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"Once, while playing &amp;quot;Never have I ever&amp;quot; with a bunch of people, one friend admitted she had cried after sex. The guys gave her a hard time about it and even the girls poked fun at her. I think we were all imagining Andie Anderson&amp;#039;s crazypants friend in How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days who says, &amp;quot;The first time that we had sex, it was so beautiful I cried.&amp;quot; Well, I can no longer judge. Because yep, today I cried after sex. In all fairness, I was already sort of crying before sex and the post-hookup tears had nothing to do with the sex being beautiful or anything. I was just having one of those days. Overwhelmed with work. Dealing with a friend who was less than happy with me. Tired as hell. And when I started to tell D. about all of it, the floodgates opened. I haven&amp;#039;t cried in front of him very often and when I do it&amp;#039;s usually because we&amp;#039;re fighting. So D. was really taken aback that I was crying about something unrelated to him. And by taken aback, I mean he had no freaking clue how to react and froze up for 15 seconds. Then he put his arm around me, sat me on the bed, and just listened in silence while I let it all out. He finally asked, &amp;quot;If I were in your shoes, what would you tell me?&amp;quot; It was the absolute perfect thing to say. &amp;quot;That it&amp;#039;ll all work out,&amp;quot; I responded. &amp;quot;Of course it will.&amp;quot; And he pulled me into a hug. That&amp;#039;s when I realized, I really want to have sex with this boy. Right. Now. I started kissing him and pulled off his shirt. It took D. about three seconds to switch gears. We lay down on the bed and I didn&amp;#039;t need any foreplay so I just grabbed D. and pulled him towards me. We both were on our sides, and I threw my top leg over his hip. He then put his top leg between mine. (I&amp;#039;m pretty sure this is what Howie Day was talking about in &amp;quot;Collide&amp;quot; when he sang &amp;quot;And I&amp;#039;m tangled up in you.&amp;quot;) The best word to describe this position, which I later found out is called Spider Web, is: sweet. It&amp;#039;s also comfortable and easy and did I mention sweet? And just like the guy in the illustration, D. had his hands on my lower back. My clitoris was happy because D. could pull me towards him as he thrusted. And my mind was happy because it gave me this protected, loved feeling. (Shmoopy, I know, but cut me some slack today. I was just crying, after all!) D. finished and I didn&amp;#039;t. And then as we were chilling on the bed, I started tearing up again. Clearly, I was in an emotional mood. And D. just hugged me till I made a joke about how he should probably dump me now because I was obviously turning into that girl and might buy him a love fern now. Have you ever cried after sex? How does your guy react when you get upset? Does he get all awkward or does he know what to do? Have you ever seen him cry? "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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