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" Go Commando in Low-Slung Pants  Make sure he finds out before you get home that night \u2014 drop your pencil, checkbook, or house keys, and make a strategic bend for his benefit.   Why he&amp;#039;ll melt: What you don&amp;#039;t reveal is what reels him in. &amp;quot;It&amp;#039;s well known that men are visual creatures,&amp;quot; says Howard J. Ruppel, PhD, executive director of the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors, and Therapists. &amp;quot;But they&amp;#039;re also problem solvers. Giving him a clue without exposing everything keeps him guessing.&amp;quot; In other words, the suggestion of an almost-bare area will lock his mind on exactly when he&amp;#039;ll get to explore your bod in its entirety.   When he leans in for his usual I&amp;#039;m-off-to-work peck on the lips, grab the back of his head with both hands, pull him against you, and slip him major make-out tongue.  Why he&amp;#039;ll melt: When it comes to sex, men need only the smallest suggestion to get their juices flowing. With the simplest hint, you can send his brain spinning into a you-centered sexual fantasyland that leaves him primed for play later. And while you&amp;#039;re busy driving him to distraction, you&amp;#039;re also transmitting sexual self-esteem without threatening him. &amp;quot;You&amp;#039;re showing him that you have the confidence to convey your sexual assertions to him,&amp;quot; says Amanda Craven, author of Sex Magic (Virgin, 2000). A woman who&amp;#039;s uninhibited about sharing sexual thoughts suggests she&amp;#039;s someone who will offer assertive action in the bedroom. But subtlety is key: By playing it cool and slightly coy, you minimize the pressure on him to perform.   At a casual restaurant, lose the fork in favor of your fingers. Look him in the eye while you lick off any excess salt or sauce.   Why he&amp;#039;ll melt: You&amp;#039;re showing him that you&amp;#039;re comfortable with contact, says Craven: &amp;quot;When you touch yourself in a sensuous \u2014 not even sexual \u2014 manner, it&amp;#039;s an invitation for him to think of you in those terms.&amp;quot; When he sees your self-stroking, he won&amp;#039;t be able to resist thinking of his own hands on you.   Or better, borderline flirty with the cute bartender, doorman, or salesperson who&amp;#039;s helping you.   Why he&amp;#039;ll melt: You&amp;#039;re awakening his most basic instinct \u2014 competitiveness. If you keep your moves benign (too much jealousy can trigger his temper and cause major problems, warns Ruppel), he&amp;#039;ll be dying to let everyone know you&amp;#039;re his. &amp;quot;Showing him that you&amp;#039;re attractive to other people will remind him how lucky he is to have you,&amp;quot; says Craven. "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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