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" Is it true that guys lose interest in you if you have sex with them on the first date? I really shouldn&amp;#039;t be telling you this, but yes, in most cases, guys lose interest if you have sex with them on the first date. Sure, there are exceptions. I know some long-term couples who knocked boots just hours after they met, but they generally had an intense bond to begin with. For the most part, having sex too soon is not wise. It takes away the mystery, the exciting buildup, and all the hard work a guy actually wants to do to win you over. It&amp;#039;s the chase that keeps him up at night thinking about you and checking his cell phone every five seconds to see if you&amp;#039;ve sent a text.If a guy tells you differently, don&amp;#039;t buy it. He might come on strong at first, but deep down, he doesn&amp;#039;t want you to cave. In fact, here&amp;#039;s a little secret: Guys like holding out, because when the payoff does arrive, it&amp;#039;s even more gratifying &amp;amp;#151; not only because the anticipation is so intense but also because the more you know someone, the better the sex is. Now, if you just want to wham-bam and be done with him, then by all means, do him on the first date. Maybe you&amp;#039;ll be surprised to discover you&amp;#039;re really soul mates or something, but I wouldn&amp;#039;t count on it. If you think there&amp;#039;s any chance that this guy might have relationship potential, for God&amp;#039;s sake, keep your panties on...at least until the fourth or fifth date. At that point, he will have gotten to like you so much, he won&amp;#039;t want to walk. "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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