<http://schema.org/articleBody>
"Wow- I thought I was aggressive!!&amp;amp;nbsp; 70% of you said I should behave like a lady...and jump him. As the votes rolled in I started thinking about how I&amp;#x27;d handle being the one to kiss him first. I&amp;amp;nbsp; had a strategy all worked out: I&amp;#x27;d get the smooch over with before the date even started just to alleviate my anxiety.&amp;amp;nbsp; Unfortunately (for HIM), the prude bailed on me hours before the date. Via text message. And now I&amp;#x27;m left wondering: Was it him? Was it me? Was it the blog? This guy has always been a total mystery to me and his reason for canceling was equally enigmatic. I&amp;#x27;m SO disappointed. If he did ditch me because of my (rather complimentary) blog entry, well, I just keep trying to tell myself that I wouldn&amp;#x27;t want a guy without a sense of humor anyway. Even the 23 year old, who I&amp;#x27;m seeing tomorrow night -- STAY POSTED -- could have been offended by our conversations about his age, but was cute and lighthearted about it. I would have missed out on a great night out with my girlfriends anyway.&amp;amp;nbsp; We got dressed in our t-shirt dresses, beads and ballet slippers and went over to Cheebo, a great cafe near my house, where I have a crush on a &amp;amp;quot;regular,&amp;amp;quot; who also happens to be an actor, named David W. Ross. He&amp;#x27;s one of the stars of the new film Quinceanera. If you&amp;#x27;ve seen it, he plays the promiscuous English neighbor.&amp;amp;nbsp; And if I get my wish he will be a future blog :) Then we did some bar-hopping where I met some new guys, including a bad-boy bartender who wants to show me how to surf (will I EVER learn?), a few egotistical &amp;amp;quot;agents&amp;amp;quot; and a great guy who says he&amp;#x27;s straight but is definitely gay. Welcome to Hollywood.&amp;amp;nbsp; I don&amp;#x27;t mean to sound like Debbie Downer but all night long I was thinking I&amp;#x27;d rather be on an intimate date than doing the whole &amp;amp;quot;single and mingle&amp;amp;quot; thing. Whenever there&amp;#x27;s a bump in the road, I go right back to wanting to be with my ex boyfriend, the one who can never marry me. I won&amp;#x27;t belabor the point and ask you again if I can go back to him, but I&amp;#x27;d really love to know how long you think it&amp;#x27;s going to take before every little romantic stumble brings me right back to wanting him. It&amp;#x27;s been 4 months. How long should I stay hung up on him before I need to worry that something is wrong with me?&amp;amp;nbsp; Click here to vote "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
<http://www.glamour.com/sex-love-life/blogs/man-needs-date/2006/08/arty-guy-can-kiss-my>