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" Dear E. Jean: I&amp;#039;m a 30-year-old guy. I&amp;#039;m writing to you because I want honest, impartial advice on the following question: Am I an asshole? I met a girl on a dating site, and we started to talk\u2014and talk a lot. Over the course of the past month we probably exchanged 2,000 texts, and spoke on the phone every other day. We got along great. But she refused to meet in person, even though she&amp;#039;s a grad student at a university close to my office. I asked about her reluctance to meet, but she brushed it off. She said she had no &amp;quot;fears&amp;quot; and had never experienced any &amp;quot;horrible first dates,&amp;quot; so I was having difficulty understanding why we shouldn&amp;#039;t hang out. I therefore sent her the following message: &amp;quot;I need to know if you want to move this forward. It&amp;#039;s seriously time we either sh*t or get off the pot.&amp;quot; She replied that she couldn&amp;#039;t meet because she was &amp;quot;trying to quit smoking, get in shape, and look for a job.&amp;quot; I feel that I&amp;#039;ve made my intentions clear, and thus my question: Am I a total jerk? Was I right to break ties? Or should I wait and hope that one day this will turn into something more? \u2014Can&amp;#039;t Understand the Female Sex My Dear Chap: The young lady is not interested. The young lady is not looking her best. The young lady is dating another guy. The young lady is dating two other guys. The young lady is a guy. P.S. You&amp;#039;re too fine a fellow to waste your affections\u201470 texts a day, by my calculations!\u2014on an imaginary girlfriend. I strongly recommend you sample the excellent dating site HowAboutWe.com. You sign up and suggest a clever date you&amp;#039;d like to go on, as in, &amp;quot;How about we drink Chartreuse and guess the 130 secret ingredients?&amp;quot; Young ladies with the same interests accept (or suggest another cool idea). Then you simply set a time, and meet! "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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