, but a few wedding guests asked me if I noticed that my mother in law&amp;amp;#8217;s hair was similar to mine. Uh, yeah. Thanks for reminding me. My mother in law never acknowledged that she stole the idea she once ridiculed and I never brought it up to her because what would be the point? I don&amp;amp;#8217;t think it would have bugged me as much if she never made fun of the wedding hairstyle, but she did! And then she got it for herself. I&amp;amp;#8217;m not gonna lie--I was happy it looked kind of weird on her!&amp;amp;#8221; Would you be annoyed if your mother in law criticized your wedding hairstyle? How would you feel if she then went and copied it? Why do you think this mother in law went for that look? More Wedding Hair Stories Three Wedding Hairstyles We&amp;amp;#8217;re Obsessed With Now Bridal Hairstyles That Look Good With Veils, Barrettes, and Headbands Check Out Glamour Readers&amp;amp;#8217; Lovely Wedding Hairstyles! What&amp;#x27;s With All the Spam in the Comments Section? Sick of all those annoying ads in the comments section lately? So are we! We police the site regularly and delete spam as soon as we can, but recently, the volume of spam has increased dramatically. We&amp;#x27;re working on a way to block them permanently, so please bear with us, and know that we&amp;#x27;re as eager as you are to get rid of these pests. Meanwhile, please continue to use the Report Abuse button to flag spam--it really does help!-- and continue to leave your brilliant feedback below. If you have any urgent questions about the spam, please contact us. And a special note to you, spammers; we officially declare you a major DON&amp;#x27;T. More Ways to Get Glamour Visit Shopglamour.com for cute stuff starting at just $10! Enter the latest Glamour sweepstakes! Follow us on Twitter Add us to your iGoogle homepage Photo: Marili Forastieri"^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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