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"  I&amp;#039;m trying not to overreact. It&amp;#039;s been a few days since the last time I saw Trevor (which was the Sunday after the first time we had sex,) and I feel like he&amp;#039;s ghosting me a little. He texted me at the beginning of the week to tell me that he had so much fun and also asked what I was up to over the next few days. Great. Grand. But then when I wrote him back saying I wasn&amp;#039;t super busy, and asked him what he was up to, he told me he had a rough week of work ahead, but didn&amp;#039;t mention anything about us getting together. What. The hell. The weekend is coming up and I cannot be the one to initiate plans. It violates the rules! And the fact that he&amp;#039;s been MIA is making me want to call Mark.  &amp;quot;Stop freaking out, it&amp;#039;s only been two days!&amp;quot; Ashley told me while she poured me a big fat glass of wine in her kitchen.  &amp;quot;I am freaking out, what if I&amp;#039;m being punked?!&amp;quot; FYI, getting punked, in my circle of friends, is when you finally give in and hook up with a guy who has had a crush on you for a while, and then he&amp;#039;s like, &amp;quot;You&amp;#039;ve been punked! I don&amp;#039;t actually like you!&amp;quot; and never talks to you again. It happened to me the spring semester of my freshman year and the stress of it was the only reason I lost the seven pounds I gained during the fall semester. &amp;quot;Well maybe this will make you feel better,&amp;quot; Ashley said. &amp;quot;I&amp;#039;ve been dying to tell you this.&amp;quot; She paused dramatically. &amp;quot;We just hired this new girl, and it turns out, she went to college with Stef\u2014Eric&amp;#039;s co-worker, the one he cheated on you with.&amp;quot; My eyes went wide. &amp;quot;What?!&amp;quot; I squeaked. &amp;quot;Why didn&amp;#039;t you call and tell me this immediately?&amp;quot;  &amp;quot;Because I just made the connection yesterday and I wanted to wait and tell you in person.&amp;quot; &amp;quot;Okay, so tell me! Does she know you&amp;#039;re friends with me?&amp;quot;  &amp;quot;Oh yeah, we talked about the whole thing,&amp;quot; Ashley said. &amp;quot;And Jos, not that it really matters anymore, but apparently Eric really did break up with Stef because he missed you. He wasn&amp;#039;t lying.&amp;quot; &amp;quot;Ugh,&amp;quot; I moaned. &amp;quot;Why would you tell me that? I&amp;#039;m so weak right now and you don&amp;#039;t even like Eric for me anymore!&amp;quot;  &amp;quot;I just thought you should know,&amp;quot; she said. &amp;quot;It doesn&amp;#039;t change anything or excuse the fact that he cheated on you. But I don&amp;#039;t know, maybe years from now it will make sense for you guys to get back together and you should at least know he realized what a douche he was being and that he wasn&amp;#039;t lying to you about everything.&amp;quot; &amp;quot;I can&amp;#039;t even think about Eric right now anyway.&amp;quot; I said. &amp;quot;I&amp;#039;ve already let go of any shred of hope that we&amp;#039;ll get back together, and I don&amp;#039;t want to open up that door again.&amp;quot;  &amp;quot;I know,&amp;quot; Ashley said. &amp;quot;Obviously I&amp;#039;m all for that. And I&amp;#039;m sorry, I didn&amp;#039;t mean to upset you. I just thought that would make you feel a little less hurt about things.&amp;quot; &amp;quot;It does, and I&amp;#039;d rather know it than not know it,&amp;quot; I said. &amp;quot;I just feel sick over the thought that Trevor may never call me again and I don&amp;#039;t have room in my brain to worry about Eric.&amp;quot; &amp;quot;You&amp;#039;re getting worked up over nothing. I know he&amp;#039;s going to call. And if he doesn&amp;#039;t, then take FME up on his offer.&amp;quot; FME is the nickname Ashley came up with for Mark. It stands for F*%k Me Eyes. Brilliant, right? My goal now is to just stay as busy as possible and have faith that sleeping with Trevor was not a horrible mistake. It does make me feel a teensy bit better that I have FME on the back burner, just in case it was. Do you think Trevor is punking me? Would it be really bad to text him to see what he&amp;#039;s up to this weekend, or should I let him come to me? "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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