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" CANCER + CANCER (June 21 - July 22) To respin the old joke: What do two Cancers bring on a second date? Answer: a U-Haul. Cancer is the zodiac&amp;#039;s nester, and you&amp;#039;ll quickly set up a home with a fully-stocked kitchen, cozy furniture, a hand-wired sound system and eclectic art. This is a Water sign match that can work out swimmingly. You&amp;#039;re both sensitive and nurturing, and you feel safe in each other&amp;#039;s thoughtful care. With your love of culture, you may need a separate room for your collection of books, music and film. While you&amp;#039;ll create a trove of sentimental memories and a lovely little family, you can become too insular together. Push yourselves to leave the comfy Crabshell and take more risks. You make fine travel companions, especially on trips involving water: surfing in Maui, an Alaskan cruise or skiing in Aspen. Cancer is ruled by the changeable moon, and at times, your fluctuating moods can clash. On bad days, all that emotion under one roof means slammed doors, screamed insults and hours of sulking. Problems also start when you take everything personally, or let your insecurities paralyze you. We know of one Cancer-Cancer couple where the woman proposed to her fianc\u00E9\u2014got down on bended knee when she had the flu!\u2014because she got tired of waiting for him to pop the question. Turns out, he had a ring stashed in his sock drawer, but was scared she would say no. Oh brother. Crabs, grow a pair\u2014don&amp;#039;t let this happen to you. CANCER + LEO (July 23 - August 22) Can you say drama? Between Cancer&amp;#039;s moods and Leo&amp;#039;s ego, you&amp;#039;re a camera crew away from being a reality show\u2014the kind that makes you want to change the channel, only you can&amp;#039;t leave the crash scene. Harsh but true. Your signs are both needy and bossy, but in different ways. Cancer is insecure and possessive, and this sign&amp;#039;s sensitive Water element can quench Fire-sign Leo&amp;#039;s excitement. Leo rules the zodiac&amp;#039;s fifth house of drama, and suffers from a terminal case of what relationship expert Alison Armstrong calls &amp;quot;center of the universe disease.&amp;quot; Cancer is ruled by the fluctuating moon, Leo by the sun. You literally can be as different as night and day. However, your knee-jerk reactions and hair trigger tempers cause the same amount of destruction. So what works about this match? It&amp;#039;s packed with passion and romance, something you both adore. Cancer and Leo are heart-driven signs, and emotional highs are your breath of life. For all the crashes, meltdowns and train wrecks this causes, you remain fiercely, enigmatically loyal. Self-awareness is crucial to this relationship&amp;#039;s survival. You both need to take responsibility for the drama you&amp;#039;re capable of stirring up. In the best cases, you&amp;#039;ll meet after you&amp;#039;ve learned to temper your emotions, or even better, logged a few dedicated years of therapy. CANCER + VIRGO (August 23 - September 22) \u2665\u2665\u2665\u2665 This is a couple that can outlast the ages, since you&amp;#039;re fast friends and seamless companions. Virgo is the zodiac&amp;#039;s helper and Cancer is its nurturer. Your emotional connection is instant, and you&amp;#039;re thrilled to meet a kindred soul who knows how to give, not just take. It&amp;#039;s a refreshing break from the usual energy vampires you both attract! Your relationship is sweet and storybook-innocent: lots of handholding, sentimental cards, and anniversary baubles. Yet, you&amp;#039;re practical, too, stowing away college funds for your yet-to-be-born children, earning advanced degrees, taking out a mortgage. Security is something you both cherish. In a way, you&amp;#039;re like parents and partners to one another: you both express love by nagging, fussing and feeding. And it works. A pair of self-professed nerds, you love to cook, decorate, read novels and learn. No matter how much money you earn, you both remain thrifty, too. (Scoring a high-end treasure at a tag sale or an eBay auction is orgasmic.) Your signs are both family oriented, and you make sweet but strict parents who live for your children. Generally, you&amp;#039;re close to your own relatives, and you enjoy spending time at family events or hosting holiday gatherings. Keeping the sexy charge alive will take a little effort, though, since you both love to stay home rather than dress up or hit the town. Push yourselves to leave the nest, and socialize with other couples more often. CANCER + LIBRA (September 23 - October 22) You&amp;#039;re a sweet, romantic couple, but not always a perfect match. On the upside, Cancer is ruled by the caring Moon and Libra by romantic Venus, casting a tender glow on this love affair. With your flair for color, style and objets d&amp;#039;art, you could open an interior design business (your home may in fact resemble an Architectural Digest spread). Now, the challenge: Cancer is a deeply emotional Water sign whose moods fluctuate like the tides. Libra is a social Air sign who prefers to happy-dance through the daisies. Between the Crab&amp;#039;s fatalism and Libra&amp;#039;s denial, nobody has a strong grip on reality. Better keep a few grounded Earth sign friends on speed dial when you lose perspective. Failing that, you&amp;#039;ll need to adapt to each other&amp;#039;s opposing natures. Like a stone skipping across the water&amp;#039;s surface, Libra averts the plunging depths of Cancer&amp;#039;s inconsolable undertows and cloying neediness. Yet, avoidance is futile, since it only upsets the Crab to be ignored. Libra should learn that a hug, flowers and an apology (however undeserved) pave the quickest path to peace. Not that Libra doesn&amp;#039;t have his own powerful undercurrent: when those scales tips out of balance, he can escalate a minor breakdown into a Code Orange catastrophe. Admit it: you&amp;#039;re both big babies at times. For long-term success, find activities you both enjoy: travel, language classes, dancing, dinner parties. You&amp;#039;re gracious hosts and culturally literate people with lots to talk about. Get out and savor life together. CANCER + SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21) You&amp;#039;re an ideal match, twin Water signs with deeply complementary natures. Highly suspicious and protective of your privacy, neither of you trusts easily. As a result, you intuitively trust each other. The good news is, you&amp;#039;ve bet on a winning sea-horse. These two signs can mate for life, and the emotional facets of your relationship deepen into an intimacy few couples reach. Romantic and sentimental occasions never go uncelebrated: birthdays, Valentine&amp;#039;s Day, the five-month anniversary of the first time you said &amp;quot;I love you.&amp;quot; Sex is a sacred, erotic act that can transport you on a one-way trip to Tantra-ville. You feel safe enough together to try anything. The challenge will be breaking the ice, since you both tend to clam up in a red-faced fluster or any icy aloofness around a new love interest. It helps to talk about music, books, films\u2014anything but your feelings. Once you get past the awkward phase, it&amp;#039;s smooth sailing. You genuinely enjoy each other&amp;#039;s company, and like to do almost everything together. As parents, you&amp;#039;re incredibly nurturing and hands-on, and may struggle to cut the cord when your kids reach adolescence. In fact, control is the big challenge for your signs. Jealous and possessive, you know how to avoid your mate&amp;#039;s hot buttons\u2014or to push them when you&amp;#039;re feeling spiteful. (The Crab pinches and the Scorpion stings; both can wound the relationship fatally.) At times, Cancer&amp;#039;s sulking seems childish to Scorpio, and Scorpio&amp;#039;s sharp edges can maim the Crab&amp;#039;s tender feelings. Fortunately, you know how to win your way back into each other&amp;#039;s good graces once the moody spells pass. CANCER + SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 21) You&amp;#039;re cut from entirely different cloths and patterns. Sagittarius is neon polka-dot on stretch Lycra; Cancer is Burberry plaid on Swiss wool. You&amp;#039;ll never be a match that makes sense to observers\u2014which is why Cancer Tom Cruise and Sagittarius Katie Holmes are such a tabloid target. Is it true love, a train wreck, or a little bit of both? Let&amp;#039;s examine. Domestic Cancer rules home, heart and family, and holds his loved ones in his vest pocket. Sagittarius is the restless world traveler who craves freedom and adventure. Sag can either feel smothered or totally nurtured by Cancer. The Crab loves to provide every security for his sweetie, and it&amp;#039;s a relief to the Archer to come home to a hot meal, a drawn bath, an adoringly attentive partner. The trouble starts when Sagittarius stops coming home. Sagittarius needs sunlight, air and wide open spaces. Cancer keeps the shades drawn and burrows into his metaphorical Crab shell. When Sagittarius neglects Cancer&amp;#039;s need for togetherness, starts hanging out with a rowdy crew of rebels, or traipses the globe alone, Cancer&amp;#039;s insecurities are rankled. You have fierce tempers, and the combustion of Cancer&amp;#039;s moodiness and Sag&amp;#039;s anger can be downright destructive. What the Crab must realize is that a pretty bird in a cage will soon fly the coop\u2014at least, if the bird is a Sag. He must open the windows and trust Sagittarius to come back to the nest, a real act of faith. Your strong sexual chemistry sweetens the pot, but you&amp;#039;ll need to adapt to each other&amp;#039;s rhythms through hard work and keen listening. CANCER + CAPRICORN (December 22 - January 19) \u2665\u2665\u2665\u2665 Paging June and Ward Cleaver! Cancer is astrology&amp;#039;s mother and Capricorn is its patriarch. You&amp;#039;re opposite signs that might very well polarize into these retro roles. On the zodiac wheel, Cancer rules the fourth house of home, family and femininity. Capricorn governs its tenth house of fatherhood, authority, masculinity and ambition. In many ways, it&amp;#039;s nice to have a mate who happily redresses your shortcomings. Yet, it can also be off-putting. Cancer longs for touch and affection, misty-eyed Hallmark moments and emotionally naked conversations. Stoic Capricorn can be stiff and formal, a closet neurotic who pooh-poohs Cancer&amp;#039;s feelings as overblown melodramas. In truth, Capricorn just internalizes his feelings, then falls into depressions or flogs himself mercilessly. You must learn the other&amp;#039;s &amp;quot;love language&amp;quot; to succeed as a couple. Cancer shows caring through sentimental gestures, food, togetherness and well-intended nagging. Capricorn&amp;#039;s expression is through duty\u2014bringing home a steady paycheck, showing up on time, holding it together when everyone else falls apart. Capricorn must learn to honor Cancer&amp;#039;s feelings and intuition; the Crab must develop gratitude for Capricorn&amp;#039;s loyalty and quiet wisdom. Parenting is where you really shine as a team. Raising children is the ultimate honor for your signs, as well as a creative challenge. You&amp;#039;re both loyal to your families, no matter how much they drive you crazy. This is a quality you respect in each other. At the end of the day, you share enough common values to make a solid, lifelong match. CANCER + AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18) This oddball match is as fascinating and perplexing as a Proenza Schouler pump\u2014and like the highbrow fashion house, few understand its power. Here we have Cancer, sentimental and family-oriented, possessive, anchored by deep roots and tradition. Mix in Aquarius, the sci-fi nomad, a butterfly escaping the net of convention, laughing with you and at you all at once. How on earth\u2026? This is a coupling that doesn&amp;#039;t happen often, and for good reason. Cool Aquarius doesn&amp;#039;t need much affection, and Cancer withers without physical touch. The Crab clutches his loved ones in powerful pincers, and scuttles after Aquarius, practically begging for love. Naturally, free-spirited Aquarius feels smothered and trapped by these demands for intimacy, and constructs little trap doors everywhere\u2014a basketball team, a drama class, a post on city council. Yet, when wounded Cancer withdraws into his shell, Aquarius is suddenly intrigued. Where did my lifeline go? What Aquarius takes for granted is Cancer&amp;#039;s loyalty, which can resemble a mother&amp;#039;s love for her troubled teen. The Crab can see the vulnerable child underneath the surly bravado. Beyond that, you owe each other a karmic debt so profound, you can&amp;#039;t even articulate it. Explains one Aquarius, who&amp;#039;s been with her Cancer mate for 35 years: &amp;quot;I&amp;#039;ve learned that sometimes you have to do what the other person likes, even if you don&amp;#039;t like it.&amp;quot; In other words, if you want to stay together, eat your broccoli. You&amp;#039;ll certainly grow in spirit and character. Sometimes, your soul needs a challenge more than a smoothly-paved road. CANCER + PISCES (February 19 - March 20) \u2665\u2665\u2665\u2665 You&amp;#039;re a pair of softies underneath it all, even if the world sees a hard Crab shell or a tough, scaly Fish. Alone with each other, your compatible Water signs are as tender as can be. You&amp;#039;re both compassionate and nurturing, soothing each other with sustenance and sensitivity. There&amp;#039;s nothing a stick of butter, cookies made from scratch, or a nice after-dinner cordial by the fire can&amp;#039;t solve. Romantic and sensual, you love to pipe classical music through the sound system, light the candelabras and whip up a gourmet feast side-by-side. Hours of kissing and foreplay will follow. Though your relationship is a refuge, it can also become a fishbowl that limits your growth. You absorb each other&amp;#039;s fluctuating moods like a sponge, so get out of the aquarium-for-two. With your refined sensibilities, you&amp;#039;re excellent patrons of the arts, so head to museums, gallery openings, concerts, and dance performances. Fling open your doors for dinner parties that toast an artistic friend, an esteemed poet, or a relative&amp;#039;s good news. This satisfies your nurturing instincts, and invites new energy into your space. You must both learn when to let go of grudges, since you can be passive-aggressive and play the victim when your feelings are hurt. Slammed doors, sulking and brooding must stop. Don&amp;#039;t excuse bad behavior with psychobabble, either (e.g., &amp;quot;When you said that, it reminded me of how my mother couldn&amp;#039;t love&amp;quot;). Grow up, will you? If you&amp;#039;ve been cruel, simply say &amp;quot;I&amp;#039;m sorry&amp;quot; and offer a long hug. The power of touch can heal anything between you, too. CANCER + ARIES (March 21 - April 19) Aries is the zodiac&amp;#039;s baby (its first sign); Cancer is its matriarch, ruling the fourth house of motherhood, home and family. Is this relationship doomed to be an Oedipal cliche? Not if you temper these traits through steady, conscious self-development. Otherwise, you easily lapse into automatic roles that polarize you into a parent-child (or master-and-servant) dynamic. Aries can be selfish\u2014not maliciously, but in a crude, clueless style that leaves Cancer resentful and dismayed at the Ram&amp;#039;s lack of nuance. Cancer knows how to play the nurturing giver, but this delicate sign needs room to be vulnerable, too. Aries loves to be coddled, but Cancer&amp;#039;s maternal indulgences will create a spoiled brat or a demanding diva. Besides, while the Crab may have a tough outer shell, the true warrior is Aries, ruled by aggressive Mars. Your differences are many: Aries is a diehard independent and Cancer is a family guy; Aries needs freedom, the Crab&amp;#039;s possessive grip clings tight. You&amp;#039;ll need to compromise, or else the relationship can turn into a competitive, jealous hotbed. You can both brood with the best of them, and your dark days eclipse even the tiniest sliver of hope. Talk about depressing. Swear off the silent treatment and learn to communicate as two adult equals. CANCER + TAURUS (April 20 - May 20) \u2665\u2665\u2665\u2665 Buy those twin rocking chairs and install them on the porch: You&amp;#039;re an old-fashioned throwback, high school sweethearts at any age. No two signs are more traditional, sentimental or family-oriented than yours. Although the sweetness can be cloying, you&amp;#039;re a love story for the ages. In fact, you may emulate your own parents (or compensate for their shortcomings), since you share a rather conventional moral compass. Affectionate and nurturing, you crave lifelong security and a comfortable home, and you&amp;#039;ll squirrel away a sizeable nest egg together. Not that you don&amp;#039;t indulge. Your signs both appreciate art, culture, decorating, music and gourmet food. As parents, you&amp;#039;re protective but firm, Taurus doling out tough love in your children&amp;#039;s best interest, nurturing Cancer kisses every boo-boo. Framed family pictures creep like urban sprawl through your home. At times, Taurus&amp;#039; booming voice and blunt remarks wound the Crab&amp;#039;s tender feelings. Like a bull in a Bernardaud shop, Taurus doesn&amp;#039;t realize his own size, strength and intensity. Taurus will need to dial down the volcanic energy\u2014intuitive Cancer doesn&amp;#039;t need every point driven home. At the same time, Cancer must overcome insecurities and toughen up, since Taurus doesn&amp;#039;t mince words or tiptoe through the tulips for anyone. Sure, there will be tears and misunderstandings, but there&amp;#039;s nothing that any recipe calling for heavy cream can&amp;#039;t solve. You both love pampering and feasts, and if your waistlines expand along with your joy, c&amp;#039;est la vie. CANCER + GEMINI (May 21 - June 20) Cancer is an emotional Water sign who loves to nest and bond; Gemini is a restless Air sign who prefers intellect over sentiment. You have similar interests, different temperaments. In many cases, this works out anyway. You both adore culture, the more obscure the better. You love to discover new bands, read novels by controversial authors, gorge yourselves at the jewel of a restaurant tucked into an undiscovered neighborhood. You bond over TV shows and bargain-hunting for treasures (you both have a thrifty streak). No flea market, tag sale or eBay store is safe from your scouring, and your home can resemble a bizarre gallery of antiques and modern gadgetry. The tricky part is when you lapse into astrological auto-pilot. Cancer is the zodiac&amp;#039;s mother, who heaps on affection, nurturing and well-intended care. To Gemini, this can feel like clinginess and smothering. Gemini is the zodiac&amp;#039;s fickle tween, waffling between bouts of dependence and asserting autonomy. There will be moments when Gemini greedily laps up Cancer&amp;#039;s doting, and others when mama bird is roughly pushed away with a sarcastic, heart-piercing insult. Cancer must work hard not to take these moments personally\u2014otherwise, the Crab lashes back with a below-the-belt barb, and it turns ugly. Remember, Crabcake: it&amp;#039;s not you that Gemini is rejecting, it&amp;#039;s your overprotection. Get a pet to dote on instead. Gemini needs space, Cancer needs reassurance. Memorize this formula. "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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