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" My live-in boyfriend has become obsessed with working out. He goes to the gym every night after dinner and on Saturday and Sunday mornings. I think it&amp;amp;#146;s great that he&amp;amp;#146;s found something he loves, but I want him to spend that time with me. I asked him to try going before work, but he said he has trouble waking up that early. I feel like I never see him anymore, and I&amp;amp;#146;m starting to wonder if it&amp;amp;#146;s intentional. What do you think? Hmmm. Not to make you paranoid, but what makes you so sure he&amp;amp;#146;s doing cardio and not some other woman? See, his gymrat routine strikes me as a bit suspicious. You say he works out seven days a week, so he must be huge by now, right? If he has the body to back up this hard-core regimen, he might have a compulsive exercising disorder, one that requires the help of a counselor or therapist. Even professional athletes take a day off once in a while.  If he hasn&amp;amp;#146;t bulked up or trimmed down, then he&amp;amp;#146;s clearly not going to the gym as much as he says he is. Which begs the question: Where is he going? My guess is that he&amp;amp;#146;s using this new obsession as an excuse to either avoid you or to be with someone else. Whatever the reason, you need to confront Mr. Universe ASAP.  Pick a time when you&amp;amp;#146;re just hanging out, look him straight in the eye, and ask him point-blank if he&amp;amp;#146;s seeing someone else. It&amp;amp;#146;s difficult to lie when someone catches you off guard, and I suspect you&amp;amp;#146;ll be able to tell right away if he&amp;amp;#146;s hiding something.  If you get the sense that he&amp;amp;#146;s not cheating, tell him that you miss spending time together and would like him to make an effort. But if he still won&amp;amp;#146;t change his ways, the bottom line is that he&amp;amp;#146;s more interested in the gym than hanging out together. It hurts to hear, but you&amp;amp;#146;ll be better off with a guy who wants nothing more than to be with you. "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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