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"  Guys love carnal communication, but the vocals that turn them on the most vary. A past Cosmo sex poll found that 52 percent of men are moved by moans and sighs, while 37 percent dig outright dirty talk. &amp;quot;The key is to determine what you feel good doing and what your man wants to hear, then work from there,&amp;quot; says Aline P. Zoldbrod, PhD, sex therapist and author of Sex Talk: Uncensored Exercises for Exploring What Really Turns You On. &amp;quot;Even just some heavy breathing can make sex more mind-blowing.&amp;quot; There&amp;#039;s no need to consult the Spice channel for tutelage; just follow our easy manual. Put yourself into the right mind-set. Listen to tunes that turn you on, read racy fiction, or conjure up steamy scenarios involving you and your dude. Do some deep breathing and let your body totally relax. Then experiment with sounds you could utter the next time you&amp;#039;re in the sack. (Hey, you&amp;#039;re solo here, so no worries about coming off lame.) &amp;quot;People don&amp;#039;t realize that being vocal in bed isn&amp;#039;t just about personality; it&amp;#039;s also about practicing,&amp;quot; says Regena Thomashauer, author of Mama Gena&amp;#039;s Owner&amp;#039;s and Operator&amp;#039;s Guide to Men. Now bring your sultry sounds to the bedroom. Since guys say it&amp;#039;s the hottest ruckus you can make on the mattress, start off with a purr or an mmmm, or simply breathe heavily. Cha-ching! Your beau will be burning up. &amp;quot;This kind of feedback cheers him on,&amp;quot; says Zoldbrod. Plus, a few easy oohs and ahhs will help you get comfortable. If that got you going and totally gunned his motor, attempt some dialogue. &amp;quot;You can take any old sentence and say it sexily,&amp;quot; says Zoldbrod. &amp;quot;Just whispering or emphasizing certain words will up the erotic ante.&amp;quot; For example, &amp;quot;What do you want to do now?&amp;quot; can be said as a breathy &amp;quot;So...what do you want to do now?&amp;quot; Or a little murmuring and accentuation of key words will fire up phrases like &amp;quot;You have the most amazing hands&amp;quot; and &amp;quot;I love it when you do that.  If your cutie took to the compliments by issuing his own or was clearly excited by your semispicy discourse, then maybe you want to get a little dirtier. To avoid embarrassment and clich\u00E9d phrases spawned during the days of Boogie Nights: &amp;quot;Develop your own code for those words that are difficult to say and you&amp;#039;ll feel less tongue-tied,&amp;quot; says Zoldbrod. &amp;quot;Can we do my favorite thing?&amp;quot; might signify 69; &amp;quot;tease me&amp;quot; could be a request for oral sex; and &amp;quot;my turn&amp;quot; might let him know that you want to be on top. Get more tips here: What You Always Wanted to Know About Talking Dirty "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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